Dear Henrietta,
I am so so sorry to hear about your BFN. This TTC journey is so full of highs and lows
Here's to the next IUI being a successful one.
I think that we made the right decision to wait, I really need to get my head round this whole situation of needing help so will maybe even wait until July. We'll see. My sister, husband and baby are coming to stay at the end of June and DH's brother and sister in law brought round all their old baby stuff yesterday for them to use. they don't want any more children so have said that they'll leave it here for us. Hopefully we'll get to use it all ourselves one day
Take care and let us know how you go.
Jane
Me - 38, DH - 40
Mar 07-laparosopy, tubes unblocked
Jul 07-IUI BFN
Aug 07-IUI cancelled
Sep 07-natural BFP
Dear Polly,
Am thinking of you today but as you are so far away maybe you have already had your IUI and are now on the dreaded TWW. Hope that all went well and it wasn't as bad as you anticipated.
Sending heaps of babydust
Have a good weekend and take care.
Jane
Me - 38, DH - 40
Mar 07-laparosopy, tubes unblocked
Jul 07-IUI BFN
Aug 07-IUI cancelled
Sep 07-natural BFP
Thanks Jane for the support. Maybe next cycle will be the one. Jane, are the baby clothes for boy or girl? That is so neat that they brought you stuff. I don't know that I would be able to have all the baby stuff in the house especially if this does not work for me then I think the baby stuff would just get me down. How do you feel about it? Polly, how is your IUI coming along. Let us know what is happening with you. Hope all went well and lots of baby dust coming your way girl!!!!!!!
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TTC 1 year
1st IUI Jan 07 BFN
2nd IUI Feb 07 cancelled
3rd IUI April 29, 07 2ww=BFN
TTC ICI again Mar 08
TWW Test April 8th resulted in BFN
2nd ICI April 26, test on May 10.
Hi Jane & Henrietta, thanks for your support.
First up Henrietta, i felt very down when i read you had negitive result. man my heart goes out to you big time. But chins up aye, next month is a matter of days away and lots of baby dust coming your way.
I have been missing as my IUI came around 2 days earlier than expected. so we had to head off for that. What a nightmare. Man it was not a nice experience at all, and i had two days off work with horrible cramps and basically feeling like i had been hit by a train! Onwards and upwards though, back at work, on 6dpo and just enjoying my week - not worrying too much about dreaded testing, just my aching right ovary that is driving me mad. DH was fantastic - we drove down leaving home at 5.30 am arrived in CHCH 4.5 hours later, took me for breakie and to my fav Scrapbooking shop to treat me! then the clinic and they made me wait 1/2 hour in waiting room, i was an absolutle nervous wreck! I was pacing the floor thinking about " am i ready to be a mum" am i ready for donor insemination" and a million other crazy thoughts. Finally went in and 2 spectrums and the lady fishing around up there for what felt like ages - horrible cramps and a 10 min rest we were off for lunch. Back on the road, 4.5 hours later climbed into bed! So yeah, IUI been there, done that - GOT THE T-SHIRT (as the saying goes).
jane - good for you deciding to wait. You can only do what is best for you aye. Brilliant you have some family coming to stay. A nice distraction aye from the day to day fertility rollercoaster. Still thinking of you heaps as we are in a very similar situation.
Can i just add - im so nervous about testing, yes i still have days to go but i dont want to test and don't want to see AF so much, its been months since the disappointment of trying naturally and its so hard to face it again. Henrietta, im sure you know what im saying. Thanks for all your wishes girls - right back at ya.
Its not our ideal way of having a family, but i know its going to be our ideal family.
16 May 07- First IUI BFP!!!!!
Azoospermia in DH
Trying since 2005
Polly, I can't imagine having to drive 4 and a half hours to my clinic - wot a nightmare, luckily mine is just half an hour away. Hope that the cramps aren't too bad, easy to say I know but just take it a day at a time. What date do you test?
Henrietta, the baby stuff being there right now doesn't bother me as I know it's for my sister and I haven't even looked in the bag of (girl's) clothes. I'm feeling really chilled out about the whole thing at the moment and have decided to wait until July for the IUI. We have booked a flight to Croatia at the weekend and plan to sail for a few days around the islands, I'm so excited Have you started stims yet?
I'm really glad that we didn't do the IUI this month as we both have colds and aren't feeling top fit at the moment The IUI would probably have been today and I can barely speak, I took a class this morning and then cancelled everything for the rest of the day. You never know we may have a natural BFP this month or next and if not then I think my head will be ready to accept that we need help in July.
Take care,
Jane
Me - 38, DH - 40
Mar 07-laparosopy, tubes unblocked
Jul 07-IUI BFN
Aug 07-IUI cancelled
Sep 07-natural BFP
