Oct/Nov Buddies

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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wannabeamomma
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Post by wannabeamomma »

Talisen- I am so, so sorry. Take care of yourself and know you are in our hearts.

kelly-Looks like yo are moving right along....

For me te 2ww is making me crazy. Well more than I already am anyway. :wink:


Babydust!
Me, 31, Dh, 30
ttc since 2001
1st Ivf 7/2006-m/c at 6.5 wks
2nd Ivf 10/2007-hoping for a miracle
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tilly3709
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Post by tilly3709 »

Talisen-I'm so sorry. Take some time for yourself and know that you are in my htoughts.

Vickers-Congrats on the ET can't wait to hear your BFP!!

wannabeamomma-how's the 2ww wait going. We're almost there. Are you going to HPT.

Anie-Hopeing all is going well.


So the 2ww is driving me crazy. Trying to keep up the PMA. Go back to work tommorrow so that should help releive some of the bordem.

Sorry for everyone I missed.

Blowing Sticky Baby Dust your Way!!!

Michele
Me-35
DH-36
Unexplained Infertility
6-IUI's BFN
1-Natural resulting in m/c @ 12 weeks
1st IVF-Cancelled poor response
2nd IVF-BFN
vickersx3
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Post by vickersx3 »

I have a question...We had a day 5 transfer, so how many days after transer would the embryo implant?
jen babes
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Post by jen babes »

Vickers - withing the next 24-48 hrs...get your wife to eat loads for freah pineapple as it helps embies stick... much lobve and luck x x x

T-cat i am so sorry hun x x x love to you xxx x weell i have some sad news too buddies my beta has dropped...Its sad that its all over for this little embie....little one Loved and lost...

the next step is to stop the meds( already done) and Af should arrive in 3-4 days .If not will need a scan then D&C. The clinic said that i should bleed ok as only 5 wks gone, they also said we have been unlucky...
yeah I know that script already. As we have been through this twice before....The only consolation ( spelling???) is that this has been lost at 5 wks and not later on where i know it can be more heart breaking ( as those who have had m/c know only to well x x x)

we have decided to wait until DH's busy schedule at work is over ( Nov-dec) and go for FET in Jan.
the only good thing to come out of this is to say at least i did get preg and I gotta hold onto that...

but as you all know Grief hurts like hell...and time is the only way to mend my & Dh's broken hearts. We have each other and that is a Blessing.


unfortunaltely ,my Parents in law are due up tomorrow for 4 days. Nightmare to have to be so vulnerable to them but Will need to tell them as i will be in floods of tears for a few days...

will catch up with you all soon...

much love to you my buddies my friends my support network . thanks for being there for me

much love to you all as always
love jen
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Post by kellym »

I am so sorry JenB - thinking of you and sending you loads of hugs!
7 IVF cycles - 2 chemicals, 5 BFN
1 FET cycle - BFN
9th IVF cycle - BFP!! Twins born Sept 18/08
Trying again May 2010!!!
wannabeamomma
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Post by wannabeamomma »

Jenbabes-I am so sorry for your loss. It hurts no matter how short the time was. Sending you loads of hugs!

Tilly-No way will I do an HPT. I am scared to death of the answer as it is and to get a false positive/negative would make me insane. :shock: I will just wait until our RE gives us the news. I know how tempting it is but I rather not no until it is a for sure thing-either way.

Vickers-I have no idea how long it takes. I wish I knew as I question every single twinge. :wink:

Babydust!
Me, 31, Dh, 30
ttc since 2001
1st Ivf 7/2006-m/c at 6.5 wks
2nd Ivf 10/2007-hoping for a miracle
talisen_cat
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Post by talisen_cat »

Jenbabes - your in my thoughts, I'm sharing the same head space as you. A good friend of mine gave me some smart advice - she reminded me to just let my thoughts go through the motions and grieve and not feel guilty for what we feel or how we react. Also, not to blame oursleves.


Vickers - I have read that it takes 2n to 6 days after transfer to implant -hence some early low beta's.

Kelly and Aine - wishing you guys the best for the perfect little embie!!!


I just want to hug you all and share the tears. We are all strangers from diverse backgrounds yet we all share a close understanding and can identify with each other in a way some of our dearest and nearst just can't.

