Angela - Sorry to hear, I know how your feeling hon, it's a cruel world we live in. Let it out, have a good cry, I cried for about 8 hours yesterday, I just couldn't stop myself.
Hello gang
I have an appointment with the RE today at 945 and I am looking forward to getting information on going to the OB and such. I get to see the babies today...WooHoo! I am so thrilled about that. DH and I talked about finding out what we are having and he is totally against it. What do you guys think? I want to know....Oh well it really doesnt matter.....I am so happy I really don't care what we do.
Angela
I am so sorry to hear that. I was so hoping for you....So sorry hun. I know how it feels and it really sucks. For sure have a good cry-regroup and check in when you can....Thinking about you.
Sophie
I have that situation. Along with the big bbs I have the darkening...weird eh???
Babysoft
when I took those I mixed them together for one shot. I don't think that it really matters. You are right the ovaries do not care about that!!!
Tia
I am so happy that things went well for you. By the way taking a dump is totally fine. A natural body process not going to hurt the embies.
Tanya
IVF #1- 6/2006-DH had vasectomy
VERY SADLY ended in m/c of a beautiful baby girl at 12 weeks on Aug. 28, 2006.
FET 1/2007 -ive
#2 IVF/ICSI-4/2007 BFP!!! 1st beta 708!!!!
Sophie and Riley Arrived Dec. 10th 2008!!!
Angela, I'm so sorry sweetie. It hardly ever works first time. Take some time and then you'll get back on for your next go.
Pat, I'm sorry you feel that way, would you never consider adoption or saving the pennies for another go in a while? Whatever you decide I hope you will be very happy.
Tia, well done on the ET, sounds like it went really well.#
Jen, I'm in at 2pm today, I think you're 6 hours behind me in Texas so your time I'm in at 8am, just an hour or so after you. I'm going to put my feet up this afternoon so will check in and see how you got on. I'll not bedrest either but will try and take it easy for a couple of days.
Sophie, that sounds like a positive sign, fingers crossed.
Speak later.
Jxx
me 33, dh 41
ttc 3 years
1st ivf feb 07 -BFN
2nd ivf june 07 - BFN
3rd ivf nov 07 - BFP! :)
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just wanted to pop in and say hi to everyone and hope everyone is getting on well with their tmt. i'm finding it really hard to keep up with everyone and am also on the awaiting tmt thread as i'm not cycling yet. i'm still waiting for AF and then dont start until 21 days later so i have more in common (timing wise) with the awaiting tmt thread at the moment. hope you dont take offence by that ladies coz i do read your posts all the time but just cant post regularly.
everyone on their 2ww, try and keep sane and praying for your BFPs!!!
love to all
xxxx
2nd IVF/ICSI - baby girl Elliana born 21.4.08 weighing 7lb 6.5ounces; 7 frosties left...
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Hi all, it is early in the morning and only my dogs know I am awake for my primogina (med for thikening the lining in the uterus). Read you all yesterday and felt very connected with this thread of hope. Must say that after many searches for a spiritual home and a set of beliefs that made sense, I've found out that the only way we can have freedom to become individuals (given that our genes do not determine everything to us) is to live in this undetermined universe, in which there is not a direct connection between merit and result- in many things. Our job is to try to lign all forces in harmony so more good can materialize in the world. But that doesnt garantee a happy ending. So sorry for Angela and her husband, and the little peg waiting in the car. Life carves it's own time, and so does death. We do our best in staying together, and now is my turn to cry for Arizonakiwy. Dear Angela, after you stop crying, hope you can collect the intense love you've given and received during this attempt and save it to whomever will become your child in the future.
Quick personals as my heart is cloudy...
I am thinking of Jenn779 (I get so confused with the names/nicks), Tia good luck in your tranfer. Tia, believe in your body, take a dump, drink and eat when you feel it is the right time!
Mommytobe, the implantation happens between 3 and 4 days after the transfer, may you tinybeannies find a fluffy nest sometime soon!
All steam ahead for the stimmies in our thread (Hrobinson, Heather...)
Gbnut, keep us informed about the endo monitoring - good luck!
Babysoft, what is FSH? follicle stimulant hormone? Good luck and welcome!
Sophie, how are you doing?
Julie or Jul1e (I am so confused now, sorry if I confounded you both...) how is the transfer going? You asked about Brazil....I get emails from the clininc regularly. The donor is 28 years old and she wants to get pregnant and can't afford the treatment. I can, so we split the eggs - win/win!
PMApsi, hoping your hormones behave as if theyweren't disturbed by anything...thanks for the advice, I did talk to DH - it was great. We decided to hope and dream as much as we wanted as that doesn't increase the chances of disappointment. And yes, black areolas express the hormone change during pregnancy. I don't know if they could be side effects from the hormonal treatments, though. I hope not!
Baby thoughts to all mommies to be!
Dear TransRN, thanks for starting this thread!
In unity and love, Literatriz
me 50, dh 54
2 BFN after IVF in Brazil
1 BFP after IVF in Brazil (Clinic Origen, thanks!)
I've noticed some of you are asking if I have any plans on doing this again, but the answer is no, I'm am calling it a day now, I have actually posted a separate post explaining my reasons for this decision, please feel free to go and have a read.
