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Welshgirl38
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Susette,

Im so sorry hun - i really am. That must be so hard, my love goes out to u and ur DH - hugzzzz

Becky Xxxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
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Post by Ange »

Oh Susette... I'm so so sorry! I know how much this hurts. To get one's hopes up and then have them taken away. I've been there, and it is harder than initially getting a BFN. Hang in there sweetie, you have a wonderful attitude and your time will come.

Lots of hugs,
Ange
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2 failed IUI's 9/06 10/06
1st IVF 12/06 - BFP; m/c
2nd IVF 2/06 - BFP TWINS!

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Post by Fed7281 »

Susette,

I am so sorry honey! I am sending you and DH my thoughts and prayers.

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Post by ssalgado »

THANK YOU LADIES,

AUNTY YOU ARE ALWAYS AROUND TO SUPPORT ME THANKS...

ANGE- YOU INSPIRES ME..YOUR WORDS HELP ME GO THRU THIS HORRIBLE TIME... GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR TWINS...

MY- THANKS YOU ARE RIGHT CHIN UP BUT I FEEL BIT DOWN RIGHT NOW SO IT IS HARD TO KEEP THE FAITH SOMETIMES YOU KNOW? BUT TODAY IS A NEW AND DIFFERENT DAY AND I DO HAVE MY RESON TO LIVE WHO'S MY SON , WHO BLESSED MY LIFE 2.50YRS AGO AND STILL BLEESING ME MAKING ME A MOMMY ... HE ALSO IS MY MIRACLE THRU IVF AS YOU GUYS KNOW.. IT IS JUST HARD TO GET HOPES UP WITH A BFP AND THEN HAVE IT TAKEN AWAY SOOOO ABRUPTELY...IT HURTS!!! BUT LIFE CONTINUES...

COOKHOLMES- THANKS I TOUGHT IT WORKED AND IT DID BUT NOT FOR TOO LONG WHICH IS THE WORST PART..:(

WELSH- THANKS YES IT IS HARD BUT WE NEED TO CONTINUE....

TC-THANKS I KNOW YOU GUYS ARE A GREAT SUPPORT THAT ALWAYS ARE HERE WHEN I AND ANYBODY NEEDS YOU GUYS THANKS FOR HELPING ME GOING THU THIS HARD MOMENT.

FED- THANKS HUN... DONT WORRY ABOUT ME WE WILL BE FINE RIGHT NOW I AM DOWN BUT I WILL GET UP MY SON IS ON MY SIDE AND THAT ALL THAT I NEED RIGHT NOW... YOU TAKE CARE OF YOUR BABIES OK...

SHANTALA- IS OK, I KNOW YOU ARE HERE FOR ME AND THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS JUST LIKE THE REST OF YOU LADIES YOU ARE WONDERFUL WOMAN THAT HAVE A MARVELOUS STRENGHT AND CAPABILITIES TO HELP, HEAL YOUR SELF AND OTHERS AND THAT IS A WONDERFUL POWER TO HAVE .......

MY LOVELY LADIES I WILL KEEP CHECKING IN .. YOU GUYS HAVE A GREAT WKND I WILL PROBABLY BE DRUNK (KIDDING) HAVE MY SON TO WATCH OUT FOR .. BUT DEFITENELY A FEW DRINKS FOR SURE!

A VERY, SAD SUSETTE BUT THE HAPPY ONE WILL COME BACK.....
1st IVF-ICSI 2003-BFP SEBASTIAN IS 2.5 YRS OLD
1ST FET-DEC-2006 1 EMBY-BFN
2ND IVF-ICSI- FEB-2007- BFN
2ND FET-BLAST-MAR2007-2 EMBIES- BFP-3RD BETA WENT DOWN-LOST PREGNANCY.
3rd IVF ICSI OCT-2007 2BLAST TRF-BFN
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Post by charlie78 »

Susette - my heart breaks for you and DH. My thoughts are with you, I am so sorry.
Big Hugs
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3 x IVF & 1 FET all BFN
IVF number 4 = BFP!!

