Jan/Feb 08 Cycle Buddies

Discussion forum for those particularly interested in IVF and embryo transfer including frozen embryo transfer.
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alex01
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Post by alex01 »

Hi all.. wow what a full forum this is! Great to see so many bfp's too!! :D
Am in a bit of a rush so won't do personals but just thought I'd let you know that it is only 2 days before my official bt (thurs 7th) but have definately decided to just wait and see if af comes over the weekend as can't take that "sorry it hasn't worked" phonecall one more time.. I think it would destroy me and dh. :shock: Dh is away this weekend on a boy's weekend to celebrate having his brother being here and think I will just do lots of yoga and spend time at the beach and pray that my af doen't start.........
Not feeling ANYTHING..... just hot and bloated (is 35 degrees today) and wishing I had some kind of sign to show it was going well.......
I never get any pms symptoms either so there's no telling. :x
Anyway strong, valuable women.... I will get there in the end as we all will..... x x x thanks for listening :roll:
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Post by jcw »

Rio - call me daft but what is PIO?????

Cooking - Welcome! as others have said you can keep these things a secret. No one knows what we are having done at the moment. I did have to tell my mum for the last IVF as I needed someone to bring me home after egg collection (long story but DH had moved to Singapore by then and I followed after the IVF). I haven't told her this time as I don't really want to educate her in what is going on but it also helps that she is 7-8000 miles away! This forum is great if you ever have any worries/questions no matter what it is.
IUI x2 - BFN
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FET May 08 - BFN
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Sage
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Post by Sage »

Cookinggirl:

Welcome! My RE keeps patients until 12 weeks and then you return to your usual OBGYN. This is my first IVF cycle as well. We haven't told many people either.

Good luck!
30 yrs old DH 33
3 cycles Clomid BFN
4 IUI/Follistim BFN
1st IVF w/ICSI in Feb.!!!
ER 2/11 ET 2/14
TEST Date 2/25 BFP
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Post by jomae »

Hi Ladies
thanks guys for all the positive thought and wishes over the past few days i really appreciate your support

Kbear i'm so sorry it wasn't your time i'm wishing you and dh the best and i hope to see you giving it another go soon as you can.

Suga twins wouldn't that be great harder on your body but something pretty special

Cookinggirl welcome to the boards i was on gonal f with in an hour the shot needs to be given i was released from my specialist after my first scan and yep it is possible to keep it a secret sometimes its easier i remember the first miscarriage i had we were devistated and just didn't want to be around people but because they new i had to tell our bad news over and over which was hard but on the other hand the support is good. Goodluck luck with your cycle.

Mia what a nice valentines present BFP coming your way

Tammy yep i can tell your excited thanks for your support. Wow car accident I'm glad things weren't worse for you hows your mumaunty getting better i hope

Alex the brother inlaw will be a nice distraction for the horrible 2ww lucky you

Rio first scan soon hey it'll really start feeling real once you see your little beans how many are you hoping to be having

Dawn i'm glad your cyst has shrunk goodluck

Sage my clinic doesn't tell you levels unless you ask so don't be backward in being forward if you want to know. you know it's one more thing to stress about though goodluck stimming

21BAt sorry your shouler is still giving you trouble have you checked withthe doc that everthing is ok

Julia don't worry about the embarrassing questions ask away if anything your asking questions that someone is sitting back wanting to know but to shy to ask as for the gassy bit i think it is so normal can you take something like mylanta for it.

Rbjean goodluck for Er tommorrow i'll be thinking of you

Marin sounds like your stimming is going well isn't Dh sweet for spoiling you there should be more like him wow what a drama with the pens hope things are sorted now

As for me i went and picked up a copy of the scan i had done at the local hopsital to take to my specialist i read the report and you can see where they noted seeing the ceasar scar and sperately noted seeing something that looked like an early cyst so now i'm really confused as if its there or not i think i will go back to my specialist to get him to check again. But other than that iv'e got 13 days to go.

KATIE CONGRATS ON THE BFP

All the best ladies sorry if i missed anyone
Take care JOMAEXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
loopie
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Post by loopie »

miss a day, and 4 pages!!!!!!!!!!!!

personals tonight if i can manage a minute now that i'm back at school

a few quick shouts

Kbear-argh- that sux -I am so sorry to hear of your news. Take some time, relax - have a glass of wine and snuggle with yer dh

Tammy- yer gonna POAS on the weekend? hmmmm, perhaps I will, too...

Katie - CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Suga- twins?????????? that would be fabu!!

me- still waiting- and sick-ish- cough is getting to me at night, other than that, I'm a bit woozy and the girls are still enormous!!!! :lol: I'm gonna have to buy even bigger shirts!!!

xxloopie

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TammyS
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Post by TammyS »

Loopie...as much as I want you to test with me...I am afraid it might be too early for you. Your transfer was later than mine....which makes you only 10dp3dt on Sat when I am 12dp3dt. It would be close anyways. :?
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3 IUI
IVF 1~1.28.08 Zach
IVF 2~4.5.10 M/C
IVF 3~8.6.10 BFN
IVF 4~9.5.10 M/C
IVF 5~10.30.10 BFN
IVF 6~11.29.10 M/C
IVF 7~2.3.11 M/C
IVF 8~Cancelled
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Post by kellym »

Hello!!

