KNR: I completely sympathize with your concern. 31 days, ouch!!! AF should show up any day now and when she is ready! Try to relax everything happens in due time. Does the timing of AF effect your cycling some how? My RE told me that after I go off of the BCP’s I may or may not bleed. So, I am sure you will be fine.
Indie Blue: I am on one shot of 20 units of Lupron now ( I think it is a 14 day kit also). I stop my BCP’s on Tuesday and then on the 15th I begin my GonalF and Menopur shots. I got the Lupron through Freedom pharmacy for $100 because of the Duramed Study. I also got a discount on the GonalF and Menopur because of the study. At least I got some type of deal. Although, $4200 is still a lot of money.
To touch on what Praying and Indie Blue were talking about…. IndieBlue you are right. The study has no say as to what stimulation meds we use. That is specifically up to your RE and the protocol that he/she has determined for you.
I just wanted to share a little bit about what I learned going through my first and second IVF’s… The #1 thing I learned is that I AM NOT IN CONTROL. It took me a long time to figure that one out and this was not an easy thing to digest. We are not in control of this entire process. The only thing we are in control of is whether or not we are willing to put our trust into our RE’s. As long as you have faith that you have a good doctor, then try to let go. Give up your power to that higher being and let everything else take it’s course.
I wished I had learned this early on because in the beginning, I obsessed about everything. Am I doing the shots correctly? What if I do the shot 1 hour late? What if I am not on the right dose? Why is this person’s medication different from mine? Maybe my doctor doesn’t know what he is doing? My breasts hurt, I am moody, nobody understands what I am going through… I have to go have an ultrasound and bloodwork tomorrow, on this day I have to start Lupron, on this date I have to stop my pills. It is SO MUCH to absorb. It is so overwhelming when you don’t know what to expect or don’t know what drugs do what etc.… These rampant thoughts ran through my head every second of every day until I drove myself completely bonkers.
The comforting thing is that these reactions are completely normal. It is completely normal to react this way to all of this information being thrown at you. It is normal to over think every aspect of this process, as you try to wrap your head around what is going on. I wish I had tried less to understand what was going on and tried more of just “going with the flow” the first couple of times. Life would have been a lot easier had I not overanalyzed, over thought, and over worried about every step of this long process. We have qualified doctors who have a lot more experience than what we have. They have our best interests at heart and want us to conceive this child that our hearts have been aching for. The bottom line is have faith, trust in the process, and let go. We are not in control! I will get off my soapbox now. I just wished someone had said this to me when I first began this process.

Wishing you all the best this week of our journey!