Hi girls,
Have had a bad day today am a little peed off now i got a letter this morning from kings i got all excited thinking my turn had come but no was more bloody forms i had to fill out for the icsi ,stuff they already knew had to fill these out then they will write back to me telling me whether i am allowed it on nhs i have already been told by the docter i am and that they will reply and tell me how long i am likely to have to wait doc already told me it would be sometime this year mayb they will be able to tell me a little more accurately which could be a good thing if its not to long a wait, it really just annoyed me as far as i knew i was on a list think they must have list for blooming everything i get so confused i also could have filled all these forms out when we had our appointment and saved some time but never mind its done now. sorry just needed a little moan.
Dawn hun hows things going with you ?
Shell your day is getting closer how are you feeling?
juliana am glad you are feeling more positive, i have my candles lit for you all and am sending lots of love and loads of ++++++vibes to you all
(((((((((((((((((((big hugs for everyone))))))))))))))))))))
I can imagine how stressed you got with having to fill forms in you just want to get it over and done with and like you say you could of had other times to do it + sometimes you feel that its wasting your time, when your GP knows about it, I am glad you come on here though to rant to us well it wasn't a rant it just helps to get it off your chest.
Yeah the day is coming nearer, I am excited but also nervous if you know what I mean, its just one of these things that you never know what to expect.
Hi Ang
I have to say I have been through 3 x ICSI's and when people say IVF is stressfull it isnt the actuall proceedure its the bl**dy People dealing with you , the waiting for them to get back to you ,The waiting for 3pm for an answere then they forget to ring you back!, The loss of paperwork and you waste time when you should have been on that list sooner , and when you have made appointments to have everything done ie: counceling bloods and talks when your donor comes from bournemouth and they say sorry we didnt book that youll have to come back AAARGH sorry . The needles and ptoceedure for me are alot more like being excieting as you know that its actually being done!
There Ive said it , I do really understand where you are coming from , dont ever trust always double check everything even if you feel silly do it anyway .
Hope you get your answere soon and that you dont wait too long.
Trace x
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
hi angela,
i am so sorry you have had this hassle, i think trace said and i agree with her this is one of the hardest parts of ivf, wating, not knowing when your turn comes, worrying about being on the wrong list and feeling time is passing, i felt almost more scared and depressed when i was waiting than when i had a negative! i really hope they will sort it out soon or else you will be able to get back to them and clarify what's going on, i had a few moments like this, waited for ivf a year and then they said it's gonna be another 2-3 months because they were rebuilding! they they sugested we go somewhere else for faster treatment but this clincc next to us has better results so was really so upset and at a loss and then my partner jumed in and gave them a bit of a speech and it helped, (he is a bit passive but gets into action when i get upset!) - we started after a year. but for this one needs personal access and if you are getting just bloody letters it is difficult to even convince anyone they have made a mistake. just hope so much for you you don't have to wait mcuh and that it' sooner rather than later!
thanks so much for the candles, all these good vibes, if it does not work now i don't know when it will,
juliana