I was wondering if there were any other ladies out there that have been grumpy ever since they started their process whether it be IUI or IVF. Do the hormones make everyone else grumpy like they do me? I am just tired and on edge all the time. Now, I know that is a pregnancy symptom too, but I just cannot smile like I used to. Kery - you had stated that you DS had mentioned to DH why is mum so grumpy? My husband feels like I am telling him what to do all the time and I did not used to be that way. I am not enjoying sex as much either and even though when on the Clomid, I actually have a really high libido. I just need a break, I think. I know it has only been a couple of months, but I stress enough for 2 people, so that is almost like 4 months right? I will find out Friday about this 2nd IUI and let everyone know.
My dh works off shore most of the time and I think he likes it that way at the moment!! I think its just a hormone over load. Our bodies don't know if it's coming of going. Ivf was even worse. One minute you are down regging then you are stimming, your body must be so confused.
Kery xx
Male factor
April isci - Cancelled
June isci - Failed
Oct iui - BFN
Apri iui - BFP!
DS 1 year
12 yrs
Hi Steph,
I was really grumpy also. I find i'm often having to force myself to do things i usually love. also have to bite my tongue and take a lot of deep breaths. it's gotta be the hormones and the stress of wondering 'when is it going to happen for me?'
Grumpy is an understatement!! I feel like i have been a straight B#@$^&!!
I totally know what you mean. I just want to feel truly happy about something again without this lurking in my mind. Infertility isnt for wussies thats for sure!!