Feeling very sad

Announcement of pregnancy and birth following assisted reproductive treatment.
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yarnista
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Feeling very sad

Post by yarnista »

Hello everyone,

I just got some sad news this week. I was pregnant with twins and went in to see the fertility clinic for 10 weeks and the nurse told me one of them no longer had a heartbeat and stopped growing at 8 weeks. I'm trying to look at the positive side that it is mother's nature way to take care of things but am still feeling very sad.
The other baby looked good, moving around and a strong heartbeat. I just can't help worrying about that one too. I know it's not good for the baby for me to be upset but I can't help what I'm feeling. I don't think it would be normal for me not to feel this way.
Support and advice would be so appreciated. Love to all.
Me: PCOS
DH: variocele
1st IVF March 2007: BFN
2nd IVF August 2007: BFP!
TWINS!lost one precious baby at 8 weeks
nicaliw
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Post by nicaliw »

I am so sorry for your loss. It must be quite a mixed bag of emotions to be so excited about being pregnant but so sad for looksing one precious little person. Hy heart goes out to you and I wish you a wonderful pregnancy with your little one.
FET April 18th
1st heartbeat 6w3d 115bpm, 9w2d hb 171bpm
MATTHEW ARRIVED DEC 19TH....8 lbs 9.7 OZ
[img]http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/2;12;51/st/20081219/n/Matthew....baby+%232%21/k/ab96/age.png[/img]
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