Hi Kristin!
Thanks for sharing your story with me. I am sorry that you have also had a difficult journey. It is rare that your FSH is so high at your age as well. Does the dr seem concerned about that and how well you may stim?? Its unfortunate that they make us all wait to do any kind of testing. For women in the 35+ age group drs recommend testing within 6 mo but b/c I was able to conceive I think we waited a bit longer and still held onto hope that it would happen eventually. But after the chem pg, which was our 3rd loss, we said enough is enough. Because of DH not having the vas deferens tubes, with they have to do the MESA/TESA procedure?
The mock transfer is no biggie. They just measure your uterus with a catheter, so they know where to place the embryos. Only downside is your bladder has to be full which can get uncomfortable. August 17 is just around the corner!!
If you have any questions about protocols or procedures, feel free to ask me anytime. I'm no expert but have gone thru it once already so I'd be more than happy to share anything I know. I would also like to recommend these books, they really helped me get an idea of how the cycle works, timeline, meds, etc.
• IVF: The Wayward Stork--What to Expect, Who to Expect It From, and Surviving It All?
• The Couple's Guide to In Vitro Fertilization: Everything You Need to Know to Maximize Your Chances of Success
and this one if you believe in meditation.
• Nurturing Yourself Through IVF: Improve Your Experience, Maximize Your Odds of Success
And if you are not afraid of needles, you may want to consider acupuncture. I've heard alot of women having successful ivf cycles when doing acupuncture atleast 3 months before they're cycle. I, unfortunately, didn't do it and well, ended up with a BFN. But that's not to say if you chose not to do it, it won't work. I've heard that it can help in circulation, reduce stress, help blood flow to the uterus as well as help you ovulate better quality eggs. I just started acupuncture a few weeks go and I really enjoy it. At this point, I'm doing all that I can to help my chances of success and am leaving no stone unturned. We're paying out of pocket for this entire DE cycle, so there's alot of $$ on the line as well as emotions. Some insurance companies can offer discounts on the cost for the acu-. I save $20 per session going thru mine.
sorry so long. Keep in touch.
Cathy