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jenB - wishing you a safe flight, a perfect transfer and a short 2ww! all the best! xx

yasmina - HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY, ELOISE!!!!
so sorry to read about the flu finding its way into your home just in time for Eloise's 1st birthday. I'm sure you'll celebrate when you are all feeling better, even if it is a little belated.
Does sound like you finally got your gold at the end of your rainbow - heartfelt congratulations on getting your grant! You've been working long and hard on that. I do hope it will enable you to get all that you are wishing for in the coming year(s).

Sonia - how was your scan today? fingers are crossed that all went well.

chriss - how are you these days? did you have snow out on the Island?

xx Amy
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Hi everyone,

Just a quick update from me. My scan didn’t go so well today. On Friday my lining was a good-structured 8mm but today the best my doc could offer was 7mm and that was a sort of rounded up average of several measurements. The clinic has increased the estrogen tablets … my next scan will be on Thursday. It’s getting tough. Thanks for being here.

Catharine – hope you are OK and managing to focus on all things positive. Sounds like you’re doing all the right things whilst your embies are snuggling in and growing… You’re more than half way there. Sending you some more positive vibes and baby dust to keep you going… xxx

Chriss – how are you feeling? Hope all is going well for you.

Hi Amy – Crazy isn’t it – waiting for AF? Hope she’s on her way. I’d better not jig for you so here’s a little cyber jig instead. Image

Yasmina, congrats on finally getting your grant! And Happy Birthday, Eloise! Image Hope you have now recovered completely from that flu and can enjoy some serious celebrating. As always, I’m looking forward to reading your updates.

JenB – wishing you a safe journey and all the very best for your transfer. GOOD LUCK!!! Thinking of you!

Sonia xxx
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3x IUI & 5 IVF cycles (incl. 3 abandoned IVF cycles)
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hi sonia - do hope the upped dose of meds does the trick and builds your lining back up in the right direction! Is there an explanation about why this happens? will be thinking of you on Thursday...I'm sure you are a bit bummed by the news. keep up your pma as best you can and don't give up hope yet! you are so very close. grow lining, grow!!
xx Amy
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Hi Ladies :D
I'm a bit better still a bit blue.
Amy thanks for the sunny encouragement. Deep breath/slow exhale. I've got a lot going on in my life ontop of the 2ww [now less than 1ww]. Work is keeping me busy, 2 grants due April 1 :shock: I'm hanging in there it's a great distraction. Boss is still a nut case, drives me crazy :twisted: just want to poke his eyes out and therefore looking for new employment. Deep breath and slow exhale. Shake that bad ju ju away.
Oh and I updated the list below :shock: when I saw 7 embies, 5 is hard enough on the psyche ;).

JenB thanks for resurecting your list ;) I kept thinking about it and thinking about it, sorry I was unable to act on it. Will be thinking of you and DH. Safe travels to you. Sending positive vibes and baby dust your way.

Yasmina-wonderful news. Congrats on the MILL and secure position.
Happy birthday Eloise.

Sonia-hang in there. Bouncing those positive vibes back at yah. reiteration of Amy's chant: grow lining grow :)
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ImageBev-baby William ( Wills) born 23rd January 07 DE
Birth weight 5lb 12 oz's - 21wks old 15lbs 2 oz

ImageTammy- baby Andrew born 28th Feb 07 natural preg.
Birth weight 8 lb 7 oz - 4 months old 16 lb 14 oz, 26 1/4" long
6 months old 18 lb 14 oz, 27 1/2" long
9 months old 20 lb 13 oz, 30" long


ImageYasmina -baby Eloise born Feb. 20, 2007.
Birth weight 7 lbs 11ozs.


ImageAnna -baby Matthew born 23rd March 07 DE
Birth weight 7lb 60zs


ImageBig J ( TaylorJooles)- Baby Josh born ? '06 DE kiev
Aug 07 FET kiev - BFP at 5 wks sadly scan revealed a blighted ovum. :(
Next tmt DE ISIDA Kiev...4 put back jan 08 ....BFP BFP BFP.....now pregnant with triplets...Due Sept 08




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LuAnne
5DT W/2BLASTS ON 8/26
Test Date: 7th September...BFP
BETA:4476 :shock: :shock: TWINS !!!!
1st SCAN DATE:20th sept
midwife apointment 9th oct
4th scan 16th oct @ 10wks
5th scan 5th Oct due to bleed but babies ok :D :D
Scan to determine gender of twins - 20th December!!!

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Estimated Due date 10th May 08

Socal -htp done 5th sept positive :D
test date 12th sept...BFP
BETA:277
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1ST SCAN:19th sept




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Catharine- 5 :shock: Embies on board testing 2nd March....In the UK its Mothers Day...good luck


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Jen Babes
2 frosties waiting for next cycle
looking at hysteroscopy doppler and immune tests done in Jan all clear...
FET 29th feb...
this will be our last time...hopes and prayers for our Image snowbabies Image to do their stuff....TEST 14th March x x

Chriss -iui feb :(
MARCH IUI = Testing ???

