About the neg comments, there are alot of people who take being a mother for granted, but dont be fooled into thinking that it is not going to be trying at times. No matter how much you want this. I have been waiting for 14 yrs to get this baby, and I know that there are gonna be times that I will probably be on the phone begging someone "to come get this kid".LOL. That os just normal parenting. If you have support from your family and friends you should be just fine. I also think that people just don't know what to say.
Just an example: My bestfriend just had a little boy in April. She and her DH had been trying for about 2 yrs, she has a 12 yr old daughter. Anyway, she called me the other day kinda crying, kinda laughing, I asked what was wrong. She told me that Garrett had kept her up all and night and that he just would not stop crying all day. She said that she finally just laid him in his cradle so that she could go make bottles for him for the day and while doing so she just broke down in tears. She said she did not know what she was going to do with him she had tried everything she could think of.... When she went back to get him out of the cradle she just asked him "what exactly did he want her to do? That he was gonna turn mommy into a crazy lady if he didn't stop crying!!!" She said he immediately stopped crying and gave her the biggest smile and laughed for the first time. She said everything she had been through all night and all day just vanished right there with that little laugh.
So moral to the story is not one mother ever is a supermom, we will all have our times where it will cross our mind" What was I thinking?!?" But then that sweet little miracle will smile or laugh or in some way show you exactly what you where thinking!!!
Have a great day ladies. I have an appt on Tues the 31 so I will post more then.
Til then heres to all our kicks and punches!!!
