very sad,hpt negative

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yaskayra
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very sad,hpt negative

Post by yaskayra »

Hi Ladies, today its my day 13 post transfer and I did a home pregnacy test this morning, the result its negative, does any of you have negative and then positive, or its too early to test with the urine?
Please any advice?
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Tris
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Post by Tris »

Hi! Please DONT RELY so much on HPT especially since its your first test?? Blood test will tell you more...Good Luck and dont worry :)
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Post by yaskayra »

Thank you Tris, but sorry to tell you that but Im loosing my hope, today its my 14dpt and I did another test and it was negative too, I need to go for my blood test but I really dont want to go. Im very depressed, my 3rd cycle and still BFN
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Post by shelbyrn0214 »

I'm so sorry about the hpt, but please don't give up. Just stay positive! I talked to my IVF coordinator about doing hpts and her statement was this, "I've seen a lot of women have a negative hpt in the morning and come in here for the b/w the same afternoon and be pregnant". Just keep that in mind and keep your head up! I'm crossing my fingers for you! ((hugs))
me- 31 with no known issues
DH - 38 vasectomy 12 yrs
IVF#1 - 4/20/2009 - BFN
FET 5/20/2009 m/c due to blighted ovum
IVF#2 - 9/23/09. Betas-244, 592, & 3753
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yaskayra
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Post by yaskayra »

Thanks Shelbyrn for your support, I will take it easy because there its nothing that I can do to change it, I will keep praying until I had my blood test results. Thanks again.
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Post by dogzrule »

I just prayed for you, that you would see a miracle of God when you go in for your blood test. Hold on dear! Who's report will you believe? :D
Me-36,DH-43
1st IVF July 2009 - BFP! 9dp5dt: 31;11dp5dt: 77;14dp5dt: 214; 18dp5dt: 548; 21dp5dt: 1883. DD born 3/30/2010
1st FET July 2011- BFP! 8/3 beta: 178, 8/5 beta 455. DD born 4/4/2012
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Post by Tris »

yeskayra....dont give up...I did 6 IVF´s = 4 pgs but 3 of the pg´s didnt work, ecto, mc, etc. but still I stayed positive...now I had an FET (the 6th IVF) with only ONE embie and its another BFP which looks GREAT (im 2 months now)....Once I did an HPT and got a negative but my blood test said otherwise, thats why I know theres HOPE...so just go and do the test for peace of mind :) Are you spotting or bleeding?? if not then chances are still great...hang in there and stay positive and dont give up if you have to do another cycle....you´ll get there....
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Post by yaskayra »

Hi Tris, thank you a lot for your support, make me feel better, Im not bleeding yet eventhought I stopped the pio shots and suppositories 2 days ago, I will go tomorrow for my blood test if still not bleeding. Also, I dont have any symptoms yet, do you experience something like that or no, I know that every women react different.
Thanks again and i will stay positive until the end, there still HOPE :D
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Post by shelbyrn0214 »

Did your Dr. instruct you to stop the meds?????
me- 31 with no known issues
DH - 38 vasectomy 12 yrs
IVF#1 - 4/20/2009 - BFN
FET 5/20/2009 m/c due to blighted ovum
IVF#2 - 9/23/09. Betas-244, 592, & 3753
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yaskayra
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Post by yaskayra »

No I did by myself, he does not answer my calls and im very upset with him and his nurse, i need to see him tomorrow but like i said i dont want to go. Lets see what happen.
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Post by Tris »

Yes I think you should NOT stop meds until your doctor says so....When I first got the PG news I didnt feel anything!!! nothing! I was even shocked to know it was PG since there was only ONE, and even frozen, emby. Then after around 5th week I started feeling bad....now I am so sick! I even wrote a HELP message on the wall to get advise because my morning sickness is terrible...But this is all after many weeks, when I already did ultrasound and saw the sac....not a few days after transfer so dont worry if you dont feel anything now....Let us know the results tomorrow...Wishing you all the Luck! :)
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Post by yaskayra »

Thanks Tris, i will let you ladies know what happen, thanks to all of you for the support, it reallly feels good when you know that somebody its there for you. I really appreciate, Thanks!!!
shelbyrn0214
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Post by shelbyrn0214 »

PLEASE don't stop the meds based on that hpt! wait until the blood test! Will be praying for you!
me- 31 with no known issues
DH - 38 vasectomy 12 yrs
IVF#1 - 4/20/2009 - BFN
FET 5/20/2009 m/c due to blighted ovum
IVF#2 - 9/23/09. Betas-244, 592, & 3753
[img]http://lbdf.lilypie.com/uGJvm4.png[/img]
yaskayra
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Post by yaskayra »

Ay Shelbyrn, I did already Im was very depressed but still not period maybe I go back to the suppositories until the blood test tomorrow. Don't you think?
dogzrule
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Post by dogzrule »

You MUST get right back on your meds!!! They say very clearly to NOT stop, even if you get a negative on an HPT (which, as others have said here, is not reliable). They actually say to keep on your meds until the blood test, even if you get your period!!!
Me-36,DH-43
1st IVF July 2009 - BFP! 9dp5dt: 31;11dp5dt: 77;14dp5dt: 214; 18dp5dt: 548; 21dp5dt: 1883. DD born 3/30/2010
1st FET July 2011- BFP! 8/3 beta: 178, 8/5 beta 455. DD born 4/4/2012
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