Dagny and David
For once words fail me , I am so sorry you have had to experiance this , its everyones worse nightmare , you sound so strong and dignified if thats the right word , sorry I am not good at typing when I cant see the keybord for crying , you are in my thoughts , I am not religious but I will say a prayer for you tonight .
Gutted
Trace x
I'm truly devestitated for you both, you are in my thoughts and preyers.
Hold on to each other, and give each other a big hug.
I am lost for words.......sorry and take care.
Love
Wibbs
xxxx
Dagny
We havent really chatted before - but I just wanted to say how sorry I am for you both. You sound INCREDIBLY strong. Take care of yourselves as best you possibly can. Above all give yourself time to heal.
All love
Cazx
Dear Dagny and dh--I am so sorry to read your news. I hope you get some comfort from these words. We lost our wee boy Cameron in
April and were gutted. We had a lovely funeral with our wee boy and said goodbye to him in our special way. The lady who conducted the cremation said "Death is like a cut on the hand--the scar will always be there but the pain eases. Sending you lots of hugs
love
woppa
xxxx
To all the little Angels who stayed with God.
Your fingerprints are on my heart.
Even though I never held your hand -
you touched me.
Even though I never heard you speak -
you taught me.
You taught me about love.
You taught me about caring.
You taught me about courage.
You taught me about faith.
You taught me about happiness.
You taught me about sorrow.
You brought me closer to my loved ones.
You brought me closer to myself.
In the time I cared for you,
my how life changed.
Never to be the same again.
Because of you
I know I will somehow be stronger.
Because of you
I know I will be more prepared for life.
All this from tiny fingerprints
that touched my heart.
Because of this
you will live forever in my soul -
never to be forgotten.
I haven't been on here for a while but i always think of eveyone.
My heart broke for you when i read your news,
Katelyn is a beautiful spirit now who will be with you always,
Take great care of eachother,
David and I have been so touched by all your kind words and support - Thank you, all of you.
We have spent most of the time wondering why we have had this happen to us and we can't get any answers. We are trying to come to terms with it all but the pain is not easing at all. We know it will take time but at the moment we are in limbo and wishing the time to pass quickly.
Katelyn's funeral will be on Thursday 11th March at 2pm. We went to church on Sunday where a prayer was said for Katelyn and we then had to choose a plot for her to be buried. I felt like it was all a horrible nightmare and that I would wake up soon - but that wasn't going to happen. We are having family and close friends attend and they will light candles and have them placed all round her casket. We have decided not to have hymns as no one will feel like singing and my brother has written a beautiful piece of music which will be played and some poems read.
We wanted her to wear something nice but as she was 1lb 6oz there is nothing in the shops so she will wear a little tiny baby grow from the hospital and a tiny knitted hat. We have bought her a shawl to wrap her in and a little teddy. We are writing a letter to her and putting a photograph of us in with it and finally a St Christopher to keep her safe on her journey up to heaven. These will all go in her casket.
We hope that the day passes quickly and calmly and then we can move on with our lives keeping Katelyn in our hearts and minds. Girls, give us a quick thought or a prayer between 2 and 3pm on Thursday and say goodbye to our precious angel.
We are thinking of you all as you continue your roads towards parenthood and the ones who have already made it and we hope you all get what we all deserve - happiness and joy of having a child or children. Good luck for the imminent ones and good luck too to the ones just starting the journey - take care of your miracle babes and I know Katelyn will watch over them all as I am sure little Oliver and Thorrfin is too.
Take care my cyber buddies - I will be watching your progress and following your posts but not posting much just yet. Need a bit of time away, be good to yourselves.
My heart goes out to you both. I can understand how you both are feeling right now, I went through saying goodbye to my special daughter over 14 years ago!
It is all so unfair why these terrible things happen to people who so truly deserve to give so much love to someone so special. Nobody can give us reasons to why they happen and the pain is so strong and believe me never goes!
I will be thinking of you both on thursday and god bless both you, david and baby Katelyn.
hi dagny and david,
We have not written much to each other but i just wanted to write my part of peace wishes for your baby.May your beloved daughter rest in peace and may you hold on to each other...i am sending all the love that my heart can possess for your daughter and all the strength that i possess to u both......may god bless ur family!!
Luv,
Miracle
It's going to be ok in the end.Even if it's not ok....IT"S NOT THE END!!!
Just to say I will be thinking of you tomorrow and will say a little prayer between 2 and 3pm. You are so dignified and brave in your posts and I hope that this will help you get through the days ahead.
You and little Katelyn will be in our thoughts tomorrow afternoon. Look after each other.
If there's ever anything that Alan and I can do for you, please call on us - we're here for you.
Love Juliet and Alan
TTC 5 years. Daniel & Charlotte born 22.03.02, 1st ICSI treatment. TTC for 4 further years. 2nd ICSI cycle abandoned, 3rd cycle BFN. Looking forward to being a happy family of 4.
