I'm looking for advice (and reassurance !) please ..
I'm now on day 5 of tww and have had period-like pains right through which I'm putting down to being normal. Last night though, I had this awful sickly and weird feeling in stomach - the sort of feeling I usually get a day of so before AF. Don't mean to be crude, but in the loo, too, I could smell AF smell. I wasn't imagining it. AF wouldn't be due until next Tues 23rd and test's due on 29th.
This morning I don't have this feeling as much and no spotting/blood as yet.
I wondered if anyone else has had these pre AF signs which have then just disappeared ?
Also, if AF is going to come, should it be around the due time as I'm pretty regular, or might it be earlier ..?
Thanks everybody
Sand
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
i have heard alot of the girls on the FCB on the 2ww saying they have af signs and there were some positives
so try and relax keep calm i no its easy said but not so easy to do
and do try to stay positive
lots of PMA to you wish you loads of luck
Hi Sand
Don't worry... I think a lot of us have af like pains in the 2ww. It's often either the pain still from ec or just the hormones you're taking. Unfortunately I had a-ve and my af came after my test but from what I've read everyone who had +ves still had these pains.
Hope this helps a bit. Please don't worry. Lots of PMA.
Kathryn
Me 37 Dh 39 ttc 8 years
1st IVF May 2001(Failed) Damaged tubes
2nd Feb 2004 (Failed)
Have border collie Megan Roo (nearly 5)
Im with susan , think of this as a possitive sign , stay calm , imagine that they are bedding down for the next 9 months, this all helps , push those negitive vibes to the back of your mind . PMAPMAPMA I know its hard but it does help Really
Trace x
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
Thanks for reassurance, it really does help .. Could go stir crazy otherwise, or maybe I'm already there (?). Back to work tomorrow, so that should take my mind off things.
love
Sandra
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Sand,
It all sounds normal. Everyone of the positive FCB's had af pains. Discharge does vary as well - are you on the progesterone pesaries?
If you are negative af shouldn't come until day 14 (or when you stop the progesterone). However, don't stres about this too much because there have been lots of girls who have had bleeding and spotting and still pregnant.
The 2ww can seem like for ever, but you will get there in the end with a BFP.
All the best
Sophie-Jane
Aged 32. 1st ivf failed March 04. Going to try again with my frosties.
Have a scruffy dog called Tobye.
Thanks for info. Yes - They're Cyclogest Progesterone pessaries. So, I think I can relax a tiny bit now. Everytime I go to the loo I'm expecting AF to have started, but as it's not due until 23rd anyway I'm probably worrying unduly this week. Will be more positive !
How are you keeping Sophie-Jane ?
Sandra
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
My hospital didn't say anything to me about doing / not doing anything during the tww. Just to "carry on with normal activities", so it's a bit freaky seeing all these does and don'ts posted.
Sandra
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
That was the only advice i was given too? How you feeling now? I keep getting twingy pains on my right side. And boobs are really sore, but they get sore before af aswell so not reading anything into that!!!!!!!!
It's really strange 'cos I keep getting the sickly AF feeling (as well as the twinges etc that I've had since ET), then it just goes away. Sophie-Jane said earlier that if it is -ve, AF shouldn't come until normal date. So now I'm wondering if AF is just sitting there waiting patiently until 23rd, as it knows this...! See, I'm losing it ..
The twinges I'm getting are on on both sides, so I think ovaries must still be recovering from EC ? I don't know if I'm reading too much into it, but I had an even-ish number of follicles opened on each side, so even-ish pain on each side ? My boobs aren't as sore now as they were last week, which perhaps is worrying ?
So, conclusion :
Pain = Worry. No Pain = Worry. There's no answer to all this except remaining positive. Roll on Wed 24th, then we can all celebrate your good news !
love
Sandra
x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11