Sonia - Scan for lining 22nd FEb okay...transfer ?????


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Amy - thyroid tests and med adjustments - waiting for the perfect timing! come on AF....

Andrea - BFN February :( :( taking time out just now x x


KAT - now MIA ( missing in action)... we are missing your input sweetie x x x love to ya x x x




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1 IVF Nov09 BFN
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Hi Catharine, how's that 2ww going? Thinking of you. Fingers crossed. When is BETA?
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Sonia, thinking of you and hoping the lining does what its supposed to do. PMA. Prayers for you.
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Hi AMy, I'm ok. Thanks for asking. How about you? Staying healthy with our plant-based protein diets? And whole milk... I keep putting on weight!
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Yasmina, always good to hear from you. Happy Birhtday to Eloise! How special, a first birthday! Good news about grant. Thinking of you.
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Jenbabes, best of luck to you hun. You'll be back before you know it.
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I'm ok. Still stimming, but as I think I mentioned, not so many follies. Started accupuncture. like it. ALso set up some consult appointments. (One for DE, one for fertility urologist for DH and one for new clinic to get another opinion.) In the meantime waiting on the follies and trying to decide if we should do the ivf this cycle or go to IUI again????? Feeling tired but Keeping the faith. Love to you all.
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ImageBev-baby William ( Wills) born 23rd January 07 DE
Birth weight 5lb 12 oz's - 21wks old 15lbs 2 oz

ImageTammy- baby Andrew born 28th Feb 07 natural preg.
Birth weight 8 lb 7 oz - 4 months old 16 lb 14 oz, 26 1/4" long
6 months old 18 lb 14 oz, 27 1/2" long
9 months old 20 lb 13 oz, 30" long


ImageYasmina -baby Eloise born Feb. 20, 2007.
Birth weight 7 lbs 11ozs.


ImageAnna -baby Matthew born 23rd March 07 DE
Birth weight 7lb 60zs


ImageBig J ( TaylorJooles)- Baby Josh born ? '06 DE kiev
Aug 07 FET kiev - BFP at 5 wks sadly scan revealed a blighted ovum. :(
Next tmt DE ISIDA Kiev...4 put back jan 08 ....BFP BFP BFP.....now pregnant with triplets...Due Sept 08




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LuAnne
5DT W/2BLASTS ON 8/26
Test Date: 7th September...BFP
BETA:4476 :shock: :shock: TWINS !!!!
1st SCAN DATE:20th sept
midwife apointment 9th oct
4th scan 16th oct @ 10wks
5th scan 5th Oct due to bleed but babies ok :D :D
Scan to determine gender of twins - 20th December!!!

Image
Estimated Due date 10th May 08

Socal -htp done 5th sept positive :D
test date 12th sept...BFP
BETA:277
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1ST SCAN:19th sept




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Catharine- 5 :shock: Embies on board testing 2nd March....In the UK its Mothers Day...good luck


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Jen Babes
2 frosties waiting for next cycle
looking at hysteroscopy doppler and immune tests done in Jan all clear...
FET 29th feb...
this will be our last time...hopes and prayers for our Image snowbabies Image to do their stuff....TEST 14th March x x

Chriss -iui feb :(
MARCH IUI = Testing ???

Sonia - Scan for lining 22nd FEb okay...transfer ?????


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Amy - appt with RE March 4

Andrea - BFN February :( :( taking time out just now x x


KAT - now MIA ( missing in action)... we are missing your input sweetie x x x love to ya x x x




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hi catharine - glad you are keeping busy - you are on the right track with trying to stay calm. cool and collected...just keep thinking about all those little embies growing inside...remember PUPO....counting down the days till your bfp!

chriss - wish I could offer advice about IUI vs. IVF...are there advantages to the IUI, other than it is less expensive? - what does your RE recommend? Why try IUI instead of going for IVF? -- or do you want to wait on another IVF cycle until you've talked to the new clinic?...I'm sorry not to be better versed in this area...
I'm also having a problem with weight these days...don't know if I've gained because of no AF and it will go away once she arrives, or if it's the combination of dr's orders for more water and a higher salt diet (due to my low BP) or if I've simply been eating more due to all the not knowing of late -- all I know is that my pants are tight and I'm not very happy about that...guess it is something to keep working on while I am waiting... :D

Hi Tammy - happy 1st birthday to Andrew on Friday! -- didn't realize how close in age Andrew and Eloise are -- must have been an exciting time on this thread with the 2 of you pregnant at the same time...

speaking of being pregnant -- thinking of you LuAnne! hope you and your little ones are all doing well.