Wannabe and Tilly - do us proud ladies and get those lovely BFP's - GO GIRLS!!!!
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1st: cancelled (2004)
2nd: 1 lovely blast- BFN (2004)
3rd: Bad egg quality BFN (2004)
4th: BFN (2007)
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Post by kellym »

JenB and Talisen_cat - my thoughts are with you both. Sending you big hugs and lots of support your way.

Wannabe and Tilly - hope you are surviving your 2ww!!!

Vickersx3 - how is your wife doing?

Anie - hope that your ER went well today!

Well, just got back from my day 13 u/s and its a go. I am doing the trigger shot tonight with ER on Saturday. They said that as of today there are 7 mature follicles and then there are the smaller ones some of which may pop up over the next couple of days (fingers crossed). I am excited but nervous since this is our last round with my eggs. I usually get good fertilization but what if things are different this time. I am slowly going crazy!!
7 IVF cycles - 2 chemicals, 5 BFN
1 FET cycle - BFN
9th IVF cycle - BFP!! Twins born Sept 18/08
Trying again May 2010!!!
wannabeamomma
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Post by wannabeamomma »

Anie-Good Luck today! Let us know how many eggies they got-remember all you need is 1. :D
Me, 31, Dh, 30
ttc since 2001
1st Ivf 7/2006-m/c at 6.5 wks
2nd Ivf 10/2007-hoping for a miracle
Anie
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Post by Anie »

Hello everybody.

I'm back with good news.
Got 18eggs, 17 were mature and 12got fertilized.

ET should be on sunday.
Looking forward to that.

Anie
Anie :) Me 32, DH 34
1st IVF : Aug/07 - 6eggs but no fertilization :(
2nd ICSI: Oct/07 - test:22/Nov=BFN :(
3th ICSI: July/08; Testing:5th Sept-BFP :D

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Post by Anie »

OCTO-NOV'EMBIE BUDDIES 07[/u][/color]

HUGS[/size][/b]
hopealways
4 follies now.... instead of 3!
Confirmed ER on Oct 18, ET tentative on Oct 20
E3 1786pg/ml - High? Low??
sadly cycle canc

KellyM
double transfer sun 14th and Tues 16th Oct
test date 29th oct
sadly BFN :( :(

baby08
transfer sat 13th..test date 29th oct
sadly BFN :( :(

Baobao
TEST DATE: 2 Nov
sadly BFN :( :(

PrincessB
Lupron 14th Oct, Still on Lupron-Trying to get rid of cyst
sadly cycle cancelled

Hopefull2007
FET Wed 24th Oct
test 4th Nov SADLY BFN :(


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Down Reggers


Emma
FET end of October



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KellyM
started stimming Oct 30. Day 10 had 10 follies!
Estimated ER - Nov 10 or 11
Estimated ET - Nov 13 or 14


ImageEgg Retrival

Anie: 24/10: Started Gonal-F 300
EC: 8th Nov: 18eggs, 12fertilized

ImageEmbryo TransferImage

Vickersx3 11/06: Transfered 2 blasts, culturing 7 embies until 11/07 to see what we have for frosties.


On 2wwImageBFP!!!

talisen_cat Transfer Tues 30th Oct- one 6 day embyro- Test next wed 7/11

wannabeamomma
3 day transfer 11/4, 2 embies-testing 11/15

tilly3709-Michele
3 day transfer 11/4, 3 embies-testing 11/15

Vickersx3
5 day transfer 11/6, 2 embies-testing 11/15


***BFP's For all***

Jen Babes
ET Sat 20th Oct
test date 2nd Nov-BFP!!!!! :D :D




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Anie
TEST DATE:
22nd Nov

Emma
TEST DATE:


Jen
TEST DATE: Friday 2nd Nov BFP! :D :D


KellyM
TEST DATE: Mon 29TH OCT sadly BFN :(
TEST DATE: NOV


wannabeamomma
TEST DATE:
Thursday 15th Nov

talisen_cat
TEST DATE:
WED 7th NOV! BFN :(

baby08
TEST DATE:
Mon 29th Oct BFN :(

Hopefull2007
TEST DATE:
4th Nov BFN :(

hopealways
TEST DATE:
Sadly cycle cancelled

PrincessB
TEST DATE:
saly canc because of cyst

Baobao
TEST DATE:
2 Nov : BFN :(

Vickers
TEST DATE:
Thusday 15th Nov

tilly3709-Michele
TEST DATE:
Thursday November 15[/quote][/quote]
Anie :) Me 32, DH 34
1st IVF : Aug/07 - 6eggs but no fertilization :(
2nd ICSI: Oct/07 - test:22/Nov=BFN :(
3th ICSI: July/08; Testing:5th Sept-BFP :D

