A very long journey - to offer hope

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lara312
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Post by lara312 »

Congrats carolyn and dh at long last your precious bundle is here like shantala said we've all been throuugh so much together and its great to see happy endings i know your lil boy will bring you much happiness i wish you all the best and well done to your sis i'm so happy for you i cant wait to hear all details and see pics of lil sam
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CarolynB
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Post by CarolynB »

Dear All

Thank you so much for all the support.

Our precious son Sam Benjamin Bresh finally arrived on June 29th at 9.07pm.

The full story will follow but the short version is that my sister laboured for almost 24 hours to get fully dilated but he would not engage. Sam and Deborah then contracted an infection - bloods still not back to tell us what it was. In the end he had to come via emergency C-Section which my sister wanted to avoid more than anything else. However at 10 7 then there was no way that he was coming out the other way!


He had to stay in Neo Natal at the start as he was on drips and antibiotics. His heart was racing and he was so hot. So we all need to stay at the hospital until Sunday at the very earliest.

He is here. I am overwhelmed with love for him and what my sister has done.

He is an extraordinary boy. Our little family is complete. We are over the moon to be Sam's Mummy and Daddy.

Dreams really can come true.And you have helped me every step of the way.
Love to you all.
Carolyn xxxxxxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
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Post by Angie65 »

sooo happy for you Carolyn - wonderful news. Can't wait to hear all about your precious Sam - be prepared to feel like a tornado has hit for the next few weeks - some how I don't think you'll mind!

(Must go - at work and really should not be on this site!)
Me 39 PCO - TTC since Aug 05
2 IVF/ICSI, 2 FET. All BFN
BFP Oct 07

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Post by LauraLou »

Carolyn,

I am so, so happy for you!!!!! Can't wait to see pictures!

LauraLou
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1st IVF 5/06- BFP m/c
2nd IVF 9/06- BFP identical twin boys!!
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Post by Cocoa »

Carolyn... Been following your amazing story since the beginning, prayed for your BFP to stick and grow and I am so happy to hear he is here! Brilliant! and may God bless your wonderful sister for a speedy recovery and much love... and now it begins...the next amazing story...

xxxCocoa
1 son b. 1993 -TTC (again) for 12 years
BFP!-8/22-9dp5dt - 485 8/24-1272 8/27-4636
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Post by Xrayem »

Carolyn, I am so, so pleased for you! I am sorry that you had to see the horrors of the NICU but hopefully his stay will be a short one. Also sorry to hear that your sister needed a caesar but what an amazing gift she has given you. Treasure him, treasure her and congrat yourself on being so clever!

Love Em
TTC 5yrs - Unexplained Infertility
3xIUI's (April, June & Aug 06) - BFN,s
1st IVF - Oct 06 - Jasper & Finlay born 07/06/07
Natural preg - Addison Grace born 15/10/08
CarolynB
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Post by CarolynB »

Hi Ladies

Thank you for all the messages of support & congratulations. You have been such a fab support to me throughout the last 4 years.

Look at my ticker!!!!!!!!!!!! We made it and we are a family.

Came out of hospital with Sam and my sister on Sunday after almost a week. My sister is doing really well in terms of her recovery both emotionally and physically. She truely has been amazing :D

Being at home with Sam and my husband is so lovely. We keep pinching ourselves and can barely believe that he is ours and that nobody can take him away.

We really did get the fairytale ending and for that I feel truely privilidged. The trauma of the birth is now fading for me as I guess it would do if I had been in my sisters shoes. All that matters is that she is doing well and we have Sam.

He is so scrummy. I could eat him. Everyone loves him and loves our story to get him. How do I post a picture???

Love to you all.
Carolyn xxxxxxxxxxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
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Post by sabi »

Carolyn B,
Congrats again! Sounds like everyone is doing just fine. Glad to hear you are all out of the hospital. You finally have your son home yeah! Sounds like motherhood looks good on you. Big hooray for your amazing sister- How lucky you all are to share this incredible bond. She's going to heaven. It doesn't get any better than that. You give us all hope Carolyn. Take care of yourself & your little guy. Thanks for popping in & giving us the news.

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Post by wishfull27 »

so glad you are all home safely after your epic journey to become parents it has finally happenede - am absolutely thrilled for you all!!

Can't help with technicalities of posting photo's sorry - but can't wait to see pictures!!

take care and giver sam a huge cuddle from his mummys namesake cyber aunty!!

lots of love

carolyn xxx
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Post by wishfull27 »

so glad you are all home safely after your epic journey to become parents it has finally happenede - am absolutely thrilled for you all!!

Can't help with technicalities of posting photo's sorry - but can't wait to see pictures!!

take care and giver sam a huge cuddle from his mummys namesake cyber aunty!!

lots of love

carolyn xxx
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Post by Angie65 »

Enjoy every minute Carolyn - you so deserve this happy ending - keep in touch when you can. :D
Me 39 PCO - TTC since Aug 05
2 IVF/ICSI, 2 FET. All BFN
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Post by beth »

Congratulations, Carolyn!!!!

I am so excited for you and your family!
Welcome Sam! Can't wait to see pictures......

beth
Me 37, Dh 44
1st IVF: BFP! DD born Jan.'07
1st FET: 2/08: BFN
2nd IVF: 6/08: BFN
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Post by jackoa21 »

Congratulations to all of you..Oh I am so thrilled for your whole family. Your sister gave you all an amzing gift and now you just get to be the happiest mommy arond.. Congratulations again and take a million pics.. They change and grow so quickly..
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Post by wishfull27 »

just seen you on line - hope all ok and you are jow into teh routine of motherhood - hope sam is being a good boy for mummy and daddy xxx
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