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jen babes
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Judyy just worked out its your test day today good luck x x x x

baby dust x x x

i have posted a test thread for you sorry it's late but my mind has been on doubling betas ( hopefully )...

nicki well done on the increasing weight loss x x x good luck at WW this week. x x Hope you sort out your stuff with Mark x x

Julie when do you finish work??? are they throwing you a baby shower x x

kate hows you busy head of dept??? are you enjoying your new job or is it too much stress x x x

Much love to lucy lisa and gail ( mia and katie) and anyone else i hav missed ...honestly my head is up my *** just now... was up at 5am this morning feeling so so sick...which must mean that beanie is growing :D so hope to get results back today fingers x x x

love jen
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3 IVF's 2005/6 all BFNs
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5th FET-Feb08 BFN
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Julie2039
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Post by Julie2039 »

Oh Nikki - Sending big hugs to ya hun and hope you feel at least a little better today. I suffered with bad PMT and AF cramps, down my legs and round my bum (!) and some times sick - awful - so can sympathise. As for the pill it is your call. I considered it but my brain was telling me not to as I could regret it. Mad innit but it does only take 1 to slip through the net and although they have none......I know you understand what I mean. Take care xxxx. As for me I am fine ta. Feeling more energetic although sleeping less - prob 6 hours a night if I am lucky as restless.

JEN JEN JEN - Hope you are being sick BUCKET LOADS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shit happens and it is yuk but the best sign. Let us know today's numbers xxxxx

JUDY - GOOD LUCK TO YOU - LET US KNOW ASAP X

Hi to everyone else xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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nicolamark
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Jen, feeling sick is great news, i am certain you'll be celebrating 2mro!!! xxx
Yes, feeling better now!!! xxx

Judy, good luck, let us know ASAP xxx
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
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nicolamark
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PS: not sure about the weight lose this week, ast sunday and saturday had family over so ate more, and drank wine!!! wine is 3 points!!! yikes
and then sunday and monday eating chocolate due to PMT!!!!
so today has been good!!!
but not expecting to lose anything!!!
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
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nicolamark
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Julie - 30wks
Jen - 4 wks

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Judy - IUI on 2ww now PMA!!! xxx

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Lucy - Fresh Ivf Oct/Nov
Kate - IVF Feb 2008
Nicki- Taking time out from it all for 12-18mths
Souris- has left the boards but having an adoption review in Nov.


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MLG - c/s baby girl - Margarida - Born 6th Dec 06
GAIL - c/s baby girl - Katie Hope - Born 29th March 07
LISA - c/s baby girl - Mia Alice - Born 23rd sept 07 at 10.38am



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7th - JEN-- results of double beta! xx
7th - JUDY test date


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6 - Baby MARGARIDA (MLG's daughter) is 1 YEAR OLD today
8 - NICKI-weekend in Newcastle
14 - JULIE - Finishes work!!!!! :D
24 - 27-- NICKI going to Edinbugh for a magical Christmas.....xx 8)
25 - Santa Claus has been - Its Christmas!!
26 – Boxing day

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Happy new year!!

10 - Julies baby due....Girl or Boy we will now kNOW!!!! so exciting!!


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14th JULIE n JUSTIN - 12th Wedd Anniv.
21-24 EASTER w/end
24th MARK 'n' NICKI - 7th Wedding Anniv.
29th Katie's 1st birthday!!

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IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
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judyy
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Post by judyy »

Hi Nicki

Hope you are feeling better. I posted a message on another thread about my BFN.. It's so depressing even though you kind of expect it.

I talked to a friend at work today who went through IVF and every other treatments. She has severe endometreosis and one ovary, but got pregant naturally! So lets all try to hang in there. Miracles do happen..

Take care..
Me 39, DH 40
3 natural BFP, all m/c
4 IUI, BFN
1 PGD converted to IVF, BFN
Waiting for DE cycle! - hopefully early 08
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Julie2039
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Post by Julie2039 »

JUDY - I am so sorry to hear that. Much love to you and your DH. Both take care and keep in touch xx

Nikki - GOOD LUCK for weigh in!! x (allowed to go off the rails!)

Jen - Hope you are still on cloud 9 hun - what were your results??? xxxx

Love to everyone else and s[ecial hi to new mum Lisa x
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[b]TTC 05/01
DH TESA 07/05 - BFP!!!
ICSI - Canc 01/07
FET 04/07 - BFP!!!
William Peter Born 23/12/07[/color][/b]
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Judy,
I'm so sorry this wasnt your time..
Hugs,
smita
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Smita
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Post by Smita »

Jen,
Waiting for an update rom you..
Fingers crossed for great results!

hugs,
smita
me-32, dh 40
ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
Baby girl Dhruvaa born on 14/02/06
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Kate21
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Post by Kate21 »

Hi,

Just a quick one to see Jen's results - the sickness thing is definitely a good sign!! Hope to hear about the doubling betas soon!

Judy - sorry to hear about your BFN, take time out to rest and come back stronger. You will get that BFP!

