HPT

[candidkiwi]

My friends I am in a mess and badly need some advice. I have been trying to conceive with my DH for well over ten years now - I am currently in the 2WW of my first IVF having waited patiently to have funding, and saving hard for private treatment if this time does not work out. I have succumbed (though I tried hard not to) to the dreaded HPT and I am shaking with confusion....can someone please help me here. The pregnancy test has a very definite not pregnant line and a very very very faint second line. I keep looking at it becasue I am hoping it is not my imagination...but it is there.....just VERY faint. I am 8days post ET (3 day ET). What do I do next? I am very stressed out now becasue I was convinced I was not pregnant (no symptons at all now...not even sore bbs). I am also worried that becasue I am so stressed by this (I am shaking as I write this) that I may do harm to the process. These evil HPTs - we should not do them. I promised myself I wouldn't and now look whats happened. Help me someone - give some words of advice or comfort...I am going crazy!
Candidkiwi

[Aliann09]

Candidkiwi, you are still fairly early in the process I tested at 7dpt and also got a faint positive it was there but faint I had double the hCG levels at the time I had twins so mine may have shown up sooner I would recommed taking some deep breaths relax for a day or 2 and test again the more time that goes by the more time you body has to build up hCG which will in turn giv you a stronger positive.
Ali

[candidkiwi]

Thanks Ali,

I have calmed down alot now. I am still convinced I am not BFP - I have absolutely no symptons whatsoever, so it will be a miracle if I am. I get a great deal of comfort reading the posts on this site. We are an amazing group of women with an enourmous amount of courage. There must be a very special group of babies waiting for us all . Good luck with your 9 month journey...and congratulations!
Candidkiwi