Wishing, i think you are confused. It takes several weeks to get the results. So your biopsy will be done on day 3 or day 5. SIRM is where this started. They do day 3 biopsies then wait to see what embryos are still good quality on day 6 and they only freeze those embryos. CCRM was the next place to do it and the only difference is they prefer day 5 biopsies. Other than that they do everything else the same. Once results come back you will schedule the FET. You can't really schedule the time for the FET in advance. The labs can have a really fast turn around or production can be very delayed. I have seen women get their results in under a month and other over 3 months later.
ON IMPORTANT THING TO REMEMBER, IF YOUR CLINIC IS NOT VITRIFYING THE EMBRYOS YOU WILL MOST LIKELY LOOSE 20% OR MORE OF THEM DURING THE THAW.
41, you will not be facing selective reduction. Due to your age, the vast majority off your eggs are bad. You will get pregnant with twins at most and that is even very unlikely. Now if you did a donor egg cycle with a year old's eggs that would be a different story completely.
I can't remember the exact questions but they were regarding what is the benefit of this testing. First, the clinics doing it require that the embryos are still good on day 6 for freezing. That right there weeds out most bad embryos. Those embryos that didn't make it to that stage would not make a baby to begin with. You only allowed to transfer embryos that have the correct number of chromosomes. That is the deal. The docs will not transfer those that come back abnormal.
I think Lynnie already addressed the issue as to how this is different than a elective abortion post CVS or Amnio. You can't equate not transferring an abnormal blast with aborting a fetus that you have had growing inside you for several months. You have already seen its figers, toes, heartbeat, felt it move.........big difference.
Another issue is time. If you are an AMA patient such as Lynnie and myself you don't have time to monkey around. I was last pregnant with injections/iui on my third iui the month i turned 42. It ended in a missed m/c. So by the time it was all said and done i had lost 5-6 months of trying to conceive. That was time i don't have. So now i am doing (to start with) three CGH/banking cycles. The fastest i can cycle is every other month. Due to my age i have only a 50/50 shot of having 1 normal embryo per retrieval. It will be a miracle if i come up with 2 normals in 3 retrieval. I really want to cycle until i have banked 3 normals before i start transferring. As we age our eggs are aging in dog years unlike the rest of us. I am trying to collect some good eggs while i still have some left. If i did a fresh cycle i might get pregnant again with an abnormal egg and end up m/c or worse which would eat up possibly all the time i have left before all my eggs are crap.
I know i am just writing as i am thinking and this is too long to edit so i hope i am making sense.

I am not sure if i addressed everything so let me know if i didn't. Also, let me know if i still need to clarify anything.