Helen has asked me to post on her behalf to let you know that her 4th attempt has failed. She is truly devastated and is taking some time away from the site to try and get herself together and work out what she is going to do next.
I'm sure she'll back again soon.
Good luck to anyone else testing soon - lets hope there is some happy news (to add to Dawns!) very soon.
You know the rules DRINK SPEND LOADSA MONEY SPEND TIME WITH DH THEN PLAN NEXT GO
IM SO SORRY
Tracex
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
I am really so sorry it hasn't worked out for you again. What a kick in the guts.
Having so time out and being with your DH is the best thing you can do right now. We will all be here for you when and if you feel like it. Our arms will always be open - well, computers on and ready to cheer you up.
Helen
you know my thoughts from my text message but I am always here and I am so sorry - don't know what to say really...........
With loads of love
Tracey
xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
Hi so sorry Helen, I really thought this was going to work this time. No words can make up for the upset you must be feeling, I mirror what Traci has said. Get drunk and spend some money then make some decisions!
Take Care
Aly
xx
Helen
I am so so sorry. Was thinking of you yesterday and this morning and was so hoping it would be positive.
I don't know what to say to make you feel any better, you deserve so much more than this c**p.
Am thinking of you honey
lots of love
Dawn
xxx
Am so sorry honey, have as much time out as you need, this doesnt get any easier does it? We just have to hang in there and keep trying, think positive and plan your next go.
I dont blame you taking some time out.......
I really hope you find the strength to do another tmt and if you do I just want to wish you loads of luck for the +Ve you deserve.
Dear Helen
I am taking time out too, but do look in from time to time to check up on everyone. I am truly very sorry that things have n't worked out for you this time. As you know, I have been through it myself too many times and know how devasted you both must be feeling.
I have no advice, but just want you to know that I am thinking of you very specially.
Sending you a big hug
Love from Gracexx
Hi Helen
I'm so sorry that this wasn't your go. I'm sending you a huge cyber hug and hope that it isn't too long till we see you on the boards again - although I completely understand you taking a break for a while - I've also done the same in the past and felt better for it.
Love, Michelle x
Our darling son Jake was born in October 2004 on our 3rd IVF attempt. I have PCOS. We're now trying again naturally, before embarking on our next FET IVF possibly late 2005... so watch this space!!!
Can I just say thank you to all of you who have taken time to post for Helen, she really needs the support right now. I've sent her an email with all your kind wishes and I'm sure its helping her. She has asked me to reply and thank you all.
She is a delicate little flower and I really think this one has hit her harder than all the other attempts, so she needs as much help and support to get back on her feet and have another go!