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Post by lara312 »

Susette i'm so sorry its so not fair how you can be given a bfp and then have it taken away we are all here for you when you need us sending hugs to you and dh
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Post by Macca8 »

Susette,

I am so very sorry for you and DH. I have been in your place so many times before and I know how painful it is. I wish I could give you a great big hug and tell you to grieve but have faith in yourself too for the future.

Much Love,
Lisa XXX
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Post by jemima »

SS, Im very sad about your news. Sending you lots of Hugs n prayers

Luv, Jemma
Me 34, DH 35

ICSI end of July 2007 - BFN
My2LnT
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Post by My2LnT »

OK ladies I have a question about AF after Provera..... Well as we know her drunk self arrived Wednesday and was very very light and is gone today Saturday. Is this normal?

Hope everyone is well

XOXO
Steph
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Post by mom20 »

hi everyone very quiet on here lately how is everyone ?
dont like to see our site and the bottom so posted to boost it back up
off to the gym for me hope everyone is ok

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Post by shantala »

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ImageJaby...BFP
Beta ??? ?Dp5dt...
3rd January .....First US???
ImageBecleo...BFP
Beta 141 ?Dp?dt...
26th December .....2nd Beta 194
11th January .........1 Perfect beanie
ImageImagelisag999...BFP
Beta ??? ?Dp?dt...
17th January .........TWINS!!!
Imageamcsmith...BFP
Beta 134...
15th January ......2nd Beta 496
29th January......1 Healthy beanie
ImageMeg12...BFP
19th Jan HPT +ive...
??th January ......Blood test
ImageAMD...BFP
25th Jan Beta 257...
29th Jan Beta 2960
15th Feb First US...1 perfect beanie
Imagedruiett...BFP
29th Jan Beta 211...
31st Jan ...2nd beta 442
13th Feb ...1st US
27th Feb...3rd US...1 perfect embie
7th March....app with obgyn
ImageSilvaCharm...BFP
31st Jan Beta 57.4...
2nd Feb......2nd beta 127
5th Feb......3rd beta
ImageImageHopeful-in-lv
...BFP
4th Feb 1st Beta...726
6th Feb 2nd Beta...1499 TWINS!!!!
ImageImageFed...BFP
5th Feb HPT +ive...
9th Feb 1st Beta...337
11th Feb 2nd Beta...845
18th Feb 3rd Beta...13,937
26th Feb...First US - IDENTICAL twins!!!
7th April...US
ImageImageMacca...BFP
5th Feb HPT +ive
7th March u/s....FRATERNAL TWINS!!
ImageEms...Hpt +ive
2nd March u/s.....1 beanie, possibly 2!
16th March 2nd u/s....1 Perfect Beanie confirmed
ImageWISCONSINGAL...BFP
6th Feb...1st Beta ???
??? Feb...2nd Beta

ImageImageTony...BFP
6th Feb...... 1st beta ???
?th Feb......2nd beta
ImageNouna...BFP
16th Feb...... 1st beta ???
?th Feb......2nd beta
ImageHaylie...BFP
16th Feb...1 perfect beanie
8th March....1 perfect heartbeat!
26th March.....next US
ImageFionaA...BFP
26th Feb...1st beta ??
Imagemominwaiting...BFP
24th Feb...... 1st beta 140
26th Feb......2nd beta 367
ImageCinny...BFP
26th Feb...... 1st beta 201
28th Feb......2nd beta 343
2nd March......3rd beta 600
5th March......4th beta 1510
8th March......1st U/S....1 perfect beanie!
ImageImageAnge...BFP
23rd Feb...... 1st beta 16
27th Feb......2nd beta 159
3rd March......3rd beta 614
17th March.....1st U/S...TWINS!!!!
30th March.....US


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charlie78...Test 10th AprilImage2 perfect embryos snuggling inImage



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"Ovarian Vacation"
BigWhiteHapyDog...IVF...2nd April.......ImageBaseline and start Lupron (Stimms 4th)
JackieG...IVF...6th April.......Image(DR) Start Stimms


