Dream and then nightmare...

[Estelle]

Hello everyone!
I am new to this chat Forum but very happy to be able to talk about my situation. I have to say it sounded a bit depressing at first, looking at all the unhappy mails ; but it also tells me that I am not alone. We have been trying for a baby for nearly 5 years. I have just had an ICSI in Leeds hospital, with a wonderful team! I was pregnant and then near the 6th week I miscarried... I was given my dream, I was so happy, life was wonderful and then the dream is snatched away and you get a nightmare... It all happened this week and I have already asked to be referred for a 2nd one. But I am frightned to death. My husband who was very favourable to adoption, now feels that it is out of the question. He wants a child from me, looking like me, having the same temper as me! so if it never works then we will be without children. I truly hope he will change his mind if it is the case.
Sorry I go on and on. I am just very sad and lonely.
How long does it take to be referred for a second time? Is it faster than the first time?
Thank you for any answers!

Regards

Estelle

[meg12]

Estelle--I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. From what I've heard, most doctors here in the States have you go through one full cycle after a mc before trying again. I'm not sure if that is true outside of the country...

Hoping and praying for you!