Waiting.....

[maya6481]

Hi all- i am new to these boards as of today. I was searching for a board to be able to share and talk to women who are going through what I am going through. I am almost 26 and live in New York.
I had my transfer on May 2nd, Wednesday. I am having IVF because 4 years ago I had to have my right fallopian tube and right ovary removed due to large cysts, and the scar tissue that formed in the area is what is causing my infertility. Me and dh have been trying for a year, until I realized that I needed to go to a specialist. He gave me the sad verdict that I may never be able to concieve naturally due to the scar tissue. So here we are on our first ivf cycle.

This whole thing is scary beyond words.I think the waiting is whats killing me the most at this point. I go to get my blood test done on Friday- today is Monday.
Im worried- what if Im not pg? I feel so sad because it seems to come so easily for 90% of women, while its so heartbreaking for me. Everyone around me says to stay positive. Thats what Im trying to do.
Ive been feeling crampy for the past 3 days now. Not sure what that means.

I am so tempted to go out now and buy a pg test, although I hear that its not such a great idea.

I would love some words of wisdom from some of you women out there. Its nice to be able to share.

Thanks!

Maya

[Fed7281]

Hi Maya,

I had to post as our stories are so similiar as we are both 25 amongst other things. I had both my tubes removed due to cysts and hydro (fluid of the tubes). When I went for IVF we found that my husband also had a sperm issue, so we did IVF with ICSI. On my first attempt here I am pregnant with twins. I know the wait is KILLER, but try and stay postive and I tried to find a project to do so that it did not seem so far away. I am praying for your postive result!!

Please keep me posted!

Erin

[maya6481]

Hi Erin,

Wow- how exciting- twins!!!!!!! There is no bigger blessing. I say that people who go through infertility issues are the ones that will be amazing parents- no doubt that you will be a great mom.

I just did somthing dumb though.. I went to the store and bought a HPT. I did it and there was a strong line, and a faint line ( you can def see the second line)- which pretty much means yes. I know it might be false, but it is giviing me hope. I am 4 days before my blood test...... eek, I know I shouldnt have, but I couldnt wait!

Maya

[charlie78]

Maya

Sounds very positive to me! Good luck with you official test!

Charlie x

[kate26]

Hey im also on my 2ww. and what a long time its taking, i had my transfer last thursday and my bt is next monday.
Sounds like you may have a Bfp, they say you can have a false negative but not a false postive, so ill cross my fingers for you, good luck for friday, wishing you a bfp

[laurie35]

Hi just read your message,and have realised today is test day,how did it go?

[Henrietta]

Maya, any luck on your Beta. What were the results. I definatley thing you got a BFP. Faint line is good.