Hi Su,
You might as well add "taking a month off" to my update. just got back from the doc and i have a follicle that just won't go away. can't take another round of injectables yet or my ovary will hyperstimulate. now i've got to go on the pill for a month to shrink it down! what a waste!!
guess that gives me a month to try and forget about it and relax hmph.
Tina and Mainekitter - I am so sorry to hear about AF coming. I know it is hard and am inspired with how you two have moved on to the next try. I pray that all of us will have a BFP in the next couple of months.
To everyone else, I am sorry I have not gotten on here sooner. I have been trying not to dwell on the situation so much and have kind of stayed off a couple of days. I have been having cramps, but cannot pinpoint if they are period cramps or not. If I don't start Friday, then I will feel a little more positive and can take a test. However, I just have this feeling and I am trying not to have this feeling because then I am negative nelly and will somehow make it happen. So I pray every night and sometimes multiple times during the day for this one to work.
If it does not work, I am going to take a month off because I have to have hand surgery. The problem is that they use a turniquet for 45 minutes during the surgery and I originally was going to move on to my next IUI and just be uncomfortable, but if I am not pregnant, then I am going to opt for the anesthesia and do it that way. If I am pregnant, then I will go through 45 minutes of pain for that, right? I think that if I am not pregnant, taking a month off will do me some good. I feel like I am just so on edge all the time and I think that I am taking it out on DH. I don't mean to, but I do. So I think I need a month off and besides it is our anniversary month and I will be able to have a couple of drinks on my anniversary, that is IF I am not pregnant. So I am going to remain positive the rest of this week and go from there.
I hope that everyone finds their happiness soon. I know it has been a long journey and for most of you longer than me.
Hi ladies
Mainekitter isn't it amazing how one folly can hold everthing up!
Steph I am very much the same. I try and stay positive but its pretty hard. I too have af type cramps but they seem to come and go, sometimes I think it's all just in my head.
I will also be taking a break if this doesn't work. This is our plan B so I'm not really sure what else we can do. I have been on all these fertility drugs non stop since May so I think my body needs a break for a while. I over heard my ds say to dh "mum is so grumpy now". It broke my heart that he feels that way. We are going back home (New Zealand) for a holiday in 7 weeks so I may do another iui after that.
We just have to try and be positive
Kery xx
Male factor
April isci - Cancelled
June isci - Failed
Oct iui - BFN
Apri iui - BFP!
DS 1 year
12 yrs
Kery, Su, and Steph-thank you so much for your kind words.
Hang in there girls! Good luck tomorrow Su! I really really hope you get a BFP!!!!!
Steph and Kery, only a couple more days! hang in there!
I don't blame you guys for considering taking a month off. I did that in september. it was nice to sort of forget about it for awhile, not have to drive back and forth, etc. and really, what's one for month, right? baby born in july or august, what does it matter? it's going to happen eventually, so a few more weeks won't hurt anything.
Good luck, Su!!!! You deserve a BFP!!! We will all be thinking about you!!! Let's hope this is the ONE!!!!
Tina
Me - 40; DH - 42
2 IUI's-BFN
1st IVF: BFP
Noah was born 8/20/08; he's our world!
Started FET 7/11
Only 1 frozen to transfer - praying for another miracle!!!
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hmph.
We're not having a lot of luck on this thread at the moment.
