Massages or pedicures are good.... if she's open to it. You would be the best gauge of that.......... Also, you could find an acupuncturist, if she is open to that, I've heard it can help increases chances of pregnancy for those of us undergoing treatments. Helps with relaxation.
I totally agree ianmichael that massages make a great gift! my DH and I found a spa that has private hot tubs so we enjoyed 1/2 hr relaxing, listening to music, then got 45min massages! I also enjoy pedicures too.
But honestly, my favorite gift is always flowers! Can you imagine how happy she'd be coming home to a bouquet in every room! Or jewelry... doesn't have to be killer expensive just something that is totally her style and she knows you took the time to pick it out.
Happy Holidays and best of luck on this rollercoaster.
me 31, DH 34
married 7.5 yrs, TTC 4.5 yrs
1st IVF 12/25/08 BFN
2nd IVF 5/19/09 BFN
3rd IVF BFP - It's TWINS due 12/22!