Baby Boy

Tracey S · Post by **Tracey S** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 10:17 am

Just quickie to say after 11.5 weeks the post mortem is back and my thoughts on our baby were confirmed - a baby boy - I was gutted but pleased - all very weird - have really wanted a boy (though would have been pleased with a girl) We have called him OLIVER so we can now try and move on. We have to make an appointment to see the specialist for the results but I am gathering (hope I am right) that it is not genetic (phew) so was one of those things or something very wrong with him that is unlikely to happen again. Let's hope I deduced right (the specialist said I would have nothing to worry about) We can now arrange funeral etc before xmas but as you can imagine has opened up wounds again. Love to all Tracey xxx

bubblymichelle · Post by **bubblymichelle** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 10:33 am

Oh Tracey, My thoughts are with you and your DH and family, I can only imagine how you must be feeling right now. Lets hope that one day you will have your dream come true, I know you will and you will make a fantastic Mom. Love & Hugs Shell. xx

Lisa Ch · Post by **Lisa Ch** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 12:05 pm

Dear Tracey and dh Finally, I just find it hard to believe it takes so long its disgusting. I hope your appointment with the Specialist brings helpful news and its unlikely to happen again. Don't really know what to say, but my thoughts and prayers are with you. Take special care Love Lisa xx

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 1:50 pm

Tracey and Family My prayers are with you all. Why did it take so long? It's really not on. I hope you get a good answer from your specialist. Take care and God bless little Oliver. With love Dagny xx

Trace100 · Post by **Trace100** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 5:28 pm

Just to say what a lovely name and all my best wishes are with you hubby. Take care Tracy x

beckym · Post by **beckym** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 6:31 pm

Oliver is a lovely name (but then I'm biased as my dad was called Oliver!). Hope you get your appointment with the specialist soon so that you can find out reasons and have another go. beckym xxx

Louise24 · Post by **Louise24** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 8:38 pm

Hi Tracey Just wanted to say im thinking about you and Dh!!! Take Care Love Louise x x x

beck · Post by **beck** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 11:33 pm

sending you a hug via the computer. xx

suzanne · Post by **suzanne** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 2:20 pm

As always Tracey, my thoughts are with you and your husband. I sincerely hope that your next treatment is successful and that you go on to have a healthy pregnancy and the baby that you both deserve. Take care, Suzanne.x

alison p · Post by **alison p** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 6:49 pm

Dear Tracey and hubby, it must have been a terrible wait for you both - it really is appauling that they took so long. Hopefully the specialist will be able to put your mind at rest that it was just an unfortunate thing that happens (how unfair life is sometimes). Hopefully once the funeral is over you can both start to move on. Whilst I cannot begin to imagine what you have been through these past months, my thoughts are with you both. Hope everything works out okay in the end, Love Alison xx

diane30 · Post by **diane30** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 9:17 pm

hi tracey just wanted to say im thinking of you and sending my love to you and dh love diane

Becky28 · Post by **Becky28** » Mon Dec 01, 2003 12:21 pm

Dear Tracey, I hope you're holding up okay. I'm pleased the wait for the PM results is finally over for you. I know the funeral for little Oliver will be painful for you both, but hopefully it will be a step forward in your journey, and also it will acknowledge and celebrate his life - although he wasn't with you for long he was so important. I really hope your meeting with the specialist is reassuring, and that 2004 is a good and happy year for you. With love, Beck x

SallyP · Post by **SallyP** » Mon Dec 01, 2003 1:21 pm

Dear Tracey, I haven't been posting very much recently, but every time I do, I think of you. You must be so relieved that there was nothing genetic wrong with little Oliver, but at the same it must in a way make it more difficult to understand why he was taken from you so cruelly. Unbearable though it will be, I hope that you will be able to move forward after the funeral. Hope all goes well with your consultant appointment and I know that you'll have the baby you so richly deserve, although I know you'll never forget Oliver. All love and hugs - if wishes could come true you'd have octuplets I'm sure with all the love and positive vibes on their way to you!!!! Sally xxxxx

Lizzy7 · Post by **Lizzy7** » Mon Dec 01, 2003 8:00 pm

Tracey, Was just thinking about you and hoping you were doing ok. I just want to wish the best for the next few weeks - although it will be difficult, i hope you can find some peace. Love to you both and bless little Oliver, Lizzy xxx

Di · Post by Di » Tue Dec 02, 2003 8:14 pm

Dear Tracey and DH. Just wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts. Take care, Di

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