December-January Cycle Buddy's Our New beginnings

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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bigwhitehapydog@aol.com
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Post by bigwhitehapydog@aol.com »

Aunty and Steph, Thanks so much for the words. I'm doing better today. I don't have much faith that it will be a BFP, but I guess there is still a wee bit of hope. I probably wont be devestated when I hear it, as I went through that all Monday. I'm convinced now it's a BFN, so any different would be a huge suprise. Thanks for everyone's support.

You are all the greatest! I wish you all babies very soon!!!! I will be peaking in to see what's going on.

Shantala, I know you're going to start again soon, I'll be watching you!! :shock:
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2nd IVF (FET) - 1991 BFN
3rd IVF - 1992 BFN
4th IVF - Oct 2006 BFN AGAIN!
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Hiya Hun,

Hav u had ur Blood Test yet? Im praying for u,

Let us know as soon as u can,

Hugzzzz

Becky Xxxxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
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Post by mom20 »

good luck bigwhitehappy dog for today hopt the evil HPTS were wrong


as for me i am waiting for phone call to let me know if got a job or not interview waz this morn i had to do a 5min presentation so i did a powerpoint on my laptop. My ive never been so nervous in my life anyway they seemed impressed so fingers crossed i mite get it my stomach is doing summer salts waiting.

please god let me get it :roll: :roll: :roll:
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Good Luck Mom,

Let us know.....

Becky Xxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
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Post by My2LnT »

Janice I completely understand after I did my HPTs on both cycles I lost all hope for that BFP but gave myself a lil extra days to let it sink in and cry before they made it real..... I do hope that I see you get your BFP but no matter what I am wishing you the best !!!!!

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Post by bigwhitehapydog@aol.com »

Hi Girls! You are all the best! Thanks so much for the cheering and words of hope.

Unfortunately, as suspected, It was a BFN for me AGAIN :cry:

I'm doing ok, Although DH was holding out hope, so he's quite down. I got most of mine out of my system all day Monday when I took the evil HPT.

I could have never gotten through it without all you guys. Thanks again for all the support and for being there. We all know what a rough road this is to travel.

I probably wont be trying again, as that was my last shot with insurance, and I really can't afford to do it out of pocket again. I've already done that a few times. So.... I think for me it's time to say stop and get on with my life. I have a great life, and this would have really made it perfect, but I still have a wonderful DH and family, and two great dogs, and just want to move on and be normal again.

I wish you all the best of luck in your tries, and wish you all the biggest fattest BFP's ever. Baby dust to you all. Take Care.

Janice

I'll be peeping in on you all!
ME 40 DH 42
1st IVF - 1991 BFN
2nd IVF (FET) - 1991 BFN
3rd IVF - 1992 BFN
4th IVF - Oct 2006 BFN AGAIN!
5th Time a charm??? Hopefully, April 07

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Post by My2LnT »

As I said Janice I am so sorry for your BFN :cry: I wish there was something I could say to make it better but.... I know there is nothing that takes that feeling away.... So prayers and positive thoughts with you and DH :wink:

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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Jan,

Hey hun - im so sorry about ur news :(

Im only glad that you are already looking forward to the rest of your life. You do have a great life hun, you have a great DH who loves you very much - you have 2 dogs who are loyal to you only. Sometimes i think we take for granted the things that we have in our lives, and only when summit like this happens we sit back and realise - you know what - we are happy, we have got many things that some people dont have.
You go an be normal hun - enjoy spending time with you DH and family. My love goes out to u as always ....

Becky Xxx

P.S Please keep in touch hun, your a brave woman who deserves some happiness in her life xxxxxxxx

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Post by jemima »

Janice,

Im so sorry about your news. You n DH are in my thought n prayers

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Post by tcbalgord »

Janice so sorry to hear your news hun.

Becky said it right....you are all such strong and couragious women and each of you deserve a liitle piece of heaven on Earth.

Good luck dears....I look forward to reading and pictures of all your good news in the future!
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Post by Fed7281 »

Hi Ladies,

Sorry I have not checked in for a while. Things with me have just been crazy and my PC at home is not working!

Janice I did want to tell you how sorry I am to read your news. I wish you and your DH the best in the future!

Becky- CONGRATS on your start in June, I will have everything crossed for you!

Well, I just wanted to let you all know that I found out yesterday that I will be having two more little boys! I am so excited and all looks pretty good so far. I just wanted to share my news with the ones that helped me through the journey of the IVF. I wish you all the best and I always do peek in and read up on all of you!

Wishing everyone the best!

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Post by My2LnT »

Erin - Ohhhh thats so cool 2 boys. Congrats and glad to hear all is going well with you and the boys :D

Hope everyone else is doing well.
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Post by ssalgado »

CONGRATS ERIN THAT'S GREAT!!!!!

I AM GLAD THAT THINGS ARE WELL WITH YOU AND THE BABIES , 2 BOYS WOW!!!! THAT MUST BE AMAZING... GOOD LUCK AND KEEP TAKING CARE OF YOUR SELF AND THOSE WONDERFUL BABIES... :)
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1ST FET-DEC-2006 1 EMBY-BFN
2ND IVF-ICSI- FEB-2007- BFN
2ND FET-BLAST-MAR2007-2 EMBIES- BFP-3RD BETA WENT DOWN-LOST PREGNANCY.
3rd IVF ICSI OCT-2007 2BLAST TRF-BFN
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Erin:

Hiya hun, thats GREAT news about ur boys - i bet u cant wait.

My treatment will start in July (by the time my AF arrives in June (end of), then 21days later i will start

Bring it on ............

Congrats again hun
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Becky Xxxxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
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Post by lara312 »

Erin glad things are going well for you congrats on the boys
hugs to you and babies
Hi to everyone else
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