i am already SPOTTING!!!

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Miracle
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i am already SPOTTING!!!

Post by Miracle »

hi all,
Just wanted to let u guys know that i have started spotting!!!!I am ...i dont know....Just Upset i guess....Just don't know what to write but honestly....i am completely negative about it.I just don't know what to do.....I called up my nurse ,she said don't worry..... :roll: ,It's because of the vaginal suppositories that u r inserting......Well,what does she expect from someone who is just 25 and already has a failed fresh cycle on her resume!!!!!I just cannot wait till the 9th...i just don't want to be left hanging....if it's a no...i want to get on with life and get ready for the next cycle :(

Just didn't feel like posting on fcb thread as there r too many people on 2ww.Oh lord! ijust hope it works for all of them!!!

Dizzy,i know whatever i say is not going to help but u and dh are in my prayers and may god give u the mental,physical and financial strength step towards ur next cycle.

I apologise for not writing personal notes to everyone but i am praying for all of u!!!

Luv,
Miracle.
P.s -Grandma pls wish ur daughter good luck .....i hope she does get a positive!!!!!
It's going to be ok in the end.Even if it's not ok....IT"S NOT THE END!!!
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DebraP
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Post by DebraP »

Miracle....NO NO NO NO NO :shock: If I'm not allowed to wallow in my negative 2ww feelings, neither are you! :wink:

We're only one test day apart and I've also been over analysing every tiny signal my body is/isn't sending me. We don't know anything for sure until we get the test results back, spotting isn't AF, loads of people have spotting/bleeding and still had +++ pg tests.

If I can try to ignore my cramps, then you can try to see spotting as all part of the 2ww...think of all that your body is trying to do...

25 is disgustingly young :D :D :D just think how I feel at 39+11.25

We owe it to ourselves to stay positive
love
Debra
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Traci
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Post by Traci »

Dont Panic
They told me that it can not neceserrely be bad news in fact a client of mine started to bleed heavily the day of her test and thought that was it and she had a big fat ++++++ so dont feel negitive yet PMAPMAPMA


Trace x

Lucky candel on big time for you :lol:
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july ann
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Post by july ann »

hi

please try and stay positive a remember a lady on here who had the same she stopped the pessaires and then on test date she was pg.

so try and stay in there I know it is so hard as i'm having negative thoughts as i'm having af pains already and I have a week to go.

thinking of you

july ann
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july
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Rhonda Richards
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Post by Rhonda Richards »

Please try to stay positive till the 9th, don't think negative.

We are all thinking of you, lighting our candles, praying and do everything we can....

Keep positive..

Take care
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LOL Rhonda

Me 27yrs DH 29yrs
ttc 6yrs
WISH ALL GOODLUCK and HUGS (they do help sometimes!)
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Post by jane »

Miracle,
spotting is sometimes a sign of implantation ...... so DONT WORRY. The clinics are the expert and they told you to not worry.
Stay positive for a few more days and then you can smile at the positive test result you get.
Love from Sophie-Jane
Aged 32. 1st ivf failed March 04. Going to try again with my frosties.
Have a scruffy dog called Tobye.
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SBROWN
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Post by SBROWN »

Hi Miracle

so many girls on this site have had spotting and gone on to have +ve tests......

Bubbly Michelle did and she has just given birth to a wonderful boy, ALex.....also like July Ann says someone recently got AF so stopped taking the pessaries only to find out later she was pregnant

So please dont give up....

An old cliche but it aint over til the fat lady sings!!

Sarah
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Post by BelB »

Hey Miracle,
Don't stress my love. As the girls have said, this is not a bad sign, it can very possibly be a good sign of implantation...
PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA
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beckncraig
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Post by beckncraig »

Miracle,
Don't panic the hospital told us 50% of ivf ladys have bleeding. Phone your clinic cause some times you have to up the pessaries. It seems quite common. i know it must be a worry. don't give up on those embies.
lots of PMS :D and baby dust your way. Our fingers & toes are crossed for the 9th.
love Becky & Craig. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Allison
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Post by Allison »

Miracle,

Please stay positve although I know how hard that is. It is probably a very good sign and lots of girls with spotting get positves. You have every chance - you are young and healthy and that gives you a much better chance than us old fogies. Oh to be 25 again.......

LOts of MPMA!

Love Allison
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Post by july ann »

hi miracle

just wanted to see how you are today. hope you have not got your af.


july ann
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july
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Miracle
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Post by Miracle »

hi all,
Thanku all for your support! With no family in the U.S and not even a soul knowing about our infertility secret it would be hard to cope with all of this without u guys.Well,the bleeding is still there. :cry: Can't say it's menses cause i don't have pms!It's not even brown spotting...it's just like AH...I am so confused....I feel like asking anyone who knows on earth what is happening inside!!!!!

aneways...Nowadays,i feel like a baby...cribbing all the time....But i can't pretend to be strong when at this point of time i am not.... :cry: Sorry for writing such negative thoughts but i am just so lonely i guess...and also have a terrible quench for girl talk :)

I hope we hear from grandma soon....i have been logging in all day trying to find out....Grandma good luck...i just wish noone has to go thru this.

Luv,
MIracle.
It's going to be ok in the end.Even if it's not ok....IT"S NOT THE END!!!
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Dawn Blake
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Post by Dawn Blake »

Please don't give up hope Miracle.

I spotted and bled during and after the 2ww and I am now 37 weeks pregnant, so I can honestly say from experience it isn't always a bad thing!

I will be keeping an eye on your posts to see how you are doing, but continue to rest!

Thinking of you!

Dawn x
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Post by bubblymichelle »

Hi Miracle,

Easier said then done when you see blood you think its all over but you have to stay positive. I was exactly like you I was worried when I started bleeding, I bled on and off up till 18wks of my pregnancy and here I am now with a 4wk old son so please please please stay positive.

(((( HUGS ))))

Love
Shell.
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