Gutted

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Traci
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Post by Traci »

I have just had my FSH result back and its

23.9

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

I guess Im not going to be using my own eggs unless a miricle happens!

Feeling really sad today now :cry:

Trace x
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Post by Dagny »

Oh Traci :(

I am so sorry to read this. We pin so much on everything going to plan only to get knocked down at each hurdle. You seem like a strong person and I hope you find a donor to make your dreams come true. There have been a couple of posts from willing donors just arrived on this site, maybe it's fate???

I wish you so much luck in finding that special person and I am thinking of you.

Take care and be strong.

Love and big HUG from Dagny xx
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Post by Dolly »

Hi Traci, you must be gutted.

I can't remember if you are doing acupuncture - but I went to a Zita West seminar a couple of weeks ago and she mentioned that it can help to bring FSH levels down.

I'm sending you a MASSIVE hug

Take care

Love

Dolly
Me 38 / DH 40. TTC 8 yrs
3 natural pg - 2 ectopics and 1 miscarriage
2nd IVF +ve but miscarried
1st, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th IVF all -ve
Moved to the ARGC.
Just started for the 7th time (!) Feb/March 2006.
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Post by alisonn »

im so so sorry, its so hard to know what to say, its so strange
we all feel the sadness with you.
Trace u are such a wonderful person u just have to read all your
posts to look at all the support u have given other girls,
its just so unfair, u must give yourself some time, and when u are ready put all your energy into the donar route. Last year i put my
name down on the donar list due to my age (43) but a miracle happen
and on my 4th icsi treatement it worked. But i would have had
no hesitation at all usuing a donar as i think all the bonding is done
at the very beginning when the embies are implanted.
thinking of you
alisonn
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Post by DebraP »

Oh no. Poor you. You must be very disappointed. I've realised I know nothing about FSH levels so am off to read as much as I can, if someone has any new thoughts on the subject, I'll zap them straight to you. Did the hospital/doctor say anything? or was it via letter?

So sorry
love
Debra.
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Post by SJ BROWN »

Oh bu..er,
I was really hoping you would get the result you were hoping for........

As Dolly says, maybe Accupunture could help......

Chin up.........Im sure things will work out for you eventually......If anyone deserves success you do, you are such a caring person and no matter how bad things are for you, you are always on here to give advice and support to us all ........

Have a bloody good drink tonight..............

Do you have a follow up appt or anything to discuss your next step?

Take care
Sarah
:) :) :) :) :) :) :)

p.s have not yet mastered smiley faces yet but because you are so special thought I would give it a go! Hope it worked..
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Post by july ann »

oh no, it is just not fair why can't something go your way. I know you will take the set back and move on to the next stage but I know you must be feeling so down.

like the other say you have been a great help to so many people and we are all here for you

take care,

from july ann
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Post by Jackie S »

Just wanted to let you know we are all thinking of you. I was so hoping your results would be ok, it is so unfair.

Look after yourself

Jackie
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Post by hadli1 »

Traci, That SUCKS!!! I am so sorry!! It is so hard to want something so bad and get your hopes up only so be slapped in the face!
(((HUGS)))
YOu will be in my thoughts and prayers!
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Post by alypraying »

Hi Traci
Gutted for you, know how much this meant to you. I don't know what else to say, I hope you manage to get a donor quickly prahaps jo jo can help. thinking of you and know how you feel.
take care
Aly
xx
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Post by phil »

traci, i'm so very sorry to hear your news, it must feel like a real knockback. these bloody hurdles we have to get over seem like they never stop coming at times. do remember though traci miracles do happen when we least expect them. you give so much that something good will come back to you and dh.

phil x

hope you don't mind me asking, is the result lower or higher than the last time done?
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Post by Traci »

Just popped out for some air and retail therapy and have come back to all your lovely messages you are all so kind , I tell you I wouldnt be so brave if it wasnt for you guys :P

anyway I have decided to have my acupuncture every week like planned and you never know I might get a mirical reading of 10 ,Yeh right !!!!!!


Heres waiting till the 26th :cry:

Thanks you lot

Luvs ya
Trace x
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
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Post by Traci »

Phil
Year before last I got a 10 and a 12.5 then a 6.4 , last year I got a 12.3 and a 16.3 , and now BLOODY sorry Marcus 23.9 so I guess I am hitting early menopause :cry:

Trace x
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
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Post by Rhonda Richards »

SO SORRY TO HEAR YOUR NEWS

Sending you a big hug
LOL Rhonda

Me 27yrs DH 29yrs
ttc 6yrs
WISH ALL GOODLUCK and HUGS (they do help sometimes!)
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Post by SQUEW »

Traci

Was sorry to hear your news as you have been so supportive to all of us, life really sucks sometimes.
Dont give up though as a friend of mine 37 went through the menopause at 32 and had had 2x donor IVF attempts and 1 x donor FET, she did get pg on 1st IVF but sadly miscarried at 10wks, however her last -ve IVF was in Nov and guess what, she just found out she has fallen pg naturally :D . She cant believe it! but she is 9wks now. She is at the same clinic as me(Lister) and I know she got a donor quicker than she thought possible, and they also say that the pg rates are higher with donor.
Probably said all the wrong things but just wanted to try to cheer you up!

Take care

Sue xx
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