So sorry you're going through this horrible time. Life can be such a ***** sometimes. Sorry to hear what the doctor had to say, I don't really understand about the compromised cervix but obviously you are worried that you could have the same happen to you again if you got pregnant again.<br><br>You're bound to feel very empty for a while - I did after losing my last baby at 11 wks, so you will be a lot worse having to go through the extra grief of giving birth. There's nothing I can suggest to make you feel better - it's just time and plenty of TLC between you & your hubby. No one should have to go through this kind of thing.<br><br>Thinking of you,<br>Luv Rachel X
Becky<br><br>dropped you an e mail last night - so sorry about the docs - I am not sure what this means or if anything can be done - sorry feel very ignorant.<br>Is there still hope?<br>Massive loads of love to you<br>Tracey<br>xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
dear ogr,<br> i am new to the site and am so sorry to hear about your loss. my thoughts are with you and your husband and i will keep all of you in my prayers. be strong and try and be comforted with the knowledge that Moses Craig Barrus is at peace with God.<br><br>Take good care of yourself <br>Karen
Becky<br>I am so utterly sorry to hear your tragic news. I really can't think of anything to say that hasn't already been said only that my heart breaks for you.<br>Hopefully, in the future if the time is ever right, there will be options for you if you ever decide to try again and the doctors can fix what they now know is wrong but thank God that you had the blessing, albeit short of knowing your precious son. <br>God bless to you, your husband and the memory of little Moses.<br>Terri<br>xxxx <br>
Hi there. NOt sure what teh com. cervix is about. But just to mention - that my mother had a bicorneate uterus , which in those days was considered to be VERY bad and was told she would never go full term, and it was dangerous to have a baby. Well she just took it vyer very easy when she had me, lay down for 3 months at the end. Boring BUT the point it - ever=n then when there was nothing clever they could do - there was a way around what seemed like the worst problem.<br><br>Thinking of you alot<br><br>love<br><br>cazx
Darling Becky,<br><br>I'm sorry these sentiments are so late, but my thoughts and love are with you and your husband. Little Moses was born into a loving and perfect family and that is exactly why he came to you, I am sure he was especially chosen for you because although his life was so very short every second was filled with the greatest love and appreciation of his life.<br><br>Be strong for the future and take very good care of yourselves and each other.<br><br>LOL<br><br>Hope xxxxxxxxxxx
thank you everyone. i tryed to delete this off. i have saved it on my computer. because it has n=ment alot to me.but you guys need to stop thinking about this and focus on your baby or babies. that needs to take all of your effort. we have all worked way to hard to get here.i will be ok.so drink your water and stop posting here so it will go onto another page... i am keeping a watch on all of you...<br>my prayers are with you everyday. we are all very lucky to be pregnant. it is so wonderful and such a blessing.<br> i love you all<br> love becky
cleaning out my old desk and found a cd that had a bunch of stuff on it and one of my old names and password was on it and it worked.. hopefuly i can find my first name that i used..
nick there is hope