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DebraP
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too p*ssed off for words

Post by DebraP »

Hi, I'm so angry I can't speak.....my clinic gave me a ''quick test' result yesterday but said I should wait for today's full result. Fine, except they didn't call DF today and he forgot to call them. I was in back to back interviews from 10 to 5pm, by which time the clinic had closed. I've tried the mobile numbers of the head guy and his assistant, but they're both abroad and their phones are switched off. THIS IS MY LIFE WE'RE DEALING WITH HERE & I CAN'T WAIT.

I'm seething and no one seems to understand why I can't wait one more day. I want to cry.

Debra.
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july ann
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Post by july ann »

oh debra

I know how you feel every minute is a nightmare. This must be so frustrating for you both. It's bad enough waiting for the test date never mind waiting a day later. I would do a pee test the good thing is you have not got your af. It's not fair to put you through another night of waiting.

My heart goes out to you.

just pray no new's is good new's.

thinking of you july ann
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july
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Post by loopylou57uk »

hi debra,i can`t believe this is hapening to you,what a stressful nightmare,you will have to try and calm down as it will be no good for the baby/babys.
what is a quick test result?
hopefully this extra days wait will all be worth it,
best of luck,love loopy :)
Miracle
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Post by Miracle »

hi debra,
I know u r really pissed and its totally understandable why!!!!These hospitals,they hardly care what we go through!!!!!BUt all we can do right now is wait.....i know this might sound stupid but pls try and relax and just think of ur embies in there!!!!!U won't be alone counting mins and hours for tomm,We all will...for u and all the 3 who test tomm.....Good luck debra...Pls try to take deep breaths and wait for the big fat ++++++.

Luv,
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Post by KathrynT »

Debra
What a nightmare! I can't believe they could close the clinic knowing that someone hadn't had their result. One day to them might not be much but to us it's a lifetime. I hope tomorrow they come up with good news. Try to keep calm (easier said than done)... I know I would be seething too.

Could you do a pee test at home just to put your mind at ease?

Sending you big hugs.
xx
Kathryn
Me 37 Dh 39 ttc 8 years
1st IVF May 2001(Failed) Damaged tubes
2nd Feb 2004 (Failed)
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regankate
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Post by regankate »

WOW Debrah I am sooo sorry to hear you news.
So what exactly did they tell you?? Positive or negative??
Or not even that???
That is so unfair.
But like everyone else said try to stay calm because of you embryos!!
THe four of us will hear the news on the same day!!!
I am hear for you!!
Your symptoms sound promising, no AF!!!!!

XOXOX
REGANKATE
wish you all the BEST!!!!
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Post by Traci »

Im pissed off too cause I want to know!!!!!! you said they gave you a Quick test result what was that? PLEASE go and do a test , I think its a yes !!!!!!!! Poor you what a situation to be in ,

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

I will light the candel for you tonight AGAIN!!!!

Trace x
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Post by Allison »

Debra,

You must to so upset to have to wait another day but keep calm as getting upset wont help your babies. Do a quick test yourself so you dont have to wait until tomorrow.

What was your quick test result yesterday?

Love Allison
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Post by jane »

Bloody hell that is crap. I am not surprised you are seething. Nothing I can say to make you feel better. Don't do a hpt unless it is day 14, as every book I have read says no point testing with an hpt until day 14. Or is it day 14?
Am thinking of you and df, with this extra stress you are going through. So sorry. But think about the positive result you will get tommorrow.
from Sophie Jane
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Post by SBROWN »

Hi Debra

Sending you a massive ((((((hug))))))

like the others say try and relax and try not tooo take it out on DF(is this your husband/partner?) I dont think men understand the stress and pain we go through

Fingers crossed for tomorrows result
Sarah
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Post by BelB »

Bastards!!!!
They have NO concept of how bloody stressful this is, I think I'd be doing a hpt...
PMA Debra
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