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Discussion forum for those particularly interested in IVF and embryo transfer including frozen embryo transfer.
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espinozal23
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Post by espinozal23 »

The fat lady has sung BFN
ME 30 Tubes Removed DH Perfect
1st IVF March 2007 BFN
2nd IVF ER Jan 8th ET Jan 11th
BETA Jan 23rd BFN
FET Scheduled for March Hopefully
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bdantonio
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hopeful sorry to hear but you never show this may turn out to be a true miracle. My first dd they told me had downs and that i should abort n shes fine. I did ivf 7x and got 7bfp to lose 5 of them and to this day theu have no clue why i carried the two i did they are miracles. I believe in the world of infertility you have to believe in miracles.

Espinolza sorry for bfn
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tabatha1975
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Post by tabatha1975 »

hello all i got call from re today only 7 of my 16 eggs fertilized, now to decide wheather to put 2 or 3 back need some help deciding, unless i get bad news tomorrow now i'm worried. since so few embies we will prob have to do 3 day transfer on sunday
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Post by to_have_fun08 »

espinozal23 - So sorry about your BFN. I know it sucks. I am in the same boat. POAS 10dp3dt and it is negative. I know it might be a little too early so I will try again but I really have no hope. Good luck, are you going to try and cycle again?

Hopeful_VA -(((HUUUGGSS))) to you. Good for you for trying to move forward. I know it must be hard just thinking about that right now.

tabatha - i think that is good that 7 fertilized. Now we will pray that they keep on growing. How many to put back will be a tough decision. It would depend on how your embies look and if you are doing a 3dt or a 5dt. Sending you tons of embie growing vibes.

Lady_J - Hope you got over your sickness.

Hope everyone else has a good weekend.



Chris
Chris 40- DH 41
6 IVFs Cycles - BFN's
DE Cycle 2/2011 -BFP Jacob born 11/11/11

FET 7/2012 - BFP - Kaylee due 4/3/13

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Post by sportsmom »

Hello all! I'm new to the site and I think it's great! I just started the IVF process and on my 3rd day of the Lupron injection. My ER and ET should be sometime between the 3-4 week in April. I've been going crazy sitting here thinking of all the possibilites and outcomes and started searching to see if I can find a forum that understands all that I'm going through. And I'm only on day 3!
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welcome to the forum wel tis is the place to be cause infertility will drive you nuts...
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espinozal23
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Post by espinozal23 »

I dont think that I will be doing a cycle anytime soon still paying for cycle in Jan that we done that ended in a BFN and we paid the full amount for the FET that we just done and I'm not for sure when we will be able to afford another cycle I have talked with my best friend and we may end up going that route with her although I could love the baby even though it wouldnt be my egg but it would still be my husbands sperm and part his child I think that I could accept that so we dont know yet what we are going to do although I feel like my world has ended and I got the news at work today even though I had already prepared myself for a BFN it still hurt like hell I managed to keep it together and still havnt cried yet even though I am about to right now
ME 30 Tubes Removed DH Perfect
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2nd IVF ER Jan 8th ET Jan 11th
BETA Jan 23rd BFN
FET Scheduled for March Hopefully
Molly23
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Post by Molly23 »

to_have_fun08- I just wanted to wish you luck on your beta today, and I am hoping you get a BFP! :D
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to_have_fun08
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Post by to_have_fun08 »

Molly - Thanks so much for the well wishes but it was a BFN. I figured it would be from the get go. I have a consultation with a new RE on April 15. Will probably cycle again in July. The new RE only has cycles once a month, the next one would be in May but I will be on vacation then so I will have to wait till July. So I am going to take the next 3 months off, try to relax and not think too much about IVF. I know easier said then done. How have you been?


Good luck to everyone.


Chris
Chris 40- DH 41
6 IVFs Cycles - BFN's
DE Cycle 2/2011 -BFP Jacob born 11/11/11

FET 7/2012 - BFP - Kaylee due 4/3/13

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Post by oxana »

Hi everyone!

I posted ones. But I been reading every singe day . I think it is a great site.
to_have_fun_08 so sorry for your BFN. Good luck with new RE.

I'm happy to anounce my 2ww was over Yesturday. :lol: I got my Beta it was 1209. :D :D :D I had 5dt and had to wait full 2ww. Nurse said it's very strong number. I will have my U/S on Apr.7, my RE will tell us how many embies it took. I'm on cloud nine right now. I just want to add one more BFP to this treat.

Good luck to u ladies who are stimming right now, and who'are on :evil: 2ww.
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Post by Lady_J »

Good Morning ladies... Sorry for being MIA for a while. I have been going thru so many emotions that I cant handle it right now... I am also still waiting for an answer to the job.

Since it has been awhile since I have gone on,. I have not been able to keep up with the postings but to those that have gotten a BFP Many Congrats to you. Hope it all goes well. And to those with their BFNs... I am so sorry for the bad news. Hope u have better luck next time.

Chris.. we went thru this cycle together from the beginning. ANd I have to sayt hat I am so sorry for your BFN. I dont even know what to say to make u feel better. It must be so frusterating for you and so confusing as to why it does not work for you but yet it is so easy for others. SOmething we just will never understand. I hope that you take a well deserved break that will lead you to a BFP at your next cycle. I really will pray for you Chris. And once again I am so sorry.

Well, as for me Ia m going to be gone till my next cycle which may take place in about October. I am just so fed up with IVF and needes and the heartbreak. I am going to try to enjoy my summer, my DD and my wonderful husband. I hope that everyone goiung thru this IVF journey will have a pleasant one and get there BFPs. Good Luck to everyone.
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I am 32 yrs / DH is 34
PCOS/1 tube/ DH low sperm count
1st IVF cycle... Nov 2008 = BFN
2nd IVF cycle...Feb 2009 = BFN
FET... Sept. 2009 = BFN
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Post by Rosario »

Well I am officially 24 today and no successful IVF yet... I also started AF but won't be doing my cycle this time since I started my new insurance just yesterday. I am looking into a May cycle which will be a micro lupron flare. Well I am still around. Hope everyone is well. Chris sorry to hear about your BFN. We have been thru a lot together and we deserve a baby real soon!!!!!!!!!!!
IVF #1: Oct '08- BFN
IVF #2: Feb '09- BFP (Chem)
IVF #3: May '09- BFP
(Triplets lost at 21.5 weeks- Preterm Labor)
BFP: Natural Pregnancy March '10
Little Frank Manuel arrived 11.20.10
June '11 natural BFP sadly ending in miscarriage :(
to_have_fun08
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Post by to_have_fun08 »

oxana - CONGRATS ON YOUR BFP. That is a really good number. Maybe Twins.


Lady_J - Enjoy your time off with your DH and DD. Have a wonderful summer. Hopefully I will be PG by the time you get back, but I will still lurk for you to see how you are doing.


Rosario - I wish I was 24 again. You still have lots of time to get PG so don't stress about your age. May will be here soon. I will be watching out for you. Yes, we have been through a lot together and this next cycle will be the one for both of us. So is your new insurance better then the last. I am so tired of dealing with my insurance. They seem to want to deny everything. UGGHHHHH


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