brit1612
I AM SOOOOO SORRY I can't believe it. I know you are devistated. Just know that we are here for you when you need to talk. I guess your situation is an example to us all just how delicate this journey is. I was feeling all confident because I seen the hearbeat yesterday - thought we were in the clear............now I can see that's not always the case.
tburks- thank you very much. It is sooo nice to have this board full of nice people to talk to. Once you see the heartbeat your risk goes down a lot! Hopefully you don't have anything to worry about. Hope everything goes great with your pregnancy.
After 7 attempts (2 negatives/3 miscarriages), we have TWO miracle boys!! If you would like to hear our story, please visit http://www.ivfsuccessstories.info. Never give up, it can happen for you!!
Brit1612...my heart goes out to you. I can't imagine what the feeling is like but I would guess it doesn't get much worse. I feel you are a positive person though and will get thru this and continue on your journey. I wish you the very best in the months ahead.
Brit1612 The only thing bad about these internet forums is that I can't give you a hug. IVF certainly is a hard road but hopefully with us, you can find a soft place to land.
TTC '05
Me 35; poor eggs
DH 35; poor morph
12/05 mc @ 5w
6/07 #1 IVF BFP chemical
7/08 #2 IVF BFN
1/09 #3 IVF BFP blighted ovum
Brit1612
I'm so sorry! I thought since you saw the heartbeat, that was reassurance that you're heading in the right direction. This whole ivf thing is such an emotional rollercoaster. I'm so sad for you. I will be thinking of you.
Just as I suspected - BFN. Now just waiting for FET - I have 2 frosties from this cycle, hopefully, better luck with them. Congrats to everybody with good news.
Brit1612 - my thoughts are with you. I had a m/c at 11 weeks after I heard the heartbeat and my heart goes out to you. I can say to stay positive, but really the only thing that helped me was time (and my very supportive dh). Oh - and stay away from baby showers.
metcarl
Sorry to hear your bad news. Hopefully, you'll have better luck on your FETs. I'm glad that you are trying to stay postive.
I had my 3rd beta today and it was 1927. My nurse said the number was fine and that they would like to see a 60% rise. My us is next Thurs and I am scared and excited at the same time. Just a bit nervous with all of the experiences that some of you ladies had. I'm just going to try to take it day by day. Congrats tburks on your us and Jenn and Barb, I'm sure you'll see your little babies next week. Don't some say that 6 wks is still a bit too soon? Hoping everyone is keeping a PMA!
metcarl, sorry about your results. FET is less stressful and it will pay off, PMA.
britt1612, my heart breaks to hear your sad news. I know there is nothing to say that will make your hurt go away but I will pray for you and give you BIG HUGGGGGGGGGGGGSSSSSSS. LIke everyone says hang in there and we will be here for you.
brit1612
Oh, Brit, I am so sorry. Sometimes life is not #$%^^& fair. Treat yourself gently and cry all you want. Or throw things. Or both. For me, the only temporary relief came with red wine, a hot tub, and some time off from work. Still chasing the long term, but having the ladies here to unload on helps some.
Metcarl
Here’s hoping your strength, optimism and perseverance will make your dreams come true. Wishing you the best. Frosty power!
Kikie
Glad you’re looking good. 6 weeks is early. OBs usually wait until 8-10, but REs like to so it early esp. with such antsy clients.
07 MC
08 IVF: lost twins 1 MC/1 anencephaly
1/30/09 FET: BFP!
9/21/09 She's here! born 5 weeks early, 4lb. 6 oz., 17-1/2 in.
Metcarl As others have expressed, I'm sorry about your news. Its great that you have frosties and you don't have to go through another stim and ER. You are very lucky to already have a dd. Count your blessings instead of your crosses.
Siouxsie Hope that jury duty is over for you. Congratulations on seeing the heartbeat! I don't know if I would agree to additional needle sticks just to get more vaginal ultrasounds. Just kidding, for us OCD people ultrasounds that show the heartbeat are very reassuring. Dinner was great but as I thought, when I walked into the kitchen BAM!!! pots and pans and unwashed dishes were there to greet me. I guess its the thought that counts.
Junebug I just needed something to use up the nervous energy from a dissapointing ultrasound. I guess I'm addicted to blinkies.
BarbD and JennLB I'm in the same boat as you guys coz they only saw a gestational sac, too. The wait is killing me.
Babydust to everyone but especially to kt257 for today and for stayinpositive and konahart for tomorrow
TTC '05
Me 35; poor eggs
DH 35; poor morph
12/05 mc @ 5w
6/07 #1 IVF BFP chemical
7/08 #2 IVF BFN
1/09 #3 IVF BFP blighted ovum
I can't believe it. I know you are devistated. Just know that we are here for you when you need to talk. I guess your situation is an example to us all just how delicate this journey is. I was feeling all confident because I seen the hearbeat yesterday - thought we were in the clear............now I can see that's not always the case.
I will be thinking of you.