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Post by kellym »

OCTO-NOV'EMBIE BUDDIES 07

HUGS

hopealways
4 follies now.... instead of 3!
Confirmed ER on Oct 18, ET tentative on Oct 20
E3 1786pg/ml - High? Low??
sadly cycle canc

KellyM
double transfer sun 14th and Tues 16th Oct
test date 29th oct
sadly BFN :( :(

baby08
transfer sat 13th..test date 29th oct
sadly BFN :( :(

Baobao
TEST DATE: 2 Nov
sadly BFN :( :(

PrincessB
Lupron 14th Oct, Still on Lupron-Trying to get rid of cyst
sadly cycle cancelled

Hopefull2007
FET Wed 24th Oct
test 4th Nov SADLY BFN :(

talisen_cat Transfer Tues 30th Oct- sadly bfn :(

Jen Babes
ET Sat 20th Oct
test date 2nd Nov-BFP turned into chemical pregnancy :(

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Down Reggers


Emma
FET end of October


ImageStimmingImage



ImageEgg Retrival

Anie: 24/10: Started Gonal-F 300
EC: 8th Nov - 18 eggs and 12 embies!!!

KellyM
started stimming Oct 30. Day 10 had 10 follies!
ER - Nov 10, Nov 13

ImageEmbryo TransferImage




On 2wwImageBFP!!!


wannabeamomma
3 day transfer 11/4, 2 embies-testing 11/15

tilly3709-Michele
3 day transfer 11/4, 3 embies-testing 11/15

Vickersx3 11/06: Transferred 2 blasts.


***BFP's For all***



ImageResults boardImage

Anie
TEST DATE:


Emma
TEST DATE:


Jen
TEST DATE: Friday 2nd Nov - sadly chemical pregnancy :(


KellyM
TEST DATE: Mon 29TH OCT sadly BFN :(
TEST DATE: NOV 27th


wannabeamomma
TEST DATE: Thursday 15th Nov


talisen_cat
TEST DATE:
WED 7th NOV - sadly bfn :(

baby08
TEST DATE:
Mon 29th Oct BFN :(

Hopefull2007
TEST DATE:
4th Nov BFN :(

hopealways
TEST DATE:
Sadly cycle cancelled

PrincessB
TEST DATE:
sadly canc because of cyst

Baobao
TEST DATE:
2 Nov : BFN :(

Vickers
TEST DATE: Thusday 15th Nov


tilly3709-Michele
TEST DATE: Thursday Nov 15
7 IVF cycles - 2 chemicals, 5 BFN
1 FET cycle - BFN
9th IVF cycle - BFP!! Twins born Sept 18/08
Trying again May 2010!!!
vickersx3
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Post by vickersx3 »

Hey ladies, I hope everyone is doing well. My wife is doing good, we are just waiting it out till Thursday at this point. We ended up not having any frosties that would make it through the thawing process. :( . This more than likely be our one and only shot. At $13,000 I dont see how anyone can do this over and over.

Hope everyone has a great weekend!!
wannabeamomma
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Post by wannabeamomma »

Vickers-I pray that both your embies stick. My dh and I don't know if we can d it again either. It is our 2nd round and like you paid all out of pocket. Hopefully we will get our BFP's on Thursday and we won't even have to think about it. :D

Hope everyone else is doing fine.

As for me just watching the clock go by. I have had some cramping. I hear that is normal but you know how that can make you nervous.

Anyway, Babydust all around!
Me, 31, Dh, 30
ttc since 2001
1st Ivf 7/2006-m/c at 6.5 wks
2nd Ivf 10/2007-hoping for a miracle
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wannabemom

Post by PrincessB »

You were my very first cycle buddy so I am living vicariously through you. So come on and get us that BFP! :lol:
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13 eggs retrieved
10 fertilized
2 transferred
2WW Test on Friday 18th
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