I’ve been gone for awhile because my mom’s boyfriend of 6 years died unexpectedly in her home last week. I took the week off work and stayed with her and of course went to the wake and funeral. My mom is such an amazing woman and I’m so heartbroken she is now alone. Even through her pain she was worried and didn’t want this to affect my FET coming up.
Pat and Angela-I’m so sorry about your BFN’s and my heart goes out to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I hope everyone else is doing well and will write more later.
L
Me 34, DH 34
Nov 06 IVF-BFN, March 07 IVF-BFP but miscarried at 5 weeks, 2 days, June 07 FET-BFN, Oct 07 IVF-BFN
May 08 IVF-BFP but miscarried again
Well I went for my second ultrasound today and they said that everything looks really good! I am so excited-The babies look good I figure that I am about 6 weeks and 3 days and the babies measured 6 weeks 2 days and 6 weeks 1 day. I get to stop taking the Estrace and I only take the PIO every other day. The Crinone gel I still have to use and I will continue until 14 weeks. Not too bad. I am so excited about the babies. I hope that they just continue growing at this rate!! I talked with the ultrasound lady and she said that I will have just one more u/s next week on the 12th and then I will be released to my OB!!!! At that point she said I will be transferred to a high risk perinatologist just because of the twin factor...plus I had pre-eclampsia with both my boys and I want to be watched very closely this time around. I can't wait to feel the babies moving which will be coming up here pretty fast. I am also going to rent a doppler. I loved it last time. I got it from Bellybeats and it was simply the best item I have ever rented!!! I feel really good about the babies and the pregnancy. Moving forward once again and on the wait until the next ultrasound on the 12th.
ltaylor
That is so horrible about your moms boyfriend. I can't even imagine. My thoughts are with you as you deal with this....
Literatriz
So glad that you like it. It wouldnt be the same without all of you lovely ladies that are here. Everyone is so supportive and caring and that is wonderful. Thank you so much. I do appreciate it.
Hey Shantala-good to see you...
Thinking about you Jen!!!
How you holding up Tia???
Tanya
IVF #1- 6/2006-DH had vasectomy
VERY SADLY ended in m/c of a beautiful baby girl at 12 weeks on Aug. 28, 2006.
FET 1/2007 -ive
#2 IVF/ICSI-4/2007 BFP!!! 1st beta 708!!!!
Sophie and Riley Arrived Dec. 10th 2008!!!
Just a little update..I'm having my u/s tomorrow morning. I'm trying not to get excited hopefully that one lone folly from last month isn't taking all my meds...I'm just praying I have at least 6 full grown follies....anywhay we'll see!
Hope all s well and Tans wonderful news about the babies!
That's my babies home! I was sooooooooooooo nervous today, it was just horrible this morning, I couldn't do any work at all. I went and had lunch with DH and then to the clinic. I was really scared the embies might not have made it. Anyhoo they transfered two blasts which is what I wanted. One was perfect the other a little behind but the embryologist was very happy with them both. What a relief! So I've come home and been on the couch ever since. I've got to go to accupuncture soon and then it'll be back to the couch for me. The accupuncturist I went to this morning for the first time as mine's on her hols was nice but was so much sorer than mine! I wonder if that makes it more effective or if he's just mean!
Shantala, good to hear from you. Still waiting for AF, imagine you were up the duff all by your ownsome (well with a little help from your DH!)
Liberatriz, you have such a lovely way of putting things, you sound like a very balanced person - send me some of those chilled vibes for my 2ww please! I am Julie (sign in name Jul1e). I love your situation, it helps you and the lady in Brazil, how lovely, I hope you both get your babies.
Ltaylor, I'm so sorry to hear of your and your mum's loss, that's just awful. Look after each other.
Tanya, your scan sounds great. What's a doppler?
Babysoft, good luck with the scan tomorrow.
Sophie, when you get a min I'm ready for the 2ww status!
Take care all
Jules xx
me 33, dh 41
ttc 3 years
1st ivf feb 07 -BFN
2nd ivf june 07 - BFN
3rd ivf nov 07 - BFP! :)
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Okay...I have my 2 little ones snuggling in! They transferred 2 grade 4AA blastocysts. Top of the line! I was so excited that we didn't have to thaw the other vial, so I still have 2 sleeping beauties. They also told me my lining was GORGEOUS!!! I don't hear that very often..LOL!!! I feel great..I am just going to hang out with my sis and relax for the next three weeks. I decided to take the time off and relax..and wait til June 19th. That is the only hard part!!!! I didn't do an HPT last time, but I might be tempted this time since it was a FET...still deciding.
Julie...glad your transfer went well! Keep me posted of your symptoms. I will be curious to know. So exciting that we will be in the exact same place!!!
Ltaylor...sorry to hear about your loss. That is just devastating. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tanya...you are well on your way girl! I am so excited for you! Keep us posted on ALL your developments! BTW, what is Crinone gel?
Babysoft...good luck on your US tomorrow. Hoping you have lots of follies!
Well that is all for now...I have to get back to my movies!
Jen
Endo, fibroids, cysts
Laproscopic sx 09/06
1st IVF February 2008--BFP
miscarried on 3/16--chemical pregancy
FET June 2007
FET July 2007-PREGNANT!