Thank you all very much for you messages. They're much appreciated believe me (hugs).
The service was on Tuesday and although it's paid for by the hospital, as a way of saying sorry to all parents they have a late loss, they pay for the funerals if parents want that. The only thing is the chapel don't provide music and things like that, so I arranged all that as hubby's not that religious, and he made the CD for the service.
This is what we did.
I had a music box that was my nans I'd falled in love when I was 4yrs old. Whenver I went there I'd put it on and watch the doll dance around. Well when my nan passed away a few years ago, I was given the music box, and I played it to my tummy as soon as we knew when babies could hear in the womb.
When I was labour for the 3 days with Tiago, still played the music box to my tummy as I didn't want him stressed out. When he was born we still played it to him and sang, so hubby recorded it on his MP3 Player and edited it so it was on a continuous loop on the PC. He then converted it to Mpeg, so we had it on the CD playing as we entered th Chapel carring him. Then we had my fave hymns, Make Me A Chapel Of Your Peace, then Blessed Assurance inbetween prayers and readings. Then the song playing at the end of the commital was The Glassblowers Daughter by Damien Rice, which is a favourite of hubby and mine.
Example of some of the Cards and service sheets I made.





Front of the Service sheet
Middle
Back page (the pic taken the Friday 3 days before I went into labour)

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Thanks again for your support girls.