COUNT DOWNImage
Jemima...IVF...5th March.......Imageappointment with OB specialist...now??
My2LnT...IVF...30th March.......ImageB/line scan...now??
arizonakiwi...FET...??th April.......Image start BCP
PMApsy...FET...??th May.......Image FET
Becky...IVF...?????.......Imageon NHS waiting list


ImageIN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS AS YOU MOVE FORWARD
Dory so sorry wishing you well in the future
Gbnut in our thoughts and prayers
Tex in our thoughts and prayers
TCBalgord in our thoughts and prayers
Sokru8 in our thoughts and prayers
Jordan sadly lost im so sorry in our thoughts and prayers
Raintree in our thoughts and prayers
js200632 in our thoughts and prayers
empmtb in our thoughts and prayers
cookholms in our thoughts and prayers
phxivf in our thoughts and prayers
Faithful1010 in our thoughts and prayers
Jodic in our thoughts and prayers
Lara312 in our thoughts and prayers
ag817 in our thoughts and prayers
Emma27 in our thoughts and prayers
Aunty in our thoughts and prayers
beachbaby in our thoughts and prayers
druiett - 1 twin sadly lost, i'm so sorry, in our thoughts and
prayers

shantala in our thoughts and prayers
ssalgado in our thoughts and prayers
Angie65 in our thoughts and prayers

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Becleo.....3rd April, charlie78.....11th April
2nd IVF/ICSI - baby girl Elliana born 21.4.08 weighing 7lb 6.5ounces; 7 frosties left...
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Post by My2LnT »

Hope all is well as for me I got the call that I have to repeat the hysteroscopy on Friday since we have had 2 failed cycles ..Has anyone else had to do this??? Well I also got to take 1 more step forward and I FINALLY started the BCPs Sunday 4-1-07.They said after test on Friday the 13th (Friday the 13th see my luck) they will give me my schedule then. Woo Hoo I feel like I am getting somewhere Finally

Sorry no personals and so short just got back from short trip to beach and shewwww we are all tired.

XOXO,
Steph
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Post by jemima »

Steph, Good luck on Hysteroscopy. I had one before to remove polyp. I don't know if it necessary to be done regarding to the condition. I also want to know. Good luck on BC. Wish this cycle will be your time :D

Shantala/ Auntie, sorry i haven't answered your question. So many things in my mind. But just days before, I have decided. I think all i can do is do everything the best i could n let God completes. I will start BC around Mei. I hope everything goes on plan. :D

Luv, Jemma
Me 34, DH 35

ICSI end of July 2007 - BFN
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Post by Haylie »

Susette - I'm so sorry, life is so cruel please look after yourself and try and keep smiling!

Rach - how's the diet going? No easter eggs for you. At least you have a plan again now, hopefully it will fly by!

Charlie - how are you doing? resting lots I hope. I pray you get your BFP

As for me I'm doing okay. it's all very hard but the baby is keeping me going. I had my scan last week and the little arms and legs were waving around it was amazing. ex - dh came with me, very emotional but it's done now and he won't be coming again. He is now playing mind games with me so the sooner we move out of the house the better it will be and I can distance myself from him

Anyway sorry to moan about my situation I know I'm blessed to be pregnant

Take care all
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IUI Nov 05 - BFN
IVF Aug 06 - BFN
FET - Jan 07 - BFP!!!!!!

Scan - 08.03.07

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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Haylie Hun,

Dont u worry about moaning (ur words not mine lol) about ur situation. Not once while u were going thru all this did u ever (or anyone else for that matter) think that ur DH would decide he didnt want to be 'married' no more, So you have every right to rant and rave about it. I cant imagine what pressure and stress you must be under, my heart goes out to you. Im so glad u got ur BFP, it just goes to show that no matter how we wrap ourselves up in cotton wool each time we 'go thru treatment', and how we be carefull not to get too stressed etc, that it really is down to nature and what will be will be.
Your a brave and wonderful woman to carry on, and im so glad you did. I wish you well for the future, your going to have a wonderful life with your baby, either with your DH or not. Whatever the future holds, yours is going to be wonderful ......

Lossa love to you and your baby.

Becky Xxxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
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