I'm back here again I'm afraid

beckym · Post by **beckym** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 11:27 am

Hi to the OCBs and NCBs. I'm afraid I'm back. Our 8 week scan on Monday showed that I had had a missed miscarriage shortly after week 6 - there was just a sac there, no embie, it had been reabsorbed. We were both gutted but kind of expecting it as initial hcg levels and 6 week scan results were not that great. Had a D&C on Tuesday morning. Just can't wait to see the back of 2003 as it has been a horrific year for both of us - I have been in hospital 4 times (twice with ohss) and dh has been in hospital twice. We are hoping to cycle again in April/May, but in the meantime dh is going to see an andrologist to see if there is anything they can do to raise the sperm count as we have not investigated this yet. Also have my follow-up appt with Mr T on Jan 16th. We are also going to look into adoption from abroad at the same time. Have got through the last 72 hours and feeling a lot more positive now about things, particularly as I know that Tracey S has got pg again. Traci, sorry it couldn't have been a happier ending!! beckym xxx

GB · Post by GB » Thu Dec 18, 2003 12:13 pm

Sorry to hear all that Becky! Take your time and do whatever you think is right! May 2004 be a better year for you both! In the meantime, relax and Merry Christmas! Take care. Gila xx-x-x

Grace · Post by **Grace** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 12:40 pm

Dear Becky I am so sorry to hear this news. You and DH really have been through the mill this year. I don't really know what else to say except am sending you a huge hug. You are sounding very brave and positive which is wonderful. Lots of love Gracexxxxx

Annie · Post by **Annie** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 1:05 pm

Dear Becky, So sorry for your loss. I too had a pretty sh***y 2003 ( two early mcs following fet) and heres hoping 2004 is a better one for all of us.Take good care of yourselves love and best wishes Annie

jen · Post by **jen** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 2:14 pm

Dear Becky I am just so sorry to have read your bad news. It must be absolutely gutting for you both. You seem to be very strong so I think that will help you. I'm really sorry Becky. Sending you lots of love Jen xx

Alison · Post by **Alison** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 3:03 pm

Oh no Becky, that's terrible news. As others have said, you've been so strong through all of this. Be good to yourself and DH, and hoping that your dreams come true in 2004. Love Alison x

JULES K · Post by **JULES K** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 3:43 pm

Hi Becky, so sorry to hear your bad news.Why life is so cruel to some of us I just don't understand. As the other have said though you sound as if you are felling pretty positive, I think once you make the decision that you are going to go again you sort of feel a bit better as you have renewed hope. Lots of love to you and dh thinking of you Julie xx

Nick · Post by **Nick** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 5:10 pm

Becky, Oh you poor thing. I have a feeling I will be joining you too shortly. Both you and I had lowish hcgs. Do you remember? I have 6 week scan tomorrow. AAAAAAAAAAAAArgh. What is perhaps worse is that we are escaping UK for a tiny island in the Canaries for two weeks. Already planning where to have the D & C. I don't know how to console both you and DH, except to remind you that we are all thinking of you, and support whatever you choose to do. We too are considering adoption from abroad. Try and survive Christmas, With love from us here, Nicky Phil and M.

Magnus · Post by **Magnus** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 5:29 pm

Dear Becky, so sorry to hear your bad news,I can't imagine how you and DH must be feeling,this whole process can be very cruel. You seem to be a very strong and positive person which will help get you guys through this,just take your time. My thoughts are with you Magnus xx

helenlouise · Post by **helenlouise** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 6:13 pm

I am so so sorry for you. Take good care of yourselves. helen xxx

Dawn V · Post by **Dawn V** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 6:42 pm

Dear Becky Like the others have said I'm so sorry to hear your news, you sound very positive aand brave. Take care of you and dh and look forward to 2004 Dawn xxxx

Di · Post by Di » Thu Dec 18, 2003 9:24 pm

Hi Becky, So sorry when I saw your posting over here - you've been so strong and positive. I too know the pain of m/c and know that you and DH will find the courage and strength to get through this. Take your time, be good to each other and yourselves, Huge hugs, Di

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 10:31 pm

Becky My heart goes out to you , I am so sorry , I feel very deflated now you poor thing , gosh what we have to go through but nothing prpares you for this kinda stuff, you take care of each other now and make sure you have lots to drink now , I do mean Alcohol!!!! {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{BIG FAT HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Trace x

dineah · Post by **dineah** » Thu Dec 18, 2003 11:30 pm

Becky, I'm sorry for your lose. My hubby and I also experience the same experience just a little over a month ago. It was heartbreaking, but it answered a big question that I had... that I can conceive. My prayers go out to you and DH. I am scheduled to have another IUI tomorrow and praying that it will turn out positive. Take care, Dineah

SJ BROWN · Post by **SJ BROWN** » Fri Dec 19, 2003 9:28 am

Theres not much I can add but just want you yo know I am thinking of you. Stay strong for each other and good luck for your next tmt, lets hope 2004 is your year.....you definitely deserve it after what you have been through Sarah xx

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