
Good luck to everyone and much babydust.
Cathy
The eggs in your ovaries also need energy in order to split after fertilization. Your eggs contain mitochondria, which are tiny cell organelles that provide the energy for the egg. Without mitochondria, your egg wouldn’t have the energy to survive. As you age, these mitochondria produce less and less energy. As a result, any egg that is fertilized will eventually run out of energy and will be unable to divide.
What Causes Poor Egg Quality?
Egg quality is greatly affected by your age. In your 20s and early 30s, you should have a large number of good quality eggs available for fertilization. Yes, you will have a few bad eggs too, but the good ones should vastly outweigh them. However, as you age your eggs will begin to decline in quality as well as in number. By the time you are in your late 30s or early 40s, you will probably have more poor quality eggs available than good quality eggs.
Poorer quality eggs can be one of the major causes of infertility in a number of ways. Firstly, poor quality eggs can make conceiving a child very difficult. If a baby is conceived, a poor quality egg can make the difference between carrying your baby to term or losing it in the first few weeks. Many poor quality eggs do not implant properly into the uterus once they are fertilized. Others implant properly but are simply not healthy enough to grow and divide, resulting in a miscarriage.
Chosing DE doesn't have to be that expensive. You can get matched by your clinic and pay only $3K for a donor (not including medications) totalling around $15-$16 range. Or you can do a shared program which would make the cost of your IVF shared 50%/50%. I suggest speaking with your clinic special svcs coordinator and she can better explain how they're program works and what options they have.If we go that route, it will be nice to be able to make that decision without having to think about the 35K that we would have to spend. 8K sounds a little bit more decent.
The reason the doctors do not put any blame on the sperm b/c all the sperm is a carrier. I've read somewhere this analogy - consider the sperm like a ziploc bag containing 23 chromosomes, with a tail. Its job is to get to the egg in time to fertilize it. Once that is accomplished, it is the egg's job to divide and mulitiply equally. So, really, the sperm job is already done once fertilization takes place. And if you do ICSI, then the best quality sperm are already chosen so quality shouldn't be an issue.Though there is a sperm problem, not one RE will attribute to the sperm as the problem bc they are doing ICSI.
Have you both had karyotypes performed on yourselves? This test could indicate a balanced translocation or some other form of chromosomal mismatch within yourselves. You may also want to look into a Sperm DNA Fragmentation Assay (SCSA). My DH had one done after our 3rd m/c and his sperm have always tested excellent.In the meantime we are going to see whether the sperm can be tested for chromosomal abnormalities.