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Announcement of pregnancy and birth following assisted reproductive treatment.
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elaine uk
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Post by elaine uk »

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Good bye girls at least for a time.
We lost Baby B yesterday 16 weeks and 1 day and 2 little stretch mark kisses left for Mammy and Daddy.

Thank you for all your replies on the last post.

Dagny: hope to meet you on this side soon
Traci: keep that candle burning
Mimmi: thanks for posting and good luck
Tracey: good luck with the twins and let me know how long the loo roll is
Dawn: will be thinking of you in October - Good Luck
and any others I forgot.

Elaine and DH
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phil
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Post by phil »

elaine,

i am so sorry to read your sad update. it's devastating news and my thoughts are with you and dh.

phil x
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Post by Tracey S »

Elaine

Words fail me - I was so hoping you could get through this to have your fairy tale ending - I was about to post about my scan and feel awful now but know you would want me to enjoy my pg.
Take some time out to mourn - I needed to and I truly hope you can both find your dream one day................
With love and deepest thoughts
Tracey
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ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
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Post by Juliana »

Elaine,
I am so very sorry and terribly sad to hear about your loss. I was also hoping that your baby would recover. i cannot imagine how devastated you and dh must be. Lots of love from me in this so very difficult time.
love XXXXX
juliana
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Post by alisonn »

eliane, im so sorry to read your post, my heart goes out to you at
this very sad time. alisonnxx
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Post by Lizzy67 »

Elaine ~ i was so hoping for you,

You and DH take care,

Much love, Lizzy xx
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Post by Helen Reid »

Elaine

I was so sorry to read your news my heart goes out to you both.

Helen
Age 27
I.V.F started in 2001. 1st cycle +ve mc nov 2001 at 12 weeks. Fet mar 2002 +ve then -ve.
2nd cycle +ve eptopic oct 2002 6 weeks.
fet mar 2003 -ve. 3rd cycle over stimulated embies frozen. Fet nov 2003 +ve due 11/8/04.
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Post by Wibbs1 »

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Oh Elaine, I'm so sorry I was just talking about you last night to my DH, and was hoping all was well...you must be devestated, as Tracey said you must take time to mourn, did they give you any indication of the sex, so you can name you little one, I think it would help a little.....but whatever S/HE is now a Baby Angel and will grow up in the sprit world, and will always be with you in your heart.
Take care and we are all saddned by this news.....my heart goes out to you and your DH.

Love
Wibbs
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Post by Jules R »

Elaine, I'm so sorry to hear your news. Like the other girls, I was praying that things might have the slightest chance of working out and it's a tragedy that you will never get to know your little one.

Look after yourself. You and your DH are in our thoughts.

Jules
TTC 5 years. Daniel & Charlotte born 22.03.02, 1st ICSI treatment. TTC for 4 further years. 2nd ICSI cycle abandoned, 3rd cycle BFN. Looking forward to being a happy family of 4.
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Post by Dawn V »

Dear Elaine
I'm so sorry to read your sad news. I really hoped it would all work out for you.
Your precious little one will always be with you.
Love to you and your dh
Dawn
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Post by bubblymichelle »

Elaine,

I am so sorry to read your news, words fail me, and no matter what words was spoke they wouldn't make you feel good at this sad time. My thoughts are with you and your DH, please take as much time as you need, we will always be here for you.

Take Care
Love
Shell.
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Post by Annie »

Dear Elaine and dh,
I just wanted to add my condolances to the others. Im really sorry.
love Annie
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Post by Dagny »

Dear Elaine and DH

My heart and thoughts are with you both at this terribly sad time. I was so hoping things would turn out for the better and when I saw your post my heart sank. I know exactly what you are going through and you must take time to mourn the loss of your little one.

You will be going through so many different emotions right now and it is only natural to feel the anger as well as the extreme sadness. If you need to chat feel free to email me at anytime, I am happy to help you through this if you need anyone. Also feel free to come over to the other board 'Babies loved and lost' where you can talk about how you feel.

I really am so truely sorry that this has happened and your precious baby will be looked after in heaven along with Katelyn and Oliver and all the other precious babies up there. Another gorgeous angel looking down and watching over us.

Thinking of you lots, take care Elaine.

Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Post by Zed2003 »

I just wanted to say how very, very sorry I am to hear your sad news and to let you know I'm thinking of you. Take very good care of yourself.

Love
Zoe x
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