2 week wait anxiety!

cyclone · Post by **cyclone** » Sun Sep 09, 2007 11:43 pm

Just wanted to share that I got the dreaded call from my doctor--BFN. The doctor wants to wait for a couple of weeks and then come in and discuss where we go from here. Easy for him to say.

Julianna--Wishing you all the best tomorrow. Someone is due for a positive result on here. Good luck!!

Melissa

Jill_n_Mark · Post by **Jill_n_Mark** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 3:12 am

Nicole and Melissa - I am very saddened to hear about your BFNs. I know there are no words to ease the pain. I am still dealing as my BFN was this past Wednesday

We are going to see RE 9/20 for post-IVF consult and talk it out and discuss future plans.

Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone...there is alot of support on these boards. Take time to deal with this don't give up!

Take care,
Jill

ICSI GIRL · Post by **ICSI GIRL** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 2:17 pm

1st of all ------- GOOD LUCK JULIE!!!!!! TESTING AT 10:10 --- RIGHT ABOUT NOW IF MY TIME IS RIGHT!!! KEEPING EVERYTHING CROSSED FOR YOUR BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2nd ---- to all you gals w/ BFN's.......i'm sorry.....i'm so sorry

i can relate as i recently got my first bfn as well ----- dreadfully awful...... just awful......you question so many things, starting with "why me" (or why NOT me??)......i know - i went thru all of it too......and i can tell you (believe it or not) that time does lessen the pain

we just went on friday to RE for our "post bfn" visit and of course, i was in tears once doc started saying "i'm sorry for your loss" --- ugh

glad dh was with me... ultimately, doc said my med protocol contributing factor as they think they supressed me too much --- which is why i only ended up producing 4 eggs

(way too few for my age/weight/history)..... ALSO that because i DID get an hcg/beta reading of 15 -- that he's confident we can achieve bfp --- but will follow protocol that assumes i need to be treated to help the embies implant --- apparently there is some kind of meds administered post ET for a few days that increases/helps those embies snuggle in......some kind of blood thinner (don't understand it entirely..........) SO.......all of that being said --- we are hopeful for round #2 in january......need to take a few mo's off and just chill out a bit.....am hoping to lose some weight between now and then as well..........YEE-HA!!!

*******STICKY BABY DUST TO ALL!!! *******************

julianna26 · Post by **julianna26** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 9:19 pm

Well, it looks like a BFN for me. No one has called me to confirm this (so I'm pissed!!) but the urine test came back negative this morning, so I'm fairly certain the beta test will as well. Just a little angry they haven't called yet. They have to realize how important this is for all of us going through this. We wait two weeks for "THE DAY" to come and then don't expect after 5 PM rolls around, to still NOT HEAR ANYTHING...

I'm feeling a lot of emotions right now but I'm glad there are others on here who have experienced BFN who can relate to what I am going through.

I don't know what our next steps are yet, but maybe we will discuss it more as this pain begins to lessen.

Vlada · Post by **Vlada** » Tue Sep 11, 2007 1:49 am

Julianna,
I am very sorry about your BFN, lots of hugs and prayers for you!!!!!!
Vlada

Kelley77 · Post by **Kelley77** » Tue Sep 11, 2007 2:52 pm

Well I guess I am officially part of the 2WW, however I know I should be..but I am not optimistic at all...don't worry, I won't spread my sadness!

Just a question..... I have to take 1.5 ml of HCG over the next 9 days - this was starting day of Transfer. Does everyone have to do this? Does this help in any way?

Also, what are people's thoughts on Assisted Hatching? If I heard correctly from the embryologist (that I spoke with for about 2 min) I believe that he did this..however I was reading that people who had Assisted Hatching done, had to take some special steroid/antibiotic medications...and I am not on anything like that other than the Doxycyclone I have been taking..since before Retrieval...

Confused! Thanks..and Good luck to everyone..I pray each of your dreams finally come true!

Lindsey_08 · Post by **Lindsey_08** » Mon Sep 17, 2007 8:22 pm

Well, I am home from my transfer and lying in bed ....I have to say that this flat on your back thing for 24 hours is killing me.....I am not good at relaxing ....especially when I cannot lay on my side or stomach...oh well! They transferred 2 Grade AA embryos (5 day tr.)....I am officially in the 2ww...I test on 9/28

2 week wait anxiety!

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