May/June Cycle Buddies

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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Post by Jul1e »

So sorry L. Thinking of you. Jx
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Post by gbnut »

ITaylor

really sorry for you. sending lits of ((((hugs)))) to you and DH. Take care

Susan x
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Post by My2LnT »

Sorry all I know that I have been MIA on posting, but hope everyone is doing well. I do read about you all everyday.

Ltaylor - I am so so sorry things didn't end better I was praying you would get that BFP..... So Hugs and support to you.

Tia - Hummm like sophie said with the wicked smile things do have a way of splitting and dividing. Wishing you the best at your appt.

Tanya - My preggy buddy I am so glad that those lil babies are doing well. Have you gave them nicknames yet?

Sophie - Your room sounds fantastic. I'm glad that you have date to go and start the process again. It is always nice to have a specific date to look forward to.

Hrobinson - Hope things are going well I didn't see a post yet. Lots of luck.

As for here we go again tomorrow for what should be our last appt. with RE and on to OB next week. I am supposed to wait 2-3 weeks but figured 1 week is enough in case I want or feel like I need to switch OBs.

Wishing everyone the best. I will try to be more support and stop being a bad poster :cry: But I do check in all the time so I am always here crossing fingers and praying for you all.

HUGS......
Stephanie
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Post by Literatriz »

Dear Ltaylor,
I wish Life always responded with Life but that doesn't happen as we would expect. Many women never realize how many times they have conceived and lost unviable cells in their life time. You waited and waited and now your hopes are a heavy rock with no promises in it. I will be here, praying for you, holding a tiny bit of your sadness. Hope you keep it for as long as you want, as it is a way of connecting with the love you have created for your hoped child. Hope your partner finds the strength to be with you, even closer, tonight.
May time and love transform this bitter rock into soft sand as you walk on the shore and wet you feet into the ocean of Life.

Love, Literatriz
me 50, dh 54
2 BFN after IVF in Brazil
1 BFP after IVF in Brazil (Clinic Origen, thanks!)

Three little girls born February 27th!!!
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Post by Literatriz »

Dear all, Ltaylor`s BFN really made me feel less prone so socializing but...
Here it goes, in short:
Susan, Jul1e, PMAspy, GBnut...good luck with the upcoming FETs/IVFs. How long do you need to wait until all "old hormones" are washed away?
I am curious about the increased fertility rates in women who eat less animal protein (case of malnurished 3rd world women). Should we eat less meat? I eat very little meat but right now I cut if even more. I am not saying anyone should do the same. It is just a thought.
I am back into the US - they did my passport in a day because I showed a doctor's letter about the transfer...and the officer found that I should be with the father :)
Arizonakiwi, I did write to my DH - thanks for the suggestion! My love for him goes way beyond having a child with him. Right now, we are both within the 2wws boat - and there are no calm waters!
Enjoy the planning and, latter on, the trip to Japan!

Love you all,
Literatriz
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2 BFN after IVF in Brazil
1 BFP after IVF in Brazil (Clinic Origen, thanks!)

Three little girls born February 27th!!!
PMApsy
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Post by PMApsy »

ltaylor,

Hello sweetie... I'm very sorry that you didn't get your BFP this time... the waiting for that call must have been very nerve wraking. My thoughts go to your DH and you. *HUGS* when you're ready sweetheart, and if you feel like it, give us news so we know how you're doing. In the meantime, I wish you lots of comfort from people you love and trust.

With love,

Sophie xxox
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Post by hrobinson »

well ladies, I still don't have the results. it was quite a mess this morning. My clinic is 360 miles away, but they said I could do my test in the town that I live in. so, I found a clinic that would do my test and have the results the same day. I then called my clinic and they were to fax the orders in. Well, I had to give a state mandated test today, so I got up extra early to be the first one in the clinic. Well, my other clinic had never sent the orders, so they couldn't draw blood. I called my IVF clinic, which of course did not open for another hour. So, I left a message for them to fax the stuff immediately. After my kids finished with their test (5 hours later) I went back to have my bw done. IVF clinic NEVER faxed the orders. This time they got a nasty voice mail from me. (I have to drive 20 miles to get bw done...and with gas so high it makes me mad. However, much closer than the 360 miles). Anyhow, just as I got home, IVF clinic called and said they just faxed the orders in. So, again I was back to get bw done. They said my dr. would have the results today. However, my dr. closes as 3:00 and it was after 3:00. So....even though I know I am not pregnant, I am still waiting for that official call.
Thank you guys so much for all your prayers and support. I will e-mail the "official" results tomorrow when I get them. I have already taken myself off progesterone so...
Thanks again though.
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Post by TansRN »

hrobinson
That is a bunch of crap! I can't believe it! This is THE most important test you have to do as an IF patient!!! Geeze-I can't believe it. Let us know when you can I bet you are about dying!!!

ltaylor
that really stinks. I am so sorry to hear about your BFN. I really am.

Literatriz
I loved your comments to ltaylor. Well worded and very encouraging.



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Post by arizonakiwi »

HRobinson - I am sorry your clinic messed you around - sending you lots of hugs and I hope they call you early in the morning very apologitic

LTaylor, sorry about your BFN - I hope DH is giving you lots of love and cuddles.

Love to you both,

Angela
Me 37 DH 54
3rd IVF/ICSI Nov 07 BFN
March 08 FET BFN
June & Aug 09 DI BFN
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HRobinson - I am sorry your clinic messed you around - sending you lots of hugs and I hope they call you early in the morning very apologitic

LTaylor, sorry about your BFN - I hope DH is giving you lots of love and cuddles.

