Bad news for us

jen · Post by **jen** » Sat Dec 27, 2003 12:26 pm

Hi Girls I'm a bit late with our update but didn't really feel up to posting. The HCG levels on Wed just went up from 3075 to 3220, the doctor thought it may be eptopic so rang my GP and made me go to A&E. Well it wasn't eptopic, they said it was probably just a very weak pregnancy and I would miscarry. Which I did yesterday, very yucky. I still feel very sad but have had lots of hugs and cries and a few glasses of red wine. Think I'll have to go for a scan Mon or Tues to make sure they're all gone. We seem to get a bit further each time so we will go again and we will get pregnant and we will have our little baby or babies. Hope you are all resting up and enjoying your pregnancies and Christmas. Love to you all. Love Jen xx

bubblymichelle · Post by **bubblymichelle** » Sat Dec 27, 2003 12:59 pm

Hi Jen, My thoughts are with you at this sad time, words fail me, and I can only imagine what you must be going through. One day you will have your dream come true and hold your precious baby/babies in your arms. Keep your chin up, easier said then done. Take Care Love Shell. xx

helenlouise · Post by **helenlouise** » Sat Dec 27, 2003 5:49 pm

I'm so sorry for you Jen. Look after yourself. helenxxx

Tracey S · Post by **Tracey S** » Sun Dec 28, 2003 10:32 am

Jen I am so sorry - I knew we were due to scan on the same day. Things do get better - I am still panicking as I have so far to go with what has happened to me - one ectopic and one died at 20 weeks. I hope you find you dream in 2004 Love Tracey xxx

JULES K · Post by **JULES K** » Sun Dec 28, 2003 12:49 pm

Hi Jen, really really sorry to hear your terrible news. I hope 2004 brings your dream to you. thinking of you and dh Julie xx

jen · Post by **jen** » Sun Dec 28, 2003 6:54 pm

Thanks for the kind support girls. I've to go for a scan either tomorrow or tues. Any ideas???? - Phoned for HCG results from Boxing Day (hospital never rang me) and they went from 3075 on 22nd to 3220 on 24th to 8367 on 26th. Confused now, shouldn't they be going down. I'm still bleeding. Could it be a miracle??? Scan will reveal all anyway, just want to be able to draw a line under this. Take care Love Jen xx

Lisa Ch · Post by **Lisa Ch** » Sun Dec 28, 2003 8:36 pm

Jen sorry to read your post. Don't know about hcg levels but am praying that it could be a christmas miracle. Take care for tomorrow. Love Lisa xx

Jo Locker · Post by **Jo Locker** » Mon Dec 29, 2003 10:24 am

So sorry to hear the news Jen, you must be so disappointed. As you say, you can do it, you've proved that, and its just a matter of getting a bit further next time hopefully and not losing sight of your dream. Lots of love - Jo. X

Helen Reid · Post by **Helen Reid** » Mon Dec 29, 2003 11:41 am

Jen So sorry to here your news. I hope that 2004 brings you and your dh better news. Helen

Tracey S · Post by **Tracey S** » Mon Dec 29, 2003 12:11 pm

Jen Those HCG - they would go down not up like that - sure it's not twins with you having lost one? I remember Wibbs going through the same thing. Don't hold out for anything but try not to lose hope it that makes sense - good luck Love Tracey xxx

GB · Post by GB » Tue Dec 30, 2003 1:34 pm

Hi Jen Once again, just wanted to say hi and that I'm soo gutted for you. May 2004 be a better year for you. Take care. Lotsa luv Gila x-x-x

jen · Post by **jen** » Tue Dec 30, 2003 4:44 pm

Hi Girls Just here with a quick update - as we thought, scan showed nothing there, I have miscarried. There is still some product left so they want me to have a D&C but not until Monday - talk about dragging this out. They'll ring me on Fri and if all the bleeding has stopped then I might not have to have the D&C. Feel a bit better now that we've gotten a clear result. Thanks for all your support and have a fantastic new year. Good luck to all of you with scans comming up - you'll all have great news. Lots of love Jen xx

Wibbs1 · Post by **Wibbs1** » Tue Dec 30, 2003 5:17 pm

Jen Sooooo Sorry I was hoping like me you had another little one hanging on in there...so I am Gutted for you, as I know what you are going thru. Try and stay positive and get thru the newyear with renewed HOPE. Keeping it all crossed for you and DH hope 2004 is your year. Big Hug Wibbs XXXX

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