I am truly devastated for you and David and can't begin to imagine what you are both going through. I just can't believe this is happening. Its just not fair.
I don't know what to say and can't think straight for crying. Your message was so composed and dignified, it deserves a dignified response and I just don't know what to say. I know nothing I say will make things any easier for you, but I want you to know I'm thinking of you and am here for you if there is anything at all I can do.
You've got my numbers/email address - if you want to talk, phone me anytime. I'll email you properly later. In the meantime I'm sending you a huge big hug.
I am so sorry for what has happened to you both. I do not know what to say. Life is so cruel. I will be thinking of you next week.
Hold on to each other tightly
Helen
Age 27
I.V.F started in 2001. 1st cycle +ve mc nov 2001 at 12 weeks. Fet mar 2002 +ve then -ve.
2nd cycle +ve eptopic oct 2002 6 weeks.
fet mar 2003 -ve. 3rd cycle over stimulated embies frozen. Fet nov 2003 +ve due 11/8/04.
I am truly so sorry to read your post, no words will ever be enough for what your having to face right now. I am in tears from reading your post, why you? why anyone who loses a baby who means so much.
I know nothing will ever replace Katelyn, you and David need each other more then ever now, and I will be thinking of you next week.
I am so so sorry Dagny, I can't say anymore but my thoughts are with you.
Dagny and David,
Calum and I would like to say, how sorry we are that this has happened to you. To an extent we know much of the pain and devastation you are feeling. I don't post much anymore, since our little boy Thorfinn died, I am tired of the whole ivf thing. I don't know of anything more agonising than losing your very much wanted child, you will never get over it, but you will eventually learn to live with it, because you have no choice. When I read your post, it brought all the feelings we had when Thorfinn died, flooding back, and we feel for you, having to go through this agony.
When you are up to it and need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to e-mail
Thinking of you and hoping you manage to get through this,
Caroline x
me:34 DH:34 TTC 3 1/2 years
PGon 1st ICSI. full-term boy. neonatal death due to medical error.
currently on 1st FET cycle.
Scorry
Dear Dagny
I am completely heartbroken to read your post. It is just so unfair and you do not deserve such an awful thing happen. I can't imagine to know how you and David are feeling but I only pray that time is a healer.
I'm thinking of you both at this horrendous time and sending you all our love.
Michelle & Stevie xxxx
Our darling son Jake was born in October 2004 on our 3rd IVF attempt. I have PCOS. We're now trying again naturally, before embarking on our next FET IVF possibly late 2005... so watch this space!!!
Dear Dagny
I have no words to express how sorry I am to hear this truly terrible news. I am thinking of you and David and your precious baby daughter.
Love
Gracexx
I am so sorry to read your post, life is so cruel sometimes and often nobody has any answers. Katelyn was a very special baby and her memory will live on forever in your hearts.
I am thinking of you both at this difficult time, talk and be strong for each other.
God bless Katelyn