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Steph, you seem to be good at getting those appts moved up :lol: . As far as pains, I haven't had any back pain but just pains in my uterus area like a pulled muscle occasionally. I've heard of other with the back pains and that seems to be normal. I believe it's due to all of the stretching and growing of the uterus. Was it you that had the high hcg beta levels? maybe multiples causing the pain???? Have you calculated your due date based on LMP yet? I used the calculator on this website and it's saying that my due date is Jan 31, 2008.
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Jovi - No... my beta was not that high first was a 98 at 11dp3dt. our last was our 3rd yesterday at 504. Yeah I went to 2 different sites one does the IVF cycle at http://www.ivf.ca/calcu.htm and that says I think mine is Jan.29th you should try there and see what it says. We will see what tomorrow brings hopefully a sono or atleast finally being able to schedule one. We are 4weeks5days today... wow. Didn't ever think that I would be able to say that I was preggy again I think that I am still in shock.LOL

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Post by Cori »

Hi Jovigal!
No results yet. I had my blood tests done this morning but my clinic was closed. I guess that I will find out tomorrow but unfortunately not feeling too hopeful. I have been afraid to do another hpt since the negative 4 days ago but I hope there is a chance that I will be pleasantly surprised. I feel fairly normal except for major heartburn and bloatedness.
I am soooooo happy for you and everyone else with BFP's. You all are an inspiration to keep on trying and to not give up.
I will let you all know tomorrow the final result.
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Cori
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Post by Pat19 »

Hi Ladies,

mandeeq - Hi hon, how you feeling? you had any symptons? hows your (.)(.) mine were on fire this morning, but have now calmed down.


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Post by mandeeq »

HI PAT

I am doing bit better, I still have breast sore, my sickness changed in the evening know last two evening I was feeling sick nausia vomiting and cramps on off, bloating and backache.

It is really hard what to think if this good or bad sign, my test day will 7th June and it looks far away.

I am trying to keep busy but rest as well

When is your test day and how are you feeling?

So good luck to you all! Thinking of you!
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Post by Pat19 »

Hi Mandeeq,

Good to hear from you. I'm doing good today really, only had the sore
(.)(.) first thing this morning and I've only felt sick twice today.

I have no clue whether these are good signs or bad, as I've never been pregnant and wouldn't know how a pregnant woman felt, so for me I'm just going with the flow and hoping for the best.

I'm feeling very tired all the time, but I think that's caused by me been lazy, I haven't really done much since ET apart from eat, sit at pc and sleep.

My test date is 4th June.

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Post by Cori »

I found out today that it was a BFN. I don't know whether I ma depressed or angry. I just cannot figure out why this didn't work. I know that it was my 1st IVF and they only transferred one embryo because of my premature ovulation but it still does not make sense. I want to try again but I don't know if I can take the heart break of another negative. Has anyone ever been given a reason why IVF's don't work? I am young and basically my only problem was my right tube which is now clear(shown on HSG). So, if my tubes were the problem and they are surpassed through IVF anyways how can IVF not work. I know this is a ridiculous qustion because I know it doesn't work for a lot of people. I am just venting. I have been told that I can start again immediately in 3 weeks but I don't know what to do.
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Cori - I am so sorry to hear about your BFN :cry: I wish you the best no matter what you decide.

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Jovi - saw your post and just wanted to say I was so happy for you. It's been a long road since November, I'm sure, but I was thrilled to see your bfp. Best wishes to you!
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cori - im so sorry that it didnt work as expected..... sometimes, it's not yet the right time.... if ever you need to talk or vent or whatever, just pm me or post here... you will get lots of support from the ladies here who knows what you're going through.....

like you.... i just learned friday of my BFN .... it's my first IVF try too... i was devastated at first but with the help from everybody here, i was able to overcome the feeling of sadness ...

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Post by bebe »

cori- i just got my BFN as well. have to find a way to pull myself together and go back to work. this was my 1st IVF and i don't have any answers as to why it didn't work. just lots of disappointment. you mentioned you can start again in 3 weeks. is that with stims in 3 week? just trying to figure out if i should stay with the clinic i'm with i wouldn't be able to stim again until july 13 and that seems really far away.
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Cori & bebe - sorry that your 1st IVFs didn't work out for ya. Sometimes it takes the first IVF for the RE to get the correct protocal for your body then you get your BFP with your 2nd one. don't give up!!!

suzhan - thanks for checking in on me and for the well wishes. I'm really nervous at this point. I go Fri for my first scan. It was around 7-8th wk mark last time that I m/c. Looks like you are doing well. good to hear from you!
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OK ladies keep your fingers crossed tomorrow is the 4th beta. To my clinic it is supposed to double.... Even tho last time it didn't I guess we will see what is going to happen with my lil bean. Say an extra prayer that lil one decides to have a growth spurt.

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Post by wanttodiscuss »

:o :o Great News !!!! HPT is BFP!!! :o :o

I am 8dp5dt and I know it is early to get excited as I don't get my blood test done for another 6 days, but I can't help it.
The line is a little faint, but it is early so I am hopeful it is fine.

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Post by Cori »

Thank you all for your support and words of encouragement. Marsxp and bebe, I am so sorry to hear of your negatives also. It sure isn't easy, as you both know. I thought I was okay because my gut told me that I wasn't pregnant anyways but when I heard the definitive answer I was absolutely heartbroken. But, I am now a day removed and think I am going to try again right away.
Bebe, to answer your question, yes, my clinic told me that I will be able to start right away again. I will start Lupron 3 weeks after I get AF. The issue that I have to talk to them about is that I am going on vacation June 21 and I hope this doesn't sound selfish but I would like to have some drinks. I don't know if I will be able to do so while on the Lupron and Metformin. So, I may end up waiting a month.
Congratulations to all of you with BFP's and to those of without, let's not give up. This all WILL work. It just has to. You are all in my thoughts.
Love always,
Cori
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