Hope evryone else is ok - Lisa and baby Mia, Julie and the bump!

Nickie - don't stress about the weight thing, you need to chill sometimes and a glass of wine helps. As for the pill thing, it has to be your call but I think I would personally not start again just incase.

Work is manic - to the point that Dh and I are arguing about it!! :( Massive row this morning, he got out the car and walked to school! I wouldn't mind so much if it was a great job but its not!! Not sure what to do, find another job maybe?....at least that way we wouldn't be able to argue about it.

Anyway, Jen - hope to hear good news soon. Catch you later

Kate
Me 35 DH 44 unexplained infertility
3# IVF all BFN
3# FET all BFN 4# BFP - no heartbeat @7wks - about to start the journey again!!
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nicolamark
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Kate, sorry to hear about your row with DH, parhaps a different school to work would be better..... oh dear, i hope u've made up now!! xxx

Judy, so very sorry to hear about BFN. will you take time out now or jump straightinto more IUI or IVF..... xxx It's so hard, i understand. xxx
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
ADOPTED DAUGHTER 2014
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Post by jen babes »

Hi buddies

judy sorry to hear about your BFN hugs to ya x x x take time to grieve hun x x x

i too have some heart breaking news...sorry girls but my beta has dropped...Its sad that its all over for this little embie.Loved and lost...
the next step is to stop the meds( already done) and Af should arrive in 3-4 days .If not will need a scan then D&C. The clinic said that i should bleed ok as only 5 wks gone, they also said we have been unlucky...
yeah I know that script already. As we have been through this twice before....The only consolation ( spelling???) is that this has been lost at 5 wks and not later on where i know it can be more heart breaking ( Isn't that right kate x x x) we have decided to wait until DH's busy schedule at work is over ( Nov-dec) and go for FET in Jan.
the only good thing to come out of this is to say at least i did get preg an hold onto that...

but as you all know Grief hurts like hell...and time is the only way to mend my & Dh's broken hearts. We have each other and that is a Blessing.


unfortunaltley ,my Parents in law are due up tomorrow for 4 days. Nightmare to have to be so vulnerable to them but Will need to tell them as i will be in floods of tears for a few days...

will catch up with you all soon...

much love to you my buddies my friends my support network . thanks for being there for me

much love to you all as always
love jen
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[b]2 natural preg,both ectopics.
3 IVF's 2005/6 all BFNs
4th Nov07- BFP! lost @ 5wks 6d
5th FET-Feb08 BFN
In my dreams...May 2010 DE Athens[/b]
[img]http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/2;54;101/st/20081012/n/Puppy+Dara+/dt/6/k/fda0/age.png[/img]
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jen babes
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Post by jen babes »

Hi buddies

judy sorry to hear about your BFN hugs to ya x x x take time to grieve hun x x x

i too have some heart breaking news...sorry girls but my beta has dropped...Its sad that its all over for this little embie.Loved and lost...
the next step is to stop the meds( already done) and Af should arrive in 3-4 days .If not will need a scan then D&C. The clinic said that i should bleed ok as only 5 wks gone, they also said we have been unlucky...
yeah I know that script already. As we have been through this twice before....The only consolation ( spelling???) is that this has been lost at 5 wks and not later on where i know it can be more heart breaking ( Isn't that right kate x x x) we have decided to wait until DH's busy schedule at work is over ( Nov-dec) and go for FET in Jan.
the only good thing to come out of this is to say at least i did get preg an hold onto that...

but as you all know Grief hurts like hell...and time is the only way to mend my & Dh's broken hearts. We have each other and that is a Blessing.


unfortunaltley ,my Parents in law are due up tomorrow for 4 days. Nightmare to have to be so vulnerable to them but Will need to tell them as i will be in floods of tears for a few days...

will catch up with you all soon...

much love to you my buddies my friends my support network . thanks for being there for me

much love to you all as always
love jen
xxxxxxxxxx
[b]2 natural preg,both ectopics.
3 IVF's 2005/6 all BFNs
4th Nov07- BFP! lost @ 5wks 6d
5th FET-Feb08 BFN
In my dreams...May 2010 DE Athens[/b]
[img]http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/2;54;101/st/20081012/n/Puppy+Dara+/dt/6/k/fda0/age.png[/img]
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nicolamark
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Post by nicolamark »

Jen, you must look after yourself, and as you say take time to grieve, its true its a blessing you have each other and broc, so take time and next time jen, it WILL work, youre little frosties are waiting for you, and huge hugs for your lost this time xxx

I dont know what else to say to make you smile, take time.
Im hear if you wanna chat xxxx
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
ADOPTED DAUGHTER 2014
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nicolamark
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Post by nicolamark »

Only lost 1/2 a lb this week, a little i guess, and it was AF this week, and all the wine 'n' food this week, i guess considering a half lb is good!!

Also Jen, weather just on TV, snow hitting the highlands in the nxt day or two!!! wahooo!!!! xxx
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
ADOPTED DAUGHTER 2014
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