Dec/Jan 08 Cycle Buddies

Discussion forum for those particularly interested in IVF and embryo transfer including frozen embryo transfer.
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Neffi211
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Post by Neffi211 »

Hey ladies--

Im getting really pissed, I still havent heard from my RE, they siad by 1pm its now 1:55! Im going to call them if I dont hear by 2:30.

Colesmom-- I'm soooo sorry to hear of your BFN, take time to grieve, glad to hear that you have a plan for FET

Andnichole-- Im so happy for you, i bet you have multiples in there since you got a positive sooo early!

Ill let you guys know as soon as I hear!
Me 32 DH 31
DS 3rd try
8 failed cycles
No luck with adoption
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Neffi211
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Post by Neffi211 »

Well its a BFN for me as well. Im devastated! Although, I am very happy that I took the hpt and at least had some warning. We will do another fresh cycle in March. I'll be on later when Im feeling better!
Me 32 DH 31
DS 3rd try
8 failed cycles
No luck with adoption
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washingtonda
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Post by washingtonda »

Colesmom -- Sorry to hear that you got a BFN. However, glad to see that your spirits seem good and that you are not giving up on your dream. I wish you much luck with your FET. Please stick around with us. :wink:

Neffi21 - Please let us know when you have heard something. I have everything crossed for you. :P

Nothing new to report for me. Just waiting for the 12th to get here so I can have my U/S.

I have been very tired lately but I guess that's one of the signs of early pregnancy. It's tough getting up for work in the morning. I'm contemplating changing my work hours to come in a little later.
Me, 40 - DH, 47
IVF #1: POSITIVE - Michaela born 9/19/08
IVF #2: Consult on 10/13/09 - Start BCP Dec since clinic will be closed for the Holiday.
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TammyS
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Post by TammyS »

Neffi: I am sooo sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and DH. :(
Me~42/DH~48
3 IUI
IVF 1~1.28.08 Zach
IVF 2~4.5.10 M/C
IVF 3~8.6.10 BFN
IVF 4~9.5.10 M/C
IVF 5~10.30.10 BFN
IVF 6~11.29.10 M/C
IVF 7~2.3.11 M/C
IVF 8~Cancelled
End of the road

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Post by andnichole »

Neffi211: I pray that March will be your BFP! Sending you hugs.
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washingtonda
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Post by washingtonda »

Neffi - Sorry to hear you news. We must have been posting at the same time.

Good luck in March.
Me, 40 - DH, 47
IVF #1: POSITIVE - Michaela born 9/19/08
IVF #2: Consult on 10/13/09 - Start BCP Dec since clinic will be closed for the Holiday.
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Post by unexplained infertility »

Neffi, Colesmom - I am so sorry. I can pretty well imagine how you guys feel today. Take a day off, if you can, and cry it all out. It really helps.
colesmom
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Post by colesmom »

Neffi211, I am so sorry. I know the feeling. I guess we can say that the 4th of Feb. is not a good day for us. March seems so far away. We need to hang in there and give ourselves some TLC. I have my appt. with the Re on the 17th and then I will have a cycle plan I guess. We do have 4 snowbabies and We are grateful for that. I hope you and your dh the best with your next fresh cycle in march. We do have a 4 year old and am blessed for that. His smile everyday is a dream come true. The little guy wants a baby sister or brother thats what hurts to hear all the time. I want to give him that so bad and just can`t yet. We will have are BFP on are next attempt. March will be a BFP month for Neffi211 and Colesmom. Rest your mind, body, and soul. Take time for you.
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DH 34
DS 5
1st IVF Dec\Jan BFN
1st FET AUG
2nd IVF Oct
schel67
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Post by schel67 »

Colesmom and Neffi,
I'm sorry to hear this time wasn't your turn. There is a reason for everything. You both have a great outlook and I'm glad you not giving up. I pray next time it will be ur turn.

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blondzella
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Post by blondzella »

Good afternoon ladies,
Sorry for going stealth for a little while.......perhaps I am in shock....

I got a POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I did the doc pee test and that said positive and then went to my own doc and he gave me a req to go get a blood test. I got the results and it showed positive with a beta of 602. It is very strange but my clinic doesnt do blood tests so I wont be going in for anymore. I have my first u/s on Feb 19th.

It is weird, the clinic said I would be due Oct 8th, yet when I told my regular doc the fertilization date, he said his chart says Oct 18th. Does anyone know the best method of working it out??

Well I am still in shock...the only thing I have for symptoms is sore boobies.... :D

Congrats to all the other mummys and everyone in 2ww, hold off on the hpt...it is best to wait so you dont give yourself too much stress when it is not the right answer. Been there, done that!!!!

Happy Sunday!!
blondzella
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Post by blondzella »

I am so sorry Neffi and Colesmom.......take care of yourself and get yourself prepared for a positive in March!!!
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Post by Mrs. G »

Neffi & Colesmom - Im so sorry to hear that you both received BFN's. Don't give up, March will be here before you know it !!! ::hugs:: for you both!
ME- 25 DH - 29
TTC 4 Years
4Failed IUI's
1st IVF: 10/26/07 - 11/9/07 - BFN
1st FET: 12/14/07 - 12/28/07 BFN (early loss)
2nd FET: 03/19/08 - 03/31/08 BFN
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Post by Mrs. G »

Daily Update on Me: - Still no AF, I go for a beta on friday to see if we did this on our own or if my body is anti-compatible with doing what i need it too! lol I will keep you all posted. :D
ME- 25 DH - 29
TTC 4 Years
4Failed IUI's
1st IVF: 10/26/07 - 11/9/07 - BFN
1st FET: 12/14/07 - 12/28/07 BFN (early loss)
2nd FET: 03/19/08 - 03/31/08 BFN
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Post by esperanza »

I'm so sorry Neffi and Colesmom. I know exactly how you feel. I hope you two are taking care of yourselves. Cry, and let it out. Remember Unexplained's list!

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IVF # 1 jan 08 BFN
FET #1 March 08 BFN
FET #2 July 08 BFP (DD born on April 2009)
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Post by esperanza »

colesmom wrote:March will be a BFP month for Neffi211 and Colesmom. Rest your mind, body, and soul. Take time for you.
And Esperanza's too!!!! :wink:
me: 33 dh: 40
2 miscarriages (natural pregs. #1 Aug 2006, #2 May 2010)
IVF # 1 jan 08 BFN
FET #1 March 08 BFN
FET #2 July 08 BFP (DD born on April 2009)
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