Hi Everybody! Yes it is Mother's Day for all of us because we're Mothers in our hearts.
I found out this morning that all 3 of the little ones fertilized, so that's 1/2 the battle at least. My 3rd day was a kicker last time with the quality looking shaky, but I believe this time will be different!!!
I've been trying to figure out all the scenarios & what to do, so I'll be prepared when I get the numbers. It's tough. Like if they look shaky should I just put them in anyway? or try and let them go to blast even though there are only 3? Then there's pgd, but there's contoversy there & like SD said, it may be better to at least be pregers for 2 weeks
I guess the answer is there are no right answers, you've just got to go by instinct or something.
SD I'll be pulling for you tomorrow & absolutely no heavy lifting. It'll feel really good to get rid of the old stuff....to make room for something new & cute
Love Bug How's it going on the fert report? are you going for a 3 day or to blast?
Turtles Did you get dh to try again???? how was it?
SueQiwi Hang in! this is part of our journey & we'll all be better people because of it. Thanks for your support.
JDC I really feel for you!! And here I am freaking that I only got 3.
I've just had to say to myself that anything can happen. Like Neffi said....that couple never thought they'd have success. A girl on my old Jan/Feb board Jomae, only ended up with 1 good one but she had it transferred & she's now pregnant too.
There are so many variables that rarely come together correctly, but they don't need to be correct. Pregnancy is oftentimes a mystery, even for regular conception.
A girl i work with had 3 IVF's & none worked. She has 1 tube, and was told at 38 she would never conceive with her own eggs. She turned 45, wasn't using birth control of course, and got pregnant naturally, giving birth to a healthy gorgeous baby boy.
I think about that story whenever I get discouraged....I mean WOW!
RubyLee That's intense for your dh, a testicular biopsy. Lots of good thoughts & the best of luck to you.
Rin