Hi - first of all I would like to say THANK YOU for all your incisive comments and assistance with this site. Your advice is really really great.
I have just had another IVF/ icsi cycle - 17 mature eggs were retrieved yesterday and I found out this morning that 11 have fertilised.
We have had one fresh cycle and one FET (in 2006) and I got a BFP from the FET (altho it was a trisomy 22 m/c). I note in your comments there are two major ( and probably lots more) factors affecting pregnancy rates - quality of embryo and also the right 'window' for the endometrium.
I am a little hesitant to do the ET with this fresh cycle given that my last fresh cycle was not sucessful and possibly the lining is not as good as with the FET. So... I am contemplating letting these embies go to blast (fingers x'd if possible!~) and then freezing them if any make it, then doing a FET next month.
Is this maddness????
BTW, I cannot comment on the quality of embies yet but last fresh cycle I got 14 fertilised and 8 were grade one, 8 cell on day 3. We still have 6 frozen from this cycle. The last 2 ET's have been 3 day , 8 cell grade 1's (the best rating we have here in Singapore) but still no successful pregnancy.
Thanks Ghost, I would welcome your thoughts. Again thanks again for all your support to this site.