I guess it's a little slow around here on weekends...so you all must be out doing lots of fun things.
hope&faith- these boards certainly do keep us occupied during the dreaded 2ww. I agree it is probably best to try and get out.
sisi- 5 fertilized is great. I only had 4 on my 3dt, but still ended up with a beautiful baby, so I am praying for you...are you 3 day or 5? 3 day would be tomorrow and 5 day would be wednesday??
lionoe- Like hope said, try and get out, visit some friends, I did some scrapbooking during 2ww, shopping, pampering (spa and hair), anything to occupy your mind. And of course, try to relax, as hard as that may seem.
sari- I, like you, can also not gain much weight. In the beginnning of ivf, I did bloat, gaining a few pounds, but after I got my bfp, I lost weight until close to five or 6 months pregnant. Because I was heavier, I just didn't show much, and all of my weight gain was from fluid retention at the end...so maybe if you body is like mine, you will be the same. Happy stimming to you!
hope2be- We too are dealing with male infertility, and the most important advice I can give is that you are in it together. I stressed to my husband that this is not his problem, it is ours, as a couple, because i want to have his child. He might think things like, why don't I just go have a baby with someone else since I don;t have a problem, but I explain I want to have HIS baby, or a baby together, and marriage means we are together through thick and thin. In any relationship, one side will have to make sacrifices for another, and if I have to give myself a few shots to have his child, it is well worth it. As soon as I made him realize that and acted like going through this was no big deal at all...everything was fine, and here we are doing it again. Just always remember to love each other no matter what.
dys- so glad af came. I am not sure if mine came or not...i know...that sounds weird. I shall explain...
I started spotting on friday night, but it wasn't normal bright red period, so I thought maybe leftover spotting from the polyp removal, even though I am due for af??? It got heavier, but not much brighter, still dark in color, and also not anywhere near as heavy as normal, but then I think maybe that is because of the removal. Polyps are supposed to cause you to have very heavy periods, so maybe I have always had a polyp and now this is what af is like? I just can't imagine they didn't find the polyp first ivf. Then I think maybe the polyp removal itself is causing my period to be light. Has anyone had the surgery and then had a really light af? I forgot to call clinic saturday morning before they closed, so now I have to wait until tomorrow and may have missed when they would want to see me for u/s (day 2/3 of af). Hopefully it is ok and they will just tell me to start bcp's. I don't know if I can get to the clinic monday b/c I have no babysitter with mil out of commision, so by tuesday af will be long gone I am sure.
Speaking of mil, I wanted to give an update since everyone here was so supportive. She is still in the psychiatric hospital, but is doing 110% better! We expect her to come home in the middle of this week. She looks better, feels better, and they are working out meds for her. She seems very deidcated to getting out and doing the right thing. She is looking forward to AA meetings, and the very intensive outpatient program(4 hours per night, minimum of 4 days a week...yikes!) She is also talking about going back to church and trying to get social security so she can work less, maybe get a place of her own and take care of herself better. I can not believe the difference, and we are so thankful she got the transfer to the psychiatric hospital...it is exactly what she needed and what we had hoped for her when we brought her to the ER before we got sidetracked with medical problems. So thank you all for your prayers...they worked
