1 Twin left

Becky28 · Post by **Becky28** » Fri Sep 05, 2003 3:56 pm

Oh dear, what a sensitive area this is. I hope nobody minds me butting in . . . (if you do, don't tell me off or I'll be sick on you!) Susi and Nicola, first of all, really sorry to hear about your little twins who didn't make it. It's such a very sad thing to happen, especially if you've been making plans and imagining siblings growing up so close together. I do understand what you meant originally Nicola - about counting blessings etc. Perhaps I've misuderstood Kerry (and sorry if so) but were you expecting one (not twins) which you lost? So sad that you did, and people ARE insensitive saying it's for the best. I do think it's a bit different if you've still got a baby growing inside you and can be thankful it's still thriving though. That's easy for me to say of course, as I was always just expecting one, and it continues to do well so far which I am so grateful for and so anxious it carries on! I always agonise over what to write around thorny subjects on here, and would hate to offend anyone. But don't disappear unless you really want to Nicola - you sound like a sweetie I think, and this is all just a misunderstanding. Lots of love to you all - God knows why I've taken it upon myself to sweep in like some kind of know-all - but didn't like the thought of people being upset when this board is such a godsend for us all. Heyho, have a nice weekend all, Beck x

ogr1 · Post by **ogr1** » Fri Sep 05, 2003 4:34 pm

wow. first this site is for helping people and being honest with each other and yourself.. if we cant do that here then i do feel sorry for everyone of us.. we dont have to like what any one else has to say but , every one does have a right to say it... loss is very hard. i lost one twin then the next wk i lost the other. any time there is a loss it is a loss. we all have so many different emtions,please hang in there. there is never a right side or a wrong side. just hurt feelings. i dont think that any one on this site ever means to hurt anyones feelings.... but we all need to speak. this sight is all of our releif and strentgh. every one take a deep breath and lets get going !!!!! if your pregnant you damn well better being drinking all of your water!!!! hope i speeled everything right.. hang in there everyone love becky

Zed2003 · Post by **Zed2003** » Fri Sep 05, 2003 4:54 pm

Suzi & Nicola, I just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you both. Becky is right Nicola. Please don't break from the site because of your 'size 9's' as you say and please don't stress out any more than you need to. Emotions ride high at the best of times and none of us are perfect - I think you just said what you felt and there's nothing wrong with that. Take care EVERYONE Zoe x

RLV · Post by **RLV** » Fri Sep 05, 2003 5:45 pm

Hi Susi Just to add to everyone else and say sorry to hear of the loss of one of your babies - fingers crossed for the little fighter that's hanging in there! Hope the pain soon eases. Take care, Luv Rachel X

Tracey S · Post by **Tracey S** » Sun Sep 07, 2003 3:38 pm

Just popped back in to stick in my ten peneth again!!! No one is right and no one is wrong - this is what makes us all individuals and we all have different opinions on things - that is why sometimes we agree and sometimes we don't What is fab on this site is whatever we agree and don't agree on I believe we all have mutual respect for each other and what we have been through and going through and like the others I would hate to see someone drop off just because they voiced an opinion. Time to get off my soap box. Becky -glad all well and Becky in the states - glad you are still around to chivvy us on - hope each day gets slightly more manageable Love Tracey xxx

ogr1 · Post by **ogr1** » Sun Sep 07, 2003 10:16 pm

i was wondering when you where going to show up.. and every day is a knew day and one day closer for you guys to be holding your sons and or daughters!!!! you guys better get busy and find some names !!!!!!!!!!!!! let me know how the scans go.. love becky

kathryn · Post by **kathryn** » Wed Sep 10, 2003 8:26 am

dear susi and nicloa, i just popped over to see how you guys were doing. Im so sorry for you both on losing your little ones, im thinking of you both and your dh's. take care and big hugs to you both, lots of love kathryn x

ogr1 · Post by **ogr1** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 9:23 pm

havent seen anything from you.. just wanted to let you know that iam here.. becky

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