Hope, Thank u hun, that means so much to meHope644 wrote: Becks -
I've been thinking about your post for over an hour. I wanted to respond, but didn't know what to say... as you know, I've expressed my feelings on both threads and feel that you are completely justified in your feelings. I don't want any of us to make any one feel "like crap" - that's not what we're here for - we're here to build each other up!!
For everyone else -
I don't want to come across the wrong way - I'm not here to chastise anyone for their feelings if they were hurt by the change. We are ALL entitled to our own feelings about this change.
But that is exactly it is... CHANGE. No one is kicking anyone out of anything.
Mia made the decision to make this thread so that we could share our pregnancy stuff while still being respectful and honoring our sisters who have not yet joined us in being pg. But that doesn't mean that we can't all still talk about American Idol, the crazy differences between us Yanks and our sisters across the pond, or whatever strikes our fancy on the main thread. We haven't been kicked out, we've just chosen to respect the feelings of sisters who are still trying.
I think Becks, Angel, Chriss, Angie, and all the others who expressed their feelings about coming on the thread to see a bunch of pregnancy stuff are all very brave and I admire them for being honest. Every single one of us knows how it feels to know someone who is pg and to want that so desperately. We know better than most how that feels.
I haven't asked Becks who has caused her to feel so badly and I do not want to know - so do not think this is a witch hunt. I do hope everyone, new mommies, pg, trying and waiting, will look into themselves and remember how similar each of us are inside. We've prided ourselves on the incredible support that we give to each other in good times and in bad - we've been through a lot together and we've survived because of each other, I know i've read that more times than one and felt it myself. I hope we can all continue to support each other as we have.
I sincerely appreciate each one of you - you have all been a tremendous blessing to me in one way or another. I hope that I have not offended anyone by this post, but I had to say something... I just couldn't stand the thought of Becks feeling so badly after having just being honest.
Hugs & love to you all...
XxxxNow lets draw a line under it all - and start as we mean to go on - as friends who have helped and will continue to help each other
Xxxx
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** THANK YOU **
I think baby enjoyed it too as he/she was wriggling about the whole time.