Love to you both,

Angela
Me 37 DH 54
3rd IVF/ICSI Nov 07 BFN
March 08 FET BFN
June & Aug 09 DI BFN
PMApsy
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:evil: AWWWW, MAN! WHAT A CRAPPY SERVICE! I mean, how HARD is it to send a darn fax?!?!?! Even if my dearest DH is "fax-challenged", he can still do it! They deserve a big kick in the rear!

Oh my poor sweetie, you know how much I empathize with your situation... knowing a day later when you could have known the day before... I'm so sorry for you sweetheart, and I hope your results come fast so you can go through the final step for this cycle and move on.

*MEGA HUGS* I'm thinking of you darling...

Sophie
1st and 2nd IVF = BFN 1st FET BFP! m/c at 7 weeks. 2nd FET BFP! 3rd FET BFN
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Imagemommytobe BFP! :D Congratulations! (Beta = 461 9dp5dt) Second beta 1169 11dp5dt, third beta 10 081 15dp5dt! :shock: Looks like another twins alert is coming... or more! First u/s on June 28th!
ImageJenn BFP! :D Congratulations! Beta June 4th 918 (13dp3dt). Second beta June 7th 1893 (16dp3dt) :D U/s June 12th! One cute little beanie growing well! Due date Feb. 9th! Blood test and/or u/s June 14th.
ImageTansRN BFP! :D Congratulations! (Beta = 709 10dp5dt) TWINS ALERT! :D Second u/s on June 5th and everything looks fine! u/s June 13th, twins are looking good and developing well! Due date Jan 24th! Discharged to ob-gyn!
ImageMy2LnT BFP! :D Congratulations! (Beta = 98 11dp3dt) 2nd beta 221 (13dp3dt), 3rd beta 504 (15dp3dt), 4th beta 1829 (17dp3dt). U/s on June 1st showed a healthy little beanie; due date January 30th! :D u/s on June 12th showed a growing little beanie!
ImageJovigal BFP! :D Congratulations! (Beta = 87.9 10dp3dt) U/s on June 12th; heard the loveliest sound: a strong little heartbeat! Cutie grows fast and measures .64 cms; due date Jan. 31st or Feb 1st! Next u/s June 25th.
ImageNimble Positive HPT; natural pregnancy! Congratulations!

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Imagehrobinson 2 perfect embies transferred on June 15th, beta when IVF clinic personel eventually take their heads out of their a**es! :evil: (13dp3dt) 5 frosties left!Image
ImageLiteratriz 2 perfect embies transferred on June 15th?, beta July 3rd (?dp3dt) Image

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ImageBabysoft First IVF cycle! started stimming June 4th! First u/s June 6th
ImageShantala.... starts stimming July 26th.

ImageOvarian vacation
gbnut.... started downregging on June 19th; down regging check? FET planned for mid-July. Lots of baby dust to you sweet friend! *hugs*
Shantala.... starts downregging on June 30th; down regging check on July 24th.

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ImageShantala.... fresh ICSI cycle

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Imagemarsxp, we are sorry to learn the news of your BFN and we all send you love, hugs, and good luck wishes for your journey towards motherhood. Take care sweet friend.
Imagearizonakiwi, we are sorry to learn the news of your BFN and we all send you love, hugs, and good luck wishes for your journey towards motherhood. Take care sweet friend.
ImagePat19, we are sorry to learn the news of your BFN and we all send you love, hugs, and good luck wishes for your journey towards motherhood. Take care sweet friend.
Imagemandeeq, we are sorry to learn the news of your BFN and we all send you love, hugs, and good luck wishes for your journey towards motherhood. Take care sweet friend.
Imagegbnut, we are devastated to learn the news of your miscarriage and we all send you love, hugs, and good luck wishes for your upcoming FET. Take care sweet friend.
ImageJul1e, we are sorry to learn the news of your BFN and we all send you love, hugs, and good luck wishes for your journey towards motherhood. Take care sweet friend.
ImageJen, we are sorry to learn the news of your BFN and we all send you love, hugs, and good luck wishes for your upcoming FET. Take care sweet friend.
Imageltaylor, we are sorry to learn the news of your BFN and we all send you love, hugs, and good luck wishes for your upcoming FET. Take care sweet friend.
1st and 2nd IVF = BFN 1st FET BFP! m/c at 7 weeks. 2nd FET BFP! 3rd FET BFN
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Post by shantala »

hi everyone

sorry ive not been around but ive been really, really busy at work (where i cant check the internet) and have had some other stuff going on. anyway, just wanted to say so sorry for all the BFNs. i really feel for you.

hrobinson - that is absolutely terrible!!!!!!!!! :evil: :evil: i'm so sorry you have to go through that as well. i'll be keeping everything crossed for you but if it is the news that you're expecting then i'm sorry and you know where we are. it may not seem like it but time is a healer.

sophie - thank you so much for updating me on the list hun. *hugs* you sounds like you're in very good spiritis, which is nice to hear. sorry your next app is so far away but actually next week you can say "its next month" so its not really that far at all.

hi to everyone else!!! thinking about you all

xxxxxx
2nd IVF/ICSI - baby girl Elliana born 21.4.08 weighing 7lb 6.5ounces; 7 frosties left...
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Post by mommytobe »

Hi Ladies,

Hrobinson, sorry about the service you are receiving, you would think with such a delicate situation they would be more reliable. I hope you get your news very soon.

Ltaylor, sending you hugs, sorry about your BFN. This fertility journey can be so unfair sometimes, I hope you will try again very soon. I am here for you and your DH.


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Tia
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Post by mommytobe »

Hi Ladies,


Its official TWINS. I saw them and heard the heartbeats. It was so wonderful so, no splits here for me. I only have 3 more days of the progestrone thank God. Next week is my next appt with the clinic and then i am released to a regular obg. I must admit i am nervous about going to some place else.


TWINS TWINS :D


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Tia
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