Just to let you all know that af decided to pay me a visit bang on time yesterday morning . Didnt post yesterday as there was SO much negativity I didnt want to add to it. Anyway I had a few tears but am not taking it no where near as badly as my last two -ves.
I will be going for a full cycle in March/April so fingers crossed for that one. My follow up is next Tues and am gonna ask if I should have any tests etc as to why the embies dont stick. I am a bit in the dark as to what tests can be done so any advice from those who have been there would be good!?
Dh and I have decided that this really must be THE year we just 'go for it' as I will be 40 in 18months, so I will be on this site until then and I REALLY hope that I can be a lucky girl and get to the other side.
Good luck to all my fellow JCBs that are yet to test, am keeping everything crossed for you.
I'm so sorry to hear your news - I really thought it would be your turn this time. I'm pleased you are finding the strength to keep going and hang on to your dream - it will happen!!
AM really sorry, I really thought it would be your turn........
Lets hope that us former SCBs get some big fat +ves this year(and everyone else of course)
Sounds like we will all be having a reunion soon, me, July Ann, Kat, Karen? and of course you as well Sue, sorry if I have forgotton anyone.....
We have to get some +ves from the SCBs soon, I mean, once Nikola and Dagny have dropped their sprogs who will be left to lower the tone on the grown ups side!!
Take care and good luck with your follow up next tuesday.
Speak to you soon
Sarah
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sue, i'm sorry it didn't happen this time.
i'm not sure what tests can be done for implantation issues but i'm sure someone here will know. what i do know is that adequate blood flows to the uterus is really important. some clinics prescribe viagra after et as it is believed to improve implantation rates, which must be to do with increased blood flow. also, chinese meds and accupuncture will focus on this area too.
best wishes with your follow up. i hope you get some answers.
PANTZ
I have come home for lunch to see your results and hit crap news , poor you , Im glad you are taking it on the chin and being positive well done , its hard to do it but it save s alot of heart ache !!! if you know what I mean , I think our bodies just switch off cause it cant cope with it so the feeling goes strait over our heads !!! not for everybody I know , Im just scared that later on in life it wont bite me in the bum big time !!! anyway TESTS , after 3 x failed icsi's I am having blood tests to see why they arent sticking around , if you go back a month on one of the threads I have listed them all , if you can find them I will type them again for you.
Take care HUN
Trace x
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
Hi Sue - sorry to hear it didn't work out for your this time. Someone I work with went to her consultant after 2 failed FETs and they recommended that she start to take viagra and aspirin before her next FET (she is nearly 40 as well).
I'll be starting again in March/April - so hopefully we can cycle together.
Good luck with your followup
Love and hugs
Dolly
Me 38 / DH 40. TTC 8 yrs
3 natural pg - 2 ectopics and 1 miscarriage
2nd IVF +ve but miscarried
1st, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th IVF all -ve
Moved to the ARGC.
Just started for the 7th time (!) Feb/March 2006.
Hi Sue
So sorry your cycle didn't work I know how much you wanted this and I feel for you. I'm so glad to see how positive you are about the next cycle and hopefully the tests will show something that they can work on. I have heard the L-arginine can help with implantation.
Thinking of you
Big hugs
Aly
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Hi Sue
Didn't want you to think I wasn't thinking of you as posted to you under JCB thread.
I'm so sorry af has turned up , you really deserved this to work and it will Sue, I really am sure it will.
Have a weekend pampering you & dh and keep positive.
Thinking of you
love Dawn
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Hi Sue, was sorry to read your post, it really is not fair what we have to go through. time we had that coffee I reckon, I'll send you a personal message....
Lots of love
Kat xx
Hi Sue
I'm so sorry that this go wasn't your turn....but you have an amazing attitude and sound really strong. I have been thinking about exactly the same thing as to why the embies don't stick and the one thing that I have heard that some clinics now use, don't laugh, is viagra. I don't know any more than that but I will definitely be looking into it if this turn doesn't follow through. Apparently Dr. Taransini at the ARCG has something about it on the their site. I'm thinking of changing clinics possibly and really like the sound and statistics of this clinic.
Thank you so much for asking Traci to light 2 candles for me, that really is so sweet, I still feel completely in limbo and just wish now that I knew either way.
Sending you loads of love and great w/e.
Miche x
Our darling son Jake was born in October 2004 on our 3rd IVF attempt. I have PCOS. We're now trying again naturally, before embarking on our next FET IVF possibly late 2005... so watch this space!!!
. Didnt post yesterday as there was SO much negativity I didnt want to add to it. Anyway I had a few tears but am not taking it no where near as badly as my last two -ves. 