In need of a pick me up

Discussion forum for those particularly interested in IVF and embryo transfer including frozen embryo transfer.
to_have_fun08
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Post by to_have_fun08 »

Jade -
Seeing that you had transfer on the 16th, I would think that your Beta is sometime this week. Just wanted to say GOOD LUCK and GOD BRING ON THE BFP!!!!

Chris
Chris 40- DH 41
6 IVFs Cycles - BFN's
DE Cycle 2/2011 -BFP Jacob born 11/11/11

FET 7/2012 - BFP - Kaylee due 4/3/13

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stefanie
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Post by stefanie »

Don't POAS. False negative or false positive is going to send your moods all over the place. You can't control the results, but you can try to stay in the moment. Movies, books, etc.

And it's nice to be positive, but it's okay to be negative too. It happens. Last time I was so positive I had convinced myself I was pregnant. it was devastating. Now when my husband goes "what do you think?" I just say. I don't know. Our odds are low, but I hope for a great outcome. I feel a little more shut down, but also more relaxed..

Just try to be in the moment. cook something, work on a hobby. just try to occupy your mind and your hands.

I wish the very best for you. Really. Sending vibes and wishing you the very best.
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(I'm in 2ww w/ beta tomorrow)
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