Congrats Katie - that is awesome news and great that you weren't even expecting to know so soon!!! What a bonus. Let us know how you tell DH!

KBear - I am so sorry. Getting that bfn call is hard but you will feel a bit better as each day passes. Hang in there and as soon as you are ready another cycle awaits!

Hi to everyone else. I in a rush so unfortunately can't do a ton of personals.

I am feeling really down today. I've had some mild cramping yesterday and today so I am convinced that AF is about to arrive. I don't know how I am going to handle another bfn. Oh well, at least I'll know one way or the other tomorrow. I am definitely not doing a hpt - this is the first cycle that I am not going to do one and I am not even tempted for some reason.

I hope the other 2ww are maintaining their PMA that I have sadly lost along the way.

Thinking of you all!!

Kelly
7 IVF cycles - 2 chemicals, 5 BFN
1 FET cycle - BFN
9th IVF cycle - BFP!! Twins born Sept 18/08
Trying again May 2010!!!
weezie
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Post by weezie »

RBJean- good luck with ER tomorrow. I hope trigger was a breeze for you. I only used 5000u of HCG too. My E2 had gotten up to 4842 and my P4 was beginning to rise.

Bat- 5 frosties!!! How wonderful! I'm not doing too well with this whole bed rest thing. It's making me crazy. I called the nurse today to find out if we had any frosites and she is going to call me back, But she also told me that today I could move around slightly and be a couch potato. The first thing I did was shower! Aaaahhhhh.

Marin- what great news about your follies. The fact that they are all growing at about the same rate is fantastic. Oh, and welcome to my drama club. :D What fun would all this be without a little drama, right?

Suga- twinkies? I think I think I made that call last week. hummmmm. And don't be embarrased about requesting that the RE resubmit all your claims. I'm sure it isn't the first time that's happened. I'm jealous to read that some of you gals have insurance that covers this! I've been reimbursed a whopping 187.00. And I don't expect to see one cent more.

cooking- welcome. I took my gonal at the same time every day. I set an alarm clock as a guarantee that I wouldn't forget. My RE will release me to my OB/GYN at 10 weeks.

Dawn- woohoo. Glad the cyst is gone! now get movin' girlie!

Katie- how did you tell DH? Are you guys still on cloud9?

Jomae- so the saga continues, huh? IMHO, I would tend to relay on what the RE says after he looks at the scan and gives you his professional opinion. This back and forth will drive you NUTS! Focus and keep that PMA!

Alex- glad to see you will have some special time alone to relax and meditate. Enjoy the peace

Rio- what great beta's!!!! Are you going to surprise us with twinkies too?

Sage- My nurse always called me the 4 hours after my b/w. I never had to ask. But each place is different. Don't be shy. If you are not getting the information you want, ask! Grow follies, grow follies.

Loopie- when are you going to get rid of that cough?rrrr.

Well, today is my last day of bedrest. thank goodness! DH has been calling me every night letting me know how much fun he is having with my parents and siblings at Mardi Gras! They have been reveling in the streets for the past two nights. I will drive home tomorrow and then spend the rest of the weekend with my friends and family before returning to Houston for one last week. Oh!! DH and I are joining a some friends and going to listen to a couple that has 8 children via in-vitro. My friend (the only one who knows about our cycle) told me about this. and apparently they have a tv program "jon & kate plus 8. I figured it should be interesting. And who knows maybe DH will learn a thing or two about parenting. Especially if we are blessed with 2! :wink:
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Post by kellym »

Hello!!

Congrats Katie - that is awesome news and great that you weren't even expecting to know so soon!!! What a bonus. Let us know how you tell DH!

KBear - I am so sorry. Getting that bfn call is hard but you will feel a bit better as each day passes. Hang in there and as soon as you are ready another cycle awaits!

Hi to everyone else. I in a rush so unfortunately can't do a ton of personals.

I am feeling really down today. I've had some mild cramping yesterday and today so I am convinced that AF is about to arrive. I don't know how I am going to handle another bfn. Oh well, at least I'll know one way or the other tomorrow. I am definitely not doing a hpt - this is the first cycle that I am not going to do one and I am not even tempted for some reason.

I hope the other 2ww are maintaining their PMA that I have sadly lost along the way.

Thinking of you all!!

Kelly
7 IVF cycles - 2 chemicals, 5 BFN
1 FET cycle - BFN
9th IVF cycle - BFP!! Twins born Sept 18/08
Trying again May 2010!!!
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Post by kellym »

Hello!!

Congrats Katie - that is awesome news and great that you weren't even expecting to know so soon!!! What a bonus. Let us know how you tell DH!

KBear - I am so sorry. Getting that bfn call is hard but you will feel a bit better as each day passes. Hang in there and as soon as you are ready another cycle awaits!

Hi to everyone else. I in a rush so unfortunately can't do a ton of personals.

I am feeling really down today. I've had some mild cramping yesterday and today so I am convinced that AF is about to arrive. I don't know how I am going to handle another bfn. Oh well, at least I'll know one way or the other tomorrow. I am definitely not doing a hpt - this is the first cycle that I am not going to do one and I am not even tempted for some reason.

I hope the other 2ww are maintaining their PMA that I have sadly lost along the way.

Thinking of you all!!

Kelly
7 IVF cycles - 2 chemicals, 5 BFN
1 FET cycle - BFN
9th IVF cycle - BFP!! Twins born Sept 18/08
Trying again May 2010!!!
weezie
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kelly- PMA! PMA! PMA!!!
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Post by Rinnie »

Hey Girls Wow..lots going on!!..


KBear I am so sorry. I know the feeling :( Just believe it will happen if you really want it to. You may want to wait a couple of months just to give the ovaries a rest. And don't stress! Take time to be with dh & reconnect..it's been such a crazy time.

I went to the Chinese medicine doctor yesterday who's also a specialist in fertility & was shocked at how knowledgeable he was about the whole IVF process. ( he even gave me what he thought should be my next protocol....can't wait to see if it's close to RE's) He said TCM can take your bio age down about 5 years ...so here I go... :) I have to do accupuncture twice a week, and drink this disgusting potion ( tastes like burnt rubber) I make from boiling these strange looking roots & herbs. I feel like Harry Potter LOL I'm going to take 3 months, but I'm dying to see if any of this works...he said when they take my FSH again in March/April it will likely be lower :shock:


Katie Wooooo HOOOOOO Congrats girl..I am very happy for you. Keep posting all the details.

Jomae That little guy was a fighter & that's what it takes...he's in it for the long haul.. PUPO!! :D

I'll keep visiting & sending good vibes your way girls...you're awesome!!!!

Rin
Me: 43 Dh 60
IVF#1 no ET..poor egg quality...then AP & herbs
IVF #2 BFP chem IVF #3 clinic dosing error so had to switch to IUI, BFP!! A Boy!
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Post by Rinnie »

Hey Girls Wow..lots going on!!..


KBear I am so sorry. I know the feeling :( Just believe it will happen if you really want it to. You may want to wait a couple of months just to give the ovaries a rest. And don't stress! Take time to be with dh & reconnect..it's been such a crazy time.

I went to the Chinese medicine doctor yesterday who's also a specialist in fertility & was shocked at how knowledgeable he was about the whole IVF process. ( he even gave me what he thought should be my next protocol....can't wait to see if it's close to RE's) He said TCM can take your bio age down about 5 years ...so here I go... :) I have to do accupuncture twice a week, and drink this disgusting potion ( tastes like burnt rubber) I make from boiling these strange looking roots & herbs. I feel like Harry Potter LOL I'm going to take 3 months, but I'm dying to see if any of this works...he said when they take my FSH again in March/April it will likely be lower :shock:


Katie Wooooo HOOOOOO Congrats girl..I am very happy for you. Keep posting all the details.

Jomae That little guy was a fighter & that's what it takes...he's in it for the long haul.. PUPO!! :D

I'll keep visiting & sending good vibes your way girls...you're awesome!!!!

Rin
Me: 43 Dh 60
IVF#1 no ET..poor egg quality...then AP & herbs
IVF #2 BFP chem IVF #3 clinic dosing error so had to switch to IUI, BFP!! A Boy!
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Post by riogirl71 »

Cincinnati/Alex01/Jcw/Tlova/Kildean – how many embies did you transfer?
Weezie- Cincinnati – I need your test dates!

I wanna update the calendar!
:D

Rin- good luck with your treatment, I am so impressed by your PMA! Good job - I know you will have your miracle!
Kelly- your BFP is next! Don't get down, I had cramps too. Let us know as soon as you hear! BFP dust for you!
jomae- oh my gosh! How crazy? Can you get a third opinion? keep us posted. Good luck, and I am praying for no polyp!
weezie- I would love twinkies! :D a boy and a girl! Oh 2WW is torture but I found out that waiting for the u/s is too! Glad you are doing well and taking good care of yourself, concentrate on sticky vibes! OH my gosh I was watching that show last night, about john and kate plus 8! You have to fill us in! Can you imagine sextuplets! :shock: :shock:
loopie- hold out for a couple of days just to make sure, the 10 day can be positive but low enough the HPT won't pick up!
Tammy- you have to post the results of HPT - good luck and BFP!
jcw- Progesterone Injectable Oil :wink:
alex- good job not POAS!

Me- next beta tomorrow! Double beta! Double beta! :D counting th days for u/s and waiting for all of your BFPs!!!
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Post by dawn31 »

CONGRATULATIONS KATIE.
THATS WICKED NEWS.
me 31. dh 45
ttc - 7 yrs
1 eptopic, 1 m/c @ 7 wks
IVF 11/07 OHSS treatment ceased
2nd Ivf Jan 08 OHSS eggs frozen
FET April08
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