We are hoping to begin our first IVF cycle with DE very soon.
I'd prefer a known donor, would love to develop a relationship with the young lady. Wonder if this is uncommon? It looks like most donations are anonymous.
Thanks!
saralee
relationship with donor
you have councling that will tork throw it with you.
i don't won't to meat the person that get the eggs, i don't wont to fell like im in troding on them and that she might think that im takeing over, or won't it back. but i have herad of some pepol that do keep in contact to them and get to gether on bdays. i get wurred that i know the lady if it dosen't work and that she will blam me for it, which i know she won't but i don't think i could take her disapontment.
good that you found a doner and i hope it all works out for you.
i don't won't to meat the person that get the eggs, i don't wont to fell like im in troding on them and that she might think that im takeing over, or won't it back. but i have herad of some pepol that do keep in contact to them and get to gether on bdays. i get wurred that i know the lady if it dosen't work and that she will blam me for it, which i know she won't but i don't think i could take her disapontment.
good that you found a doner and i hope it all works out for you.
Thanks so much for the reply!
We haven't found a donor yet. There is still a possibility that we will use a donor through our clinic although I am a bit dismayed by their waiting list and the fact that donations are anonymous.
But, I placed an ad looking for a donor and the response has been good. I am very interested in one specific donor, time will tell if this is the way we go. I'd love to keep a relationship with the donor, E-mail updates and photos at Christmas ... that sort of thing. It's such a wonderful gift, and I would want to be able to provide any child that might result answers to questions he/she might have about his/her origins.
I won't have a lot of answers until my first clinic appt.
Thanks for welcoming me here.
Sincerely,
saralee
We haven't found a donor yet. There is still a possibility that we will use a donor through our clinic although I am a bit dismayed by their waiting list and the fact that donations are anonymous.
But, I placed an ad looking for a donor and the response has been good. I am very interested in one specific donor, time will tell if this is the way we go. I'd love to keep a relationship with the donor, E-mail updates and photos at Christmas ... that sort of thing. It's such a wonderful gift, and I would want to be able to provide any child that might result answers to questions he/she might have about his/her origins.
I won't have a lot of answers until my first clinic appt.
Thanks for welcoming me here.
Sincerely,
saralee
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Melissa112
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Sara,
I know it's been a couple of months, and I am not sure if you are monitoring this thread any more - but I send you an email with a few questions for you on Egg Dononation - I'd love to talk with you further.
I hope all is well!
Melissa
I know it's been a couple of months, and I am not sure if you are monitoring this thread any more - but I send you an email with a few questions for you on Egg Dononation - I'd love to talk with you further.
I hope all is well!
Melissa
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known donor
Dear Saralee,
I hope you are still checking this thread. I would like to donate but I am only interested in an open or semi-open donation. I would like to know the people to whom the egg is going and, if the parents choose to tell their child of the donation, I would like to be available to answer questions. I want the child to know that their creation and well-being was as important to the donor as it was to the parents.
Sincerely,
Marianna
I hope you are still checking this thread. I would like to donate but I am only interested in an open or semi-open donation. I would like to know the people to whom the egg is going and, if the parents choose to tell their child of the donation, I would like to be available to answer questions. I want the child to know that their creation and well-being was as important to the donor as it was to the parents.
Sincerely,
Marianna