xx Amy
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hi - good news - waiting is over, AF is here! :D Hooray! :D :D :D Have an appt with my RE next Tuesday...I'm just really relieved...thanks girls for sending all those good thoughts my way...yesterday our yoga teacher led us through a relaxation exercise where she said we'd be able to relieve ourselves of something that had been burdening us -- I only had one thing on my mind and I guess it worked! :shock:

I'm so very happy right now. Have a great day everyone!
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Amy- Congratualtions! :D Wishing you all the best at your next appt. You go girl :)
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1 IVF Feb08 BFP singleton born Nov, '08
1 IVF Nov09 BFN
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Amy- Congratualtions! :D Wishing you all the best at your next appt. You go girl :)
Me 46 DH 46
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1 IVF Feb08 BFP singleton born Nov, '08
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Hi,

Amy – congrats on arrival of AF! The wait is awful, I know, and I could really feel your relief. Happy stimming and all the best for next Tuesday! Xxx

Yep, last year was an exciting time on this thread with Yasmina and Tammy AND Bev AND Anna all looking forward to their little ones. Continues to be a big inspiration for me! My very best wishes to you all!

Chriss – grow follies grow! Four may be less than before but it’s quality we’re going for, right?! Try and relax as best you can and get your RE to help on your decision making. Good luck.

Catharine – hang on in there. Think happy thoughts and keep the faith. Roll on Sunday and that BFP…

All the best, Jen! Will be thinking of you on Friday! Big Hugs

Thanks for all your support girls. I’m trying not to think about my lining scan tomorrow. Too scared it will be bad news again. The clinic asked about cysts so I’ll get that checked again. Otherwise there doesn’t seem to be an explanation. I’m off now to do a home yoga session…

Take care everyone.

Sonia
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3x IUI & 5 IVF cycles (incl. 3 abandoned IVF cycles)
from end 2005 to begin. 2007
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Good luck with your scan, Sonia! My fingers are crossed that your lining has responded positively to the new dose of estrogen. Hope the yoga helped to bring you to a more relaxed place. Thinking of you!

hang in there, Catharine - your wait is almost over, your bfp is almost here!
sending some extra baby dust your way.

chriss - where are you at in your tmt at this point? did you and DH decide which route to take? hoping all your follies grow, grow, grow!!

have a nice evening, Amy
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Hi guys, good to hear from all of you and nice to see our little board as active as its been lately! Keep posting! I think that this is a unique thread, and it feels so good to be able to share with women who understand the age factor.
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Sonia, thinking of you for tomorrow. You mentioned something about cysts, do they affect thickness of lining? What about cycts? I'm curious. Good luck tomorrow, let's hope for good news. Hang in there. Thicken up lining!
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Hi Amy, glad AF arrived! You are really ready now! Can't believe it's finally here. I do remember you talking about it a few months ago, just waiting to be able to start! Now the time has come. Yeah, I'm ptting on weight like crazy. I blame it on the drugs, which is partially true, but it's also my eating habits and lack of working out hard at the gym like I used to. I miss being fit. But... I'd rather have a baby, so for now, I'm not going to worry too much. Just ate a big bowel of veggies. Starting drinking wheat grass. Ever hear anything about wheatgrass? Hope AF is not bringing you too many cramps! Feel well and get ready to start!
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Hi Catharine, how are you doing? BFP, BFP, BFP!
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Thinking of you Jenbabes!!!!! Can't wait to hear from you when you return.
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DH and I think we will go ahead with the IVF if the eggs are still there. I keep thinking that they will disappear. Crazy, huh? Yes, the reason for converting an IVF to an IUI is about money. Thinking that we may try a new clinic and also thinking that accupuncture and a little time off may give my body a rest and a better chance of producing more eggs in another cycle. If I was youngetr, I could wait more, but you know the whole age thing. Will go in for a scan tomorrow to see what's cookin'.
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Keep posting guys! We need each other!
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chriss - good luck today with your scan! I'm sure all your follies are still there and growing! :D
xx Amy
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Hi All :D
I'm hanging in there thanks for all the thoughtful shout outs. It really means a lot to me. This has been the worst 2ww that I have experienced. I've been trying to focus on happy thoughts I'm continually taking deep breaths with slow exhales. The clinic called yesterday to see how I'm doing. It was sweet that they were concerned. It saddened me at the same time as I am once again below ET weight. I explained to them the weight fluctuation. They said this go around they scheduled my ER while my estradiol was significanly less than last time in order to avoid the onset of OHSS. I will try not to read more into this information than necessary.

Chriss-I love your inspirational messages. Keep posting. grow follies grow. Wishing you all the best. Do you know when the ER will be?
Thinking of Amy , Sonia and JenB. Positive relaxing vibes.

Wishing everyone happiness.
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ttc > 5y
1 IVF Feb08 BFP singleton born Nov, '08
1 IVF Nov09 BFN
1 IUI May10,Sept10, Oct